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Willie
@Willie
20 Years

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my problem is......it doesn't seem to matter what i'm doing.....even things i really like doing, i get bored very quickly with it....i always seem to want to move on to something else.....even if it's just a change of scenery....probably why i can't seem to keep a relationship going.....i end up sending them packing just from shear boredom !! i'm sure i will be single 'til the end !!
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Star
@Star
20 Years1,000+ Posts

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Hi Willie!

I get bored very easily and try to do too many projects at once as a result! It is not always as successful as it would be if I would just take one thing at a time!!! Life lesson for me here!

I do get bored with people and yet, they energize me....

It is like I do need time alone and yet, I also need time with people...

You sound like a strong person and I admire that...

I used to have a huge attitude...but, it stemmed from having been hurt...
what about you?

Being alone is OK...but, I have discovered being with someone you like is better!!

Maybe not for you..to each his own...

Take Care!
Star
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Willie
@Willie
20 Years

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Hi Star,

Being with someone is great but only in small doses.....i just can't imagine myself doing the 24/7 thing ever again !! i have been hurt before but not for many, many years and that is not the issue with me.....i just don't want to have to ''compromise'' with anyone and you have to do that when you're in a relationship so it's not fair to the other person to be in one. When I meet a guy, I tell him right up front....here's the deal....."i don't want a relationship, don't call me all the time and bug me and i will only see you when i want to''....so either they do bug me all the time or they bore me to death !! how do you win....i will just stay single....so far out of the two, single is winning by a long shot !! nice to talk to you !!

willie
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Willie
@Willie
20 Years

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hey star...!!...well i think most woman are frustrated because they don't use the brain they were given!!.....let's face it.....most woman see ''all'' the signs that it will not work out and plow ahead with it anyways hoping they can change them into what they want.....i see woman trying to do this all the time and i have ''never'' seen one work out....it's ridiculous and just asking to be frustrated and angry....i have no symphathy for woman who do this to themselves.......if you're going to settle then take what comes with settling and shut up or get out !! it's not the guys fault he didn't change 'his' life to suit hers.....there is no reason for there to be so many woman out there that think men are losers.....i have a great time with men and they treat me very well !!!...i'm not saying there aren't jerks out there but i think, we as woman, are responsible for alot of that perception.....and bottom line is....we ''don't'' have to put up with it !! sorry if i sound harsh but i just get upset when i see someone trying to fit a square object into a round hole and can't figure out why it doesn't fit......duh !! nice chatting with ya !!