My first...

Sexual encounter with a male Aquarius today. Last night he "got drunk enough to admit he's attracted to me." there's more to this story, but it's hella complicated. I'll share more once I hear about some of your experiences with an Aquarius male. Please reply!

Aquarius men are awesome!!! As long as you give them space and don't crowd them and don't expect a lot or romantic stuff and need to hear how they're feeling all the time.

Aqua sex is mysterious. Half the time you can't tell what the hell they are thinking while your doing it but then they do something its just mind blowing. They like space after though. I mean they will cuddle with you for a good 5 or 10 minutes but don't get offended when they shift over later on lol. But only to bring you back in closer when they've missed your touch.

Thanks for the replies. I'm still pretty new to this site, so any feedback I get is much appreciated. I told the full story on the Aries board. But, I have some questions for the aquarians! How do you typically get along with the rams? From what I've heard, Aquarians aren't really that emotional, the guy I'm into now doesn't seem that way, so what's an indicator that he might be interested in more than just a "fling", if you will?

In the beginning they appear that way. Once either of you start to have feelings is when the roller coaster begins and they seem to change. If they are into you its not that bad but you're left wondering and the insecurities come into play and you can't let it get to you.

Think of the Aquarius Man... as a man who despite what they seem on the surface are very sensitive human beings.

This is going to sound so nerdy but w/e... I'm a nerd so I don't really give a shit... watch that new Star Trek Movie and I'd say Spock's reactions to everything in that movie is how an Aquarius man is. Damn, smart non-emotional guys get hot babes no! Zoe Zeldana haha... anyways. Yeah, if you notice in the movie at times when emotions will only hinder his ability to perform he will detach them. Zoe actually get's very angry at him at a certain point over this in the movie.. but he says something profound in defense to her accusation. They kinda over do his detachment though when he makes the statement just gotta take the words I guess dunno. I'm unfortunately not as gifted as Spock at what he does but you know I can hang.

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You know I guess I didn't answer your question though did I!?

You are probably going to find it difficult to tell by his emotional expressions... The only way I know for sure is if he wants to spend A LOT of time with you... even if it is just as a "friend"

BUT sometimes they do things from a distance... your guess is as good as mine dear

sorry

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I agree with NYAA. When they do things for you, spend lots of time with you and contact you every day, they're into you. Does that help?

It's hard to comment without specific questions.

Oh, Aries, just so ya know, I'm not aqua and I'm not an expert, but my bf of over one year is aqua. I've dated two others and have many, many aqua friends.

Posted by truecap
In the beginning they appear that way. Once either of you start to have feelings is when the roller coaster begins and they seem to change. If they are into you its not that bad but you're left wondering and the insecurities come into play and you can't let it get to you.

I don't mean this in a negative way. Just saying, it could happen and stay strong and don't be insecure. Aqua men like confident, bold, independent women. Insecurity and neediness will be a turn off. If he does detach or disappear for a day or two, don't freak out over it. They need a lot of space and sometimes they need to step back and process.

I'm sure the aquas here will correct me if I say something erroneous. 🙂

Sounds good so far - do you know his other placements?

Hey! Thanks for these other replies. All I know is that he's an Aquarius Sun, Aries Moon, and Cancer Ascendant. I'm an Aries Sun, Pisces moon, and Gemini Ascendant. He spends as much time/hangs around me as often as he can. He texts me pretty much constantly, and he even said that if I don't text him he wonders why (i do try to be kind of elusive). He could just be using me for sex. Which, I'm not completely opposed to. We're really good as friends, so I don't mind involving benefits. I guess I was just curious to know if we had any potential to be more. What do you guys think now that you know a bit more about his other placements? (x

Where is his venus and mars?

If he says he is attracted to you specially when he is drunk that means he just wants to bang you. If you really wants him then you should develop your IQ level even if he is dump he will get turn on with your vast knowledge in different subjects that keeps him in his toes. If you are success in turning on his mind then trust me he is all yours forever.

Posted by truecap

Posted by truecap
In the beginning they appear that way. Once either of you start to have feelings is when the roller coaster begins and they seem to change. If they are into you its not that bad but you're left wondering and the insecurities come into play and you can't let it get to you.

I don't mean this in a negative way. Just saying, it could happen and stay strong and don't be insecure. Aqua men like confident, bold, independent women. Insecurity and neediness will be a turn off. If he does detach or disappear for a day or two, don't freak out over it. They need a lot of space and sometimes they need to step back and process.

I'm sure the aquas here will correct me if I say something erroneous. 🙂

Sounds good so far - do you know his other placements?

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Problem is though, if they vanish and then pop in, then that still isn't a clear way of knowing you matter to an Aqua. I mean im sure they act that way with friends too...so how are you supposed to know if you are special?