Well, I think you've done the right thing if I'm honest because you've understood the situation and allowed him time and space to think. It would appear that some doubts are creeping in with regards to his personal life, which, will of course affect other aspects of his life such as relationships and even friendships. From what I've read you do seem very positive about the future but of course it is natural to wonder what might happen and to see all the potential outcomes that could happen here. The main thing is to keep allowing him that time and to get on with your own life (which I'm sure you are doing anyway).
In the quiet moments I'm sure he is thinking about this and nit-picking every single detail. He has probably asked himself the same questions over and over again. I think he wants to be 100% certain. He wants to clearly give you what you deserve and he seems like the kind of the guy that doesn't wish to waste your time with empty promises. He wants to analyze the situation and his own life before he can commit. Good luck with this, I hope that it works out but like you said if it doesn't then there will always be another person around the corner.
Well that is fantastic news! I'm very happy for you to have got that phone call from him. I was going to mention in my earlier post that he might consider calling or texting you at some point! So I'm glad that he actually has because he has let you know what is happening. Like I said you went about this in the right manner - pressuring him would've just made him more distant. Instead you've allowed him some time and understood his reasons. You're right as well, it's very good to sort out certain things from the past so that you can move on.
No worries either, all the best for the future! 🙂
Thanks again for your words of encouragement and best wishes. I'm very glad that I went about this the right way. Of course, it was the only way I would have done it in the first place because that's just who I am...lol...there are suns signs out there that would have taken my jesture the wrong way, like I was abandoning them in their time of "need" so glad to know he is one of those signs that didn't take it as such. So much I have learned about a sign I didn't know all that much about....
Positive breeds positive as I always say, even when things get you down you still have to remember that eventually things WILL get better and that everything happens for a reason....it's something I wish we all could live by....here's to a happy future no matter what may come😉
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In the quiet moments I'm sure he is thinking about this and nit-picking every single detail. He has probably asked himself the same questions over and over again. I think he wants to be 100% certain. He wants to clearly give you what you deserve and he seems like the kind of the guy that doesn't wish to waste your time with empty promises. He wants to analyze the situation and his own life before he can commit. Good luck with this, I hope that it works out but like you said if it doesn't then there will always be another person around the corner.