My aqua friend, do I have a chance ?

I'm scorpio sun Sagitarius moon girl who has the "luck" of finding aquas very interesting and make very good friends with them, I just make click with aquas so easy that the majority of my close friends are aquas. I only had 2 relationships in the past and they were both aquas, and now I fell for another one *sigh

First of all, sorry If I don't make myself clear, english is not my first language.

As I was saying, I have this aqua friend who is like the very perfect definition of an aquarius in everything, the experience I have with my other aquas is nothing compared to him, and I want to know if we can be somthing more 😢

He is in the 'I don't want a relationship now' state, cause he is dealing with college, going abroad to study and some stuff, in all the time we've been friends he just kissed with a girl almost 2 years ago, and told me almost right away, yeah we are close like that.

We don't live in the same city but spend a lot of time together, more over skype, we just make the call and can easily spend 10 hours in a call, talking from time to time, most of the time in silence doing what we have to do, he say he likes the sound of being with me even though we are not saying anything, is a very comfortable silence. A couple of days ago he was filling an aplication and he had to describe what his likes, he wrote some stuff ending with a "and I like people who I can be in a comfortable silence with" and showed to me.

He says out of the blue that he likes me or love me, that I'm pretty, he flirt a lot but then I get confused when he say that I'm his best friend or he don't like me like that, but then introduce me or talk about me to his other friends and family, when I get to know them they are like "oh you are the famous Dori"; When he say that I know him better than he know himself or that he doesn't know what would he do without me. We have this internal joke that we tell other people, that we are an old married couple, because we fight a lot (he ALWAYS want to do the opposite of what I want or ask) and don't have sex.

He is always making fun of me, in a friendly way of course, poking me, "trolling" me, I do the same to him. He always try to make me laugh and he gets a little jealous when I'm not available, he jokingly ask if I'm cheatting on him or if I don't love him anymore. He told me recently that he hope I don't find somebody like him so I can't change him.

He has this beautiful personality and a lot of girls like him, most of

He has this beautiful personality and a lot of girls like him, most of them try to get close to me so I can help them get with him ... never works, but he always say that I have to introduce him to someone like me, when he describe his perfect woman, she has so much in common with me. We are going on vacations together with other friends and we were talking about the last vacation we had and he said 'almost no time' in a yearning voice, as I was sleepy and he has a lot of plans for this coming weeks, I asked 'for what?' he changed his voice and said 'I don't know'.

So I don't know, I've seen him with other girls friends and he is not that open like he is with me but then I feel like one of the male friends. We don't talk about emotional things a lot and when I'm feeling "too much like a woman" he make fun of me even harder, but if I'm sad he has to know and get me out of that. We hug and touch each other a lot, he sleep in my legs, play with my hair, take my arm and hand when walking ... but those are things he do with anyone else. When we are in a group he speak just to me and want to have my undivided attention.

So i don't know if it's me trying to see more than it is, if he is sending me mixed signals or what ... some light please?
I'll be happy with him in my life either way, as a friend or more than that.

If you're his best friend you have a very high chance of official lovey-dovey stuff happening (when he's ready, of course!) 🙂

There aren't any mixed signals (from what I can tell) - nothing out of the ordinary.

Posted by Yppah
If you're his best friend you have a very high chance of official lovey-dovey stuff happening (when he's ready, of course!) 🙂

There aren't any mixed signals (from what I can tell) - nothing out of the ordinary.

Nothing out of the ordinary? so he is just being friendly? :/

My aqua ex was nothing like him, he was the introvert type of aqua, he did not have all this afection display for other girls so he was very easy to read.

Thanks

ANy other answer, please?

what are his placements and yours??

Posted by lisabethur8
what are his placements and yours??

I'm sorry I don't understand. What do you mean by placement?

Thing is I don't want to scare him by asking straight forward, I know how direct I can be being scorpio and all, and for sure I know how easy you can scare an aqua. I want him to know that I'm interested if he is, but I can be his friend if he is not. I want him in my life either way.

So we've been together on vacation since thebegining of the month at his family house

We were walking on the beach with other friends and I held his hand, after that he is always looking for my hand to hold but in a very subtle way, like touching my fingers when we walk, trying to hold my hand if I'm close. We have walked miles holding hands and he touch and fondle my hand while at it, he offer his arm also. He is always touching me, more than ever, is not always a soft touch, sometimes is kind of rude like pulling my hair or squezing my body fat, but then he hugs me out of nowhere, a very long hug.

He always leans and is close invading my personal space, touching my face and hair, saying he doesnt like my hair or face. He had to go for 3 days due to work and we have this 'interaction' where he tease me and i 'hit' him (not hard of course) and I said that I would not hit him again untill he come back, and he said that this was a shame, cause he would tell his coworkers that his wife hit him.

But then he fart on me or put his fingers in my nose to find boggers, or put his boggers on my arm, sit on my back, wrestle with me and I feel one of the guys again.