Should I Sleep with him? Advice very appreciated!

Hahaha you're a gem, you're going to sleep with him anyways....why bother asking?

We're all assholes at some point or another. Some are just more consistent.

lol @ this post.

Posted by brianafay
Hahaha you're a gem, you're going to sleep with him anyways....why bother asking?

word up.

Posted by ellessque

This is why I lol'd

oo i love back stories. its like a prequel.

In which he responded "Well, sex makes 2 people closer, and they want to see eachother more", he also said the cliche "I have needs" and the "I dont think u like sex". He later in the night apologized for saying that stuff and said that he's just really attracted to me and he's just really frustrated.

BINGO

I read the prequel and now im ready to respond. Either sex him out of control or give him up to a sista like moi! a man who only wants to see me 4 times a week? excellent! i would love that arrangement. hmm, maybe i should try dating another aqua. where does this aqua live at? how old is he?

Posted by QuietSt0rm
I just get the impression that you're creating drama that's not even there. Typical of a gemini.

yeah drama, drama, drama. yeah you gotta make up your mind.

Posted by CappyyLuv30
I guess my 2 cents are simply....if you have to ask, "Should I Sleep with him?", that's already a bad sign.

but the topic did intrigue you a bit right?

yeah only 10 days in between the 2 postings. i think your going to have to go your seperate ways on this one. leave the aqua man to himself. hes probably has a massive case of blueballs.

@aquagirl24:

You need some sleep. You think everything here is negative then why you bother going into the topic to receive the negative energy here? If you're tired of "bad" people then stay away from them, why seeking and engaging in the battle? Unless you like the challenge yourself but only when you win or have the last word at everything. All I see is you being cheated or hurt probably by an Aqua guy and now you call all Aqua guys bad and even accused me being an Aqua man( Geez, do you even know me in real life?)

Bottom line: Noone is affecting you. Just you're paranoid and fear of openning up. That leads you to even more pain in the future because you don't live fully in the present. Everyone is being judmental now and then but to be negative just because of your "mood" doesn't get you anywhere. You just said alot people bad and now you want to become one of them too? Really go on a vacation and reflecting on why you're so depressed and worrying all the time.Thank you.

lol @ thank you

i say have some good sex. it may help you with your thinking process. it always helps mine.

Posted by DMV
In which he responded "Well, sex makes 2 people closer, and they want to see eachother more", he also said the cliche "I have needs" and the "I dont think u like sex". He later in the night apologized for saying that stuff and said that he's just really attracted to me and he's just really frustrated.

BINGO

I read the prequel and now im ready to respond. Either sex him out of control or give him up to a sista like moi! a man who only wants to see me 4 times a week? excellent! i would love that arrangement. hmm, maybe i should try dating another aqua. where does this aqua live at? how old is he?

You want a guy that wants to see you only twice a week once you are sleeping with him? Send me your address and I will send him your way! lol

Posted by aquagirl24

Posted by DMV
yeah only 10 days in between the 2 postings. i think your going to have to go your seperate ways on this one. leave the aqua man to himself. hes probably has a massive case of blueballs.

lol@blueballs...

deep blue.

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He hasn't left with blueballs since like the 5th date. There are other ways to get a guy off besides sex....

Posted by ellessque
lol LOL

you post a thread asking of you should sleep with him but needed no guidance on whether you should give him head or not.

gemini's are too much.

this shit is so funny. i'm so entertained right now.

I was referring to a hj, which I gave him after our 5th or 6th date and have given him one everytime the sutuation "arises", so he never leaves with blue balls. He seems to like them, doesnt complain or ask for more, until this past weekend...hence why I am writing this post!

Posted by Gemini1984

Posted by DMV
In which he responded "Well, sex makes 2 people closer, and they want to see eachother more", he also said the cliche "I have needs" and the "I dont think u like sex". He later in the night apologized for saying that stuff and said that he's just really attracted to me and he's just really frustrated.

BINGO

I read the prequel and now im ready to respond. Either sex him out of control or give him up to a sista like moi! a man who only wants to see me 4 times a week? excellent! i would love that arrangement. hmm, maybe i should try dating another aqua. where does this aqua live at? how old is he?

You want a guy that wants to see you only twice a week once you are sleeping with him? Send me your address and I will send him your way! lol

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yeah girl. i need my freedom. i only need a boyfriend 4 days out of the week.

Posted by aquagirl24

Posted by DMV
i say have some good sex. it may help you with your thinking process. it always helps mine.

sex causes more stress as you release cortisone in the bloodstream. that is also why people who fuck to young have a lot of wrinkles, cortisone gets into the radical chain reaction and produces free radicals, which can be toxic.

this is the pharmacology of sex. cortisone.

why people are exhausted after it is this reason, cortisone.

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i disagee 100% . the more sex the better. sex also release good things into the body and is a stree reliever.

Posted by ellessque
lol LOL

you post a thread asking of you should sleep with him but needed no guidance on whether you should give him head or not.

gemini's are too much.

this shit is so funny. i'm so entertained right now.

i like the shit out of this post.

Posted by Gemini1984

Posted by ellessque
lol LOL

you post a thread asking of you should sleep with him but needed no guidance on whether you should give him head or not.

gemini's are too much.

this shit is so funny. i'm so entertained right now.

I was referring to a hj, which I gave him after our 5th or 6th date and have given him one everytime the sutuation "arises", so he never leaves with blue balls. He seems to like them, doesnt complain or ask for more, until this past weekend...hence why I am writing this post!

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a handjob— a handjob—

lol @ he seems to like them.

Posted by ellessque
so, what did you get in return?

took the words out of my mouth. what are you getting from him?

Posted by ellessque
carpel tunnel?

roflmao.

lol @ carpel tunnel.

Posted by aquagirl24

Posted by DMV

Posted by aquagirl24

Posted by DMV
i say have some good sex. it may help you with your thinking process. it always helps mine.

sex causes more stress as you release cortisone in the bloodstream. that is also why people who fuck to young have a lot of wrinkles, cortisone gets into the radical chain reaction and produces free radicals, which can be toxic.

this is the pharmacology of sex. cortisone.

why people are exhausted after it is this reason, cortisone.

i disagee 100% . the more sex the better. sex also release good things into the body and is a stree reliever.

ok and can you prove it?

i answer for you: no.

so ur opinion counts nothing and u r on ignore. disagreeing for the taste of disagreeing on facts is stupid.

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hell yeah i can prove it. im living proof. SEX IS GOOD. HAVE MORE OF IT! i certainly wasnt not disagreeing just to disagree. i actually disagree with you. it happens you know in life, people do disagree with one another.

Posted by aquagirl24

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Posted by DMV

Posted by ellessque
so, what did you get in return?

took the words out of my mouth. what are you getting from him?

Sticky fingers

hahahahahaha, u r being subjective.

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naw hes being nasty and i likee

Posted by DMV

Posted by Gemini1984

Posted by DMV
In which he responded "Well, sex makes 2 people closer, and they want to see eachother more", he also said the cliche "I have needs" and the "I dont think u like sex". He later in the night apologized for saying that stuff and said that he's just really attracted to me and he's just really frustrated.

BINGO

I read the prequel and now im ready to respond. Either sex him out of control or give him up to a sista like moi! a man who only wants to see me 4 times a week? excellent! i would love that arrangement. hmm, maybe i should try dating another aqua. where does this aqua live at? how old is he?

You want a guy that wants to see you only twice a week once you are sleeping with him? Send me your address and I will send him your way! lol

yeah girl. i need my freedom. I only need a boyfriend 4 days out of the week.

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Yea, maybe 4 days a week. But 2, sometimes 1—

Posted by PeriThePiscesKing
She's a lady...

WOAH WOAH!!

She's a lady...

She's AN AIR SIGN!!!

And the lady is mine!!! (and half the town).

Posted by DMV

Posted by Gemini1984

Posted by ellessque
lol LOL

you post a thread asking of you should sleep with him but needed no guidance on whether you should give him head or not.

gemini's are too much.

this shit is so funny. i'm so entertained right now.

I was referring to a hj, which I gave him after our 5th or 6th date and have given him one everytime the sutuation "arises", so he never leaves with blue balls. He seems to like them, doesnt complain or ask for more, until this past weekend...hence why I am writing this post!

a handjob— a handjob—

lol @ he seems to like them.

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He does! Sometimes I give him 2 in a row....i don;t know, now that I think about it maybe he is strange....

Posted by ellessque
carpel tunnel?

roflmao.

Posted by ellessque
so, what did you get in return?

Whatever I want....well physcially. What I want though is exclusivity which he hasnt brought that up yet. So I guess we have a mexican stand off....

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Posted by brianafay
Hahaha you're a gem, you're going to sleep with him anyways....why bother asking?

word up.

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haha just keep it real

wow! wtf!??!?!

you set yourself for nothing while all the while proclaiming you desire an exclusive relationship and you wonder why he's being distant.

women are dumb as ape shit.

i fucking hate you. i hope he reduces his time with you to 1.3 times per week and begins dating some fat, ugly chick named bella.

Posted by caligula
wow! wtf!??!?!

you set yourself for nothing while all the while proclaiming you desire an exclusive relationship and you wonder why he's being distant.

women are dumb as ape shit.

i fucking hate you. i hope he reduces his time with you to 1.3 times per week and begins dating some fat, ugly chick named bella.

Posted by QuietSt0rm
LMAO@ Tubby.. she's so cut-throat.

@Gemini, nobody really cares that you haven't humped the boy. (although I really don't understand why you're beating his meat if you're not ready to pump on him yet. If you're gonna make the man wait, make his ass sweat it out. No cheating.)

I think people are more amused by the fact that YOU set these standards at the beginning of the relationship. You told him from jump that this is how you wanted it to be. Then, you change your mind and you expect him to JUMP. How selfish are you? Is it always about you??

You set the tone at the beginning of the relationship. He adjusted and gave you what you wanted. And now you're bitching and crying because he won't readjust to your latest terms and conditions. I think that's more amusing than the fact that you haven't humped the kid. And no, I don't think that you should.

Aquarius are fixed signs by the way. Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it. (and be stuck there)

1. I was born in 82, 82 was "taken".
2. Well, the main reason I set those "standards" in the beginning is bc part of me does really want a relationship and to get close to someone, but part of me wants my freedom and is afraid of rejection. So by me telling him I didnt want to see him very much was my indirect way of telling him I don't like him that much, hence not opening myself up to rejection.
3. I really like him and we get along really well , I'm strange in that i only find maybe one guy every few years that I really like (focus mostly on mental attraction). I guess I'll just come to the realization that i ruined this potential relationship, and wait for the next guy I like, maybe 2014 but at least I learned my lesson not to think one thing and say another!

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Posted by Gemini1984

Posted by PeriThePiscesKing
She's a lady...

WOAH WOAH!!

She's a lady...

She's AN AIR SIGN!!!

And the lady is mine!!! (and half the town).

Not all air signs are promiscuous. I've only been with 2 people and I'm 28!

yeah, but how many times with each?

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Honestly it was so many years ago, I dont even remember anymore....

Posted by QuietSt0rm
LMAO@ Tubby.. she's so cut-throat.

@Gemini, nobody really cares that you haven't humped the boy. (although I really don't understand why you're beating his meat if you're not ready to pump on him yet. If you're gonna make the man wait, make his ass sweat it out. No cheating.)

I think people are more amused by the fact that YOU set these standards at the beginning of the relationship. You told him from jump that this is how you wanted it to be. Then, you change your mind and you expect him to JUMP. How selfish are you? Is it always about you??

You set the tone at the beginning of the relationship. He adjusted and gave you what you wanted. And now you're bitching and crying because he won't readjust to your latest terms and conditions. I think that's more amusing than the fact that you haven't humped the kid. And no, I don't think that you should.

Aquarius are fixed signs by the way. Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it. (and be stuck there)

btw why do you think I should not sleep with this guy??

Posted by Gemini1984
I want to sleep with him, Im VERY attracted to him, and I like him ALOT but I just don't want to sleep with him if he's not serious and stringing me along. I've heard aquariuses get freaked out when you talk about commitment. So i dont want to have a "talk" with him and scare him off....

You MUST speak with him and tell him these things! At this point, you have no idea what sort of relationship you're even in. No sex until it's all sorted out and you're comfortable with the situation. If sex was the right course of action right now, it wouldn't be this confusing to decide.

Posted by ellessque
lol @ 1.3 times per week

funny

Posted by Gemini1984

Posted by QuietSt0rm
LMAO@ Tubby.. she's so cut-throat.

@Gemini, nobody really cares that you haven't humped the boy. (although I really don't understand why you're beating his meat if you're not ready to pump on him yet. If you're gonna make the man wait, make his ass sweat it out. No cheating.)

I think people are more amused by the fact that YOU set these standards at the beginning of the relationship. You told him from jump that this is how you wanted it to be. Then, you change your mind and you expect him to JUMP. How selfish are you? Is it always about you??

You set the tone at the beginning of the relationship. He adjusted and gave you what you wanted. And now you're bitching and crying because he won't readjust to your latest terms and conditions. I think that's more amusing than the fact that you haven't humped the kid. And no, I don't think that you should.

Aquarius are fixed signs by the way. Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it. (and be stuck there)

btw why do you think I should not sleep with this guy??

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stop asking US that question. were strangers. what do you want?

Posted by aquagirl24

Posted by brianafay
Hahaha you're a gem, you're going to sleep with him anyways....why bother asking?

u are a saggi u open ur legs after u drink a little. x. doesnt mean anything. stop insulting people or ur gonna get it from me.

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LOL aquagirl, well said!!

Posted by caligula
wow! wtf!??!?!

you set yourself for nothing while all the while proclaiming you desire an exclusive relationship and you wonder why he's being distant.

women are dumb as ape shit.

i fucking hate you. i hope he reduces his time with you to 1.3 times per week and begins dating some fat, ugly chick named bella.

LOL (minus the bella bit) The bella bit would of been a funny touch if you didn't mean what you meat, but i highly doubt that.

Very few people here don't appreciate your comedy. They just see angry crazy chick all the time that pisses me off.

actually i think ellessque does.

Idk...I have a bad feeling about him just by how much emphasis he seems to put on sex. I think you do too, which is why you're doubting sleeping with him. And no this hasn't been the first instance he has asked for it because I recall reading an earlier post (one out of several), explaining the same situation. Every week it's the same post, same words, same story, but just a different question from you.

Him saying, "Sex makes two people closer,"....are you kidding me? That is the most pathetic line I've heard in a long time from someone. Wow, just wow. You couldn't stamp the phrase "I'm running game" on his forehead to make it more obvious than that line right there. How bout you just buy him a T-shirt that says it so you can remind yourself every time you see him that that's exactly what he is doing. Him not responding on the weekends and only being available when he calls you.....mmm hmmmm....that ain't a red flag honey, that's a red stop sign.

Girl you know better than to deal with this foo and you feel it too. I suggest you continue waiting for the right guy to come along, because he just ain't the one.

aquagirl24 : got some sleep yet?

Gemini1984: Don't sleep with him if you aren't sure . There is no rule for when you need to sleep with someone.
wow, you posted just once here and look at all the people are arguing here. I'm starting to get paranoid now!

What ever happened to sex just for the sport of it ? if it was me i would chew him up and spit him out so to speak , then i would not call him because i wouldn't have too he would certainly be wanting more ... the ball would be in my court and there you have sport sex if your gonna play games i say kick it up a notch.

well if he is a 'sow those wild oats' kinda guy then you figured that out early on and so what you had a great time doing it hopefully or you found he was not a worthy opponent and you move on... if he was worthy and doesn't come back then you carry on. what if you wait all this time really fall for the guy and to find he has no DICK?
and honestly hand jobs with nothing in return should be paid for.