Lookin' for Trouble...

I've done it again! I've stayed away from Aqua men for years, but I found myself another one of you quirky wonderful creatures to interest me.

It's fledgling, it's really really early, just about a week. But so far, he calls everyday, he wants to see me all the time. There's that wonderful connection, that feeling of a perfect fit that almost always happens between Libras and Aquas.

I'm really getting ahead of myself and feeling pretty head-over about this guy. Talk me down! Give me some mantras if you have them, that I can repeat to myself over and over before this blows up in my face.

(Secretly, instinctively, I don't think it will. I think he's for real. And I'm crazy about him. Yikes!)

Well if you convince yourself that astrology is the reason things do/do not work out between you & someone else MORESO than you allow the individual people involved to take some accountability, then whether a person is right for you or not won't matter b/c things won't work out, either b/c they weren't meant to OR b/c even if they were, you wouldn't allow them to. Yes, Aqua & Libra pairings can be EXPLOSIVE sometimes b/c the compatibilty & instant chemistry can be mind boggling, especially to both signs, considering they rarely experience such a connection with others at such a deep level or at such a fast pace. If you feel that this guy is sincere with you then just let things grow. Don't go look for reasons to run away. Don't look for flaws in something that isn't broken or flawed b/c if you do that then technically, your losses with him (and possibly others) would be on account of insecurities/fears vs. merely someone's astrological sign. Just allow things to happen! Just go with the flow! When you're in the moment & when it feels good to be in the moment, just allow those moments to continue. Don't click the "pause" button or purposely go messing up your own cloud 9, especially considering alot of people these days would DIE to feel/experience such a connection & fireworks that Libra/Aqua pairings experience. Just live in the moment. Don't worry about the "what ifs" or those in your past whom didn't work out. He's not all those other guys from your past no different than just b/c you might be a Libra/Aqua doesn't mean that you're anything like any of the girls from his past. Give eachother that credit so that you don't mess up a good thing just for the sake of messing it up just B/C it's a good thing. Good luck ;~P

Thanks ladies...I have jumped! Full in, I feel so good about him, about what's happening. Just good, happy, beautiful, excited, all of that.

It's pretty wonderful.

You're right krysrenee - I try not to focus on difficulties for astrology, things that can make or break are dependant on much more important aspects than just Libra / Aqua.

I am looking for away to slow my own feelings down - I am feeling great, so happy, giddy, like high school again, but it's frightening. I so rarely feel this way, and never so quickly about somebody, I'm left wondering if I'm not getting too swept up with myself. I'm certainly not predicting it will fail (a fear, yes, but logical at this point). I just feel out of control, I guess....

Hey I understand that. That's why they say, "When it's too good to be true, it usually is." I'm guessing that saying is true b/c sometimes we can get so caught up in the bliss of the moment that our logic (that we might've needed next week) completely goes away. BUT, the good thing in all of this though is that it's possible for you to still be happy & enjoy the moment BUT yet keep some logic & caution in your brain at the same time. It doesn't always have to be 1 or the other (either completely happy & blind/dumb OR completely afraid/not happy). It's all about finding that balance. If he's making you feel good, then allow those good feelings to enter into your life & allow those good moments to store themselves in your memory so that even if things don't work out, you'll always remember when things were good. The problem though is that so many people are afraid of their own strength. We spend our entire lives looking/seeking the very things that give us the types of feelings (happiness/joy/bliss) that you're experiencing. And the minute they actually experience what they wanted, they suddenly start to question anything good that comes their way since they were so used to always seeking & never finding. As the saying goes, be careful what you wish for b/c you just might get it. And hey, things STILL may not work out months/years down the road BUT still, that's not a good enough justification or reason to stop the show. Don't fix what's not broken. Be happy but at the same time, it's still okay to acknowledge that you've still got a few fears & insecurities that you're working on. Just jump in & enjoy this while you can but at the same time, don't let you jumping in & allowing yourself to finally be happy have any association with anything negative. Like I told you earlier, if you can't find anything wrong, that's not code for "go look for something." Just be grateful that unlike most people, you actually HAVE the chance to experience something most of us are STILL looking for. It's scary especially when we're so used to different outcomes, BUT it IS possible. Good luck girlie!