Im a capricorn woman, and I always seem to be attracted to Aquarius men. I was recently seeing this guy and he was so romantic, and charming. We both had this great attraction for each other and wasnt afraid to tell it. Starting hanging out being friends then we cross that line into intimacy. As a capricorn woman who wants stablity, its hard for me to go with the flow of things sometimes... but I was so intrigued by him. I let my assumptions of his aloofness get to me. And became a little pushy so we actually decided to be friends only again. I have began to relax more with him and be his friend, but nothing has changed between us except no intimacy. We talk everyday and still tell each other how we feel. Wonder will things ever get back to the way they were?? I dont know but regardless I'll always want him as a friend but I truly want him as my lover...OH he drives me crazy
I don't think you have much chance with him .You haven't given out much details though.What did you do to 'scare' him away exactly? Did you guys have sex? Did he say to like you more than just a physical attraction?
Guess I didnt give alot of details. We met eight months ago have been just casual friends til he approached me and said he felt a deeper feeling for me than friends. I always felt the same but wasnt going to make the first move. So anyways, we dated, hang out and then cross that line eventually. Yes we discussed how we felt and no its not just a physical attraction. Everything was cool except that we both have busy schedules and it was always hard for us to hang out. And when I said that I was becoming frustrated with that he decided that we should be friends only. And for the fact that sometimes he would be like day and night. WHen I mean day and night I mean cool but then disappear. One day flirty and romantic then the next just ordinary, that didnt really bother me thats just his nature I guess. It was just us not spending time together. Im not going to lie at times I want more but I wasnt going to rush anything.
So since our friends only talk (which was only a month ago) we have both agreed that we misread each other in alot of ways, because I didnt want him to think I was being clingy because I wasnt its just really hard to spend time together. Sometimes its him and then sometimes its me thats not able to. Being the Aqua he is they dont like to talk about anything thats maybe a little uncomfortable so I dont bring it up unless he does. But otherwise we still are great friends, like I know I still care about him and he told me he still cared about me. But thats as far as it goes. No more kissing or intimacy since our firends only talk. And that could be me also because I dont want to be the one who makes the first move, so Im waiting for him to but Ill just be his friend as usaual.
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I have began to relax more with him and be his friend, but nothing has changed between us except no intimacy. We talk everyday and still tell each other how we feel. Wonder will things ever get back to the way they were?? I dont know but regardless I'll always want him as a friend but I truly want him as my lover...OH he drives me crazy