Now blocked by Aquarius man

Posted by bumboklatt
Why o why do you need an apology?

Dump his ass . He's using you.

Posted by dolluxe
Are you sure you're a Libra? I would've dropped his ass a long time ago.

Posted by nakshatra

Posted by Librababes
I finally stood my ground with the Aquarius man I was seeing. He has said hurtful things each time we fall out and I'm sad to say this time I took myself to his level and did say some mean stuff back. I later messaged him and told him straight he needs to stop saying things about sleeping with other girls and not expect me to jump to conclusions when he has a girl in his car. I've finally told told him how I feel about him and he either comes and apologises or he keeps out my life for good. I'm now blocked on all social media etc he's even blocked my parents. He does this all the time to me when he's mad but never my parents. Will I ever get an apology?

Im going to speak from my experience, and not all aquas are the same. You stood up for yourself, good. Now, realize that aquarius is usually a sign that does not like confrontation, does not like expressed emotion, does not like feelings or anything of the sort. They have this sort of god complex and think they know everything and how to handle every situation and like to act like they know you and try to push your buttons. The last thing aquarius wants is for you to jump to conclusions and act like you know everything. Im not saying you should let aqua control the situation and let them have all the power. BUT, If you wanted to end things for good with aqua this is the way to go.

I see that you want an apology, you want him to come back, if this is the case you should have played him at his own game that he thinks he likes to play well - the hot and cold game. Its not a matter of blocking aquarius first, its a matter of going so quiet and so cold that they reevaluate the situation try to figure out whats wrong and come back. Stop trying to contact him, stop thinking about him, stop talking about him, let go. Completely let go. Men just know when you're holding on, and the more available you are to them, the more they will keep playing games and prolong this silliness. Its almost as if men are intuitive in that way. They know when you're done with them. When they start to feel like you are slipping out of their fingers and that your emotions are no longer controlling you, they feel like they've lost their effect or power over you. They come back after reevaluating things.

Now for aqua males of all signs, if you show a drop of emotion you are prolonging the stupidity, the more emotion you show the more they run away. Not sure if they come back, if he does it will be a VERY long time before he does come back. RIGHT NOW, let go. Tell yourself it would be nice if he came back, but he may not and that is also a possibility. You cannot control the situation, its not worth crying over. Point is he is not here and there isnt much you can do about it. Think of things to do that make you happy, make some plans NYE is around the corner. Do your own thing. When a man sees you taking care of yourself, independent, doing your own thing, they see that as appealing, the thing is you shouldn't be doing this to attract him back you should be doing this to HEAL YOURSELF. If you are doing this correctly - chances are by the time he comes back you have realized how happy you make yourself (yes its possible) probably dont want him, have attracted a much better man who suits your interests, HOWEVER you might get your apology and he might unblock you and whoever else.

I have had aqua men do the same. One in particular, felt he could boss me around, be rude to me, dangle other women infront of me acting like I wasn't special, he was rude and degrading. Ive tried everything to be his girlfriend. Ive tried pouring out my feelings to them, I have tried luring them every way possible. Im a scorpio moon, Im irresistible, but Ive learned Im ONLY like that when I don't try. Stop trying, give up, let go. Its difficult. But when you do it, they always come back. Mine came back and I found a beautiful man by then, and I saw a different side to the aqua. An aqua that wanted to give me the world, it took him 2 years to realize that I am the perfect woman, unfortunately, if it takes you 2 years to realize that you're trash lol. Even if I was single I didnt want him, because it shouldn't take you 2 years to realize Im worth it, you're not very bright and thats not very attractive. He saw the quality of the guy I was with, and he knew he couldn't compete. But he tried anyway, and failed miserably. He tried every game possible, at the end he poured out his feelings, felt stupid and vanished. Its painful now, but the quicker you start getting yourself together, the quicker you'll heal which is most important, maybe even before you heal 100% he might be back to play more games, that is a test, do not accept him, he just needs the attention and for you to feed his ego. You'll find that if you have healed 100% you dont want him as much anymore if you do, you dont jump at the chance to be with him if he offers.

Goodluck.

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Posted by Bricks195
He sounds like someone who lashes out when he's upset because he's secretly fragile and scared. Not saying that to make you feel sorry for him and try to get him back. He needs to learn how to treat people right. Leaving his ass should be a rewarding experience.

Posted by Librababes

Posted by Bricks195
He sounds like someone who lashes out when he's upset because he's secretly fragile and scared. Not saying that to make you feel sorry for him and try to get him back. He needs to learn how to treat people right. Leaving his ass should be a rewarding experience.

He acts like a child when he gets mad. He storms off blocks me on all social media but not before I get a tyrade of messages about how he sleeps about and I'm nothing special. Then he comes back and apologises it's a cycle that's been going on 6 months now.

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Posted by 4ever_confused
Don't wait for him. He's clearly telling you to piss off and this cycle will continue if you want to keep going through this and have him constantly hurt your feelings.

I've had to act like the way he does toward a few libra girls who tried way too hard to be my friend and even some ex-boyfriends who I was iffy about.

I'm an aqua girl.

It sounds evil, but mostly it's because we get annoyed over and over again and eventually shut down from anyone causing the annoyance.

Posted by Librababes

Posted by 4ever_confused
Don't wait for him. He's clearly telling you to piss off and this cycle will continue if you want to keep going through this and have him constantly hurt your feelings.

I've had to act like the way he does toward a few libra girls who tried way too hard to be my friend and even some ex-boyfriends who I was iffy about.

I'm an aqua girl.

It sounds evil, but mostly it's because we get annoyed over and over again and eventually shut down from anyone causing the annoyance.

He's had many chances to go I've never told him I wanted a relationship or anything. He's played these games for 6 months now on and off. It's off now and I'm blocked on everything yet again. I'm not having him come back again after the horrible things he said this last time. He likes going out and getting easy girls and ditching them straight away. I was never easy and he kept coming back again and again. Not this time because I've had enough he needs to grow up and stop treating girls like sh@t. Once a libra gives up that's it no more x

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