In Praise of Water Signs!

Well it's happened again! The Leo whom I have been interested eventually got his sh1t together and texted me last night to say sorry he'd been so rude in not talking to me sooner but is not ready to get "involved" at the moment and would like it if we could be friends as he enjoys my company very much. This text came after a week of me communicating with him casually with big pauses before responding and then asking him twice if he wanted to meet up on saturday night without him responding at all. This is also after I was with him in the biblical sense last saturday night. I texted him back to say that I don't need jerks for friends and to f*ck off. A bit harsh? I don't think so. I think the "wanting to be friends" bit was just his way of cushioning the blow. And if he didn't want to get involved, then he also felt the same way directly before he gave me a rose the saturday night before and asked me back to his place and therefore could've told me there and then instead letting me feel crazy and wondering what's up.

And sorry to dampen the myth but this particular Leo did not have a big d1ck by any stretch of the imagination (in his case HE's the big dick!)

Anyway anyway that's not the point of this post. I like listening to different music depending on my moods and spirits and I happened to be playing Tori Amos's Little Earthquakes album. I've been playing the track "Tear in Your Hand" about 15 times now and it's been really therapeutic to sing along to. It got me thinking that a lot of water sign singers are great at expressing musically various different emotions, including those you feel when you've been dumped! Another water sign singer that does it for me in the same way is Joni Mitchell (like the WHOLE of her album BLUE).

So I gotta say that there's an upside to these signs too 🙂

lol

That's a great idea. But I hardly belive it's good for "revenge".

aquaaqi: haha thanks for the funny imagery there! Ah no I just liked him and I
guess he didn't like me in the same way. But I don't think I should have just been all nice and accepting of his text. I'm kinda sick of this naughty behavior in men. I'm treating this with zero tolerance. No PC nicey nice MellowDee for this jerks annnnymore.

Thanks capgirl. Ah well....let him prowl off. I'm not ruling out other lions though but will have to handle with more care the next time 🙂

Primegen

That was gross.

Ah yes I think I'm gonna invest in a good whip...

" based on your description of his behavior, maybe his expectations were slightly askew from your"

Sorry SagiTAUries I'm afraid that theory doesn't wash with me. I've known him for a few months now, was attracted to him, not enormously at first, and he was to me, he acted a bit weirdly in the weeks before I was actually slept with him. It was like he was in a bad mood, not sure if it was with me or someone else. He knew I liked him too. So I haven't a clue WHAT were his expectations of doing that unless he just wanted to fu*k me over. All he did was spoil a friendship and hurt me. And if he just wanted a shag then there really are easier, less messy ways of achieving this goal.

The closest explanation I can get to for this type of behavior is that it's the results of evolutionary malfunctioning in men: they have this instinctual urge in themselves to fu*k with the heads of women who have committed no crime except that they like them.

"The closest explanation I can get to for this type of behavior is that it's the results of evolutionary malfunctioning in men: they have this instinctual urge in themselves to fu*k with the heads of women who have committed no crime except that they like them."

I agree with you on that one MD. When Leo discovers or comes into his senses a realizes what a good woman you are remind him of what he did by sending him alot of Aqua-Air,.your choice hot or cold🙂😉 He removed himself because the best is yet to come to you🙂

girls tend to like guys who are assholes...

Perhaps this is true but very deep down in the subconscious. I didn't get the vibes that he disliked himself or had low self esteem, in fact he seems to be doing very well for himself and his career for his age.

I know it happens vice versa, that women are repelled from men who like them. But the difference is that generally a woman wouldn't be interested in being sexual with them in that case. That's where the "Fu*k" in "Fu*king someone over" comes in 🙂

"When Leo discovers or comes into his senses a realizes what a good woman you are remind him of what he did by sending him alot of Aqua-Air,.your choice hot or cold He removed himself because the best is yet to come to you"

Blueaqua: that's a really nice thing to say. Thanks 🙂