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Please some some advice on this aquarius man.pt1
I would wait a bit...
Are you running somewhere now? i guess he will be back in few days.
I usually get lost on about week... then i come back like nothin had happened.
Each person is different and me or anyone cant know what he think/feel only him...
Are you running somewhere now? i guess he will be back in few days.
I usually get lost on about week... then i come back like nothin had happened.
Each person is different and me or anyone cant know what he think/feel only him...
Freaky, this guy has the same birthday as my Aqua hubby except for the year. All I can say is that your Aqua doesn't like talking on phone but if he does call you alot then he likes you alot or even loves you. On the other hand, if he doesn't call but still accepts your calls then you're a very special friend and he won't easily forget you. He likes nature and excercises and will always find a chance to do something. If he doesn't have outdoor activity then he'll be very depressed and can shut himself in surfing net for jokes and obscure facts. He's totally an airhead so even he has good intentions, he will still forget and think "I did it already" but it's all in his head only! Just like Aquaj said, he can forget time and totally obsessed with his work ( which is cute by the way! Got to give the man a coconut for having such devotion in something in life!) so while you think that he's a jerk and ignores you, he might already plan a whole grand trip for you and him and then completely forgets about it.
Having said all of this, I think this man likes you but he doesn't respect you. Did you make a mistake in the past? If he has a girlfriend as well, don't worry that he loves her, I think he doesn't love either of you and is just being mean because he is. In fact, he might have already lost his direction in life and is desperate for someone knocking some sense into his head but it has to be someone he trusts and respects. 10th Feb Aqua is kind, sentimental, hard-working and affectionate but if he lost his faith in life, he can be mean, cynical, arrogant and self-righterous, he will need some tough love and a spiritual guide. Are you sure that you want to go through all of this at 30 something?
Having said all of this, I think this man likes you but he doesn't respect you. Did you make a mistake in the past? If he has a girlfriend as well, don't worry that he loves her, I think he doesn't love either of you and is just being mean because he is. In fact, he might have already lost his direction in life and is desperate for someone knocking some sense into his head but it has to be someone he trusts and respects. 10th Feb Aqua is kind, sentimental, hard-working and affectionate but if he lost his faith in life, he can be mean, cynical, arrogant and self-righterous, he will need some tough love and a spiritual guide. Are you sure that you want to go through all of this at 30 something?
I've just finished your email, I think it'd take this guy days to read if he ever reads.
- What's up with the phone, network , ps2, etc? I wish you just wrote "It isn't fair that I call you alot and you rarely do"
- What's with "360 degree" ? Isn't it now the same position? (think of a circle). It's 180 degree you mean?
- What's with " I don't say much.... Observant.... Because I care...etc" You contradicted yourself with a long dramatic email. You said quite alot here. You let yourself in this mess for 10 years. It isn't exactly observant. It's more like pride thing. Also, if you care and are willing to "sacrifice", love and wait for this guy unconditionally like you wrote in the email, then why keeping a record of "who paid what?"
- Are you guys friends with benefits? If you are, don't think your friendship is that special or you have any special relationship. It's an in-between and "que sera sera" relation. Please don't expect a miracle.
Finally, based on what you wrote, I believe you're right on one thing: you find it hard to accept reality and like to pain colour in your life. This energy will be best to channel into stage acting. You'll be a brilliant stage performer or an artist. Please don't let this turbulent energy confuse you and push you into mundane love affairs that you find boring when things are so easy. You're obsessed with this guy because you want something challenging. It isn't true love.
- What's up with the phone, network , ps2, etc? I wish you just wrote "It isn't fair that I call you alot and you rarely do"
- What's with "360 degree" ? Isn't it now the same position? (think of a circle). It's 180 degree you mean?
- What's with " I don't say much.... Observant.... Because I care...etc" You contradicted yourself with a long dramatic email. You said quite alot here. You let yourself in this mess for 10 years. It isn't exactly observant. It's more like pride thing. Also, if you care and are willing to "sacrifice", love and wait for this guy unconditionally like you wrote in the email, then why keeping a record of "who paid what?"
- Are you guys friends with benefits? If you are, don't think your friendship is that special or you have any special relationship. It's an in-between and "que sera sera" relation. Please don't expect a miracle.
Finally, based on what you wrote, I believe you're right on one thing: you find it hard to accept reality and like to pain colour in your life. This energy will be best to channel into stage acting. You'll be a brilliant stage performer or an artist. Please don't let this turbulent energy confuse you and push you into mundane love affairs that you find boring when things are so easy. You're obsessed with this guy because you want something challenging. It isn't true love.
Oh. My. Word.
I just read your email to him. As a "rock-hard" aquarius myself and having a brother plus a handful of male friends who are aquas as well, I can tell you at least one thing here. If..and I do mean If..he read your mini-novel of an email, regardless of how he now or has ever truly felt about you, after reading that, he is absolutely treetrunking irritated and stressed out as well. Butter, I was stressed out myself after reading it, simply because I am, therefore think, like an Aqua. Actually, I'm willing to bet he was already stressed out LONG before the friendship turned sour. Aquas have (mostly..not every single one of us, lol) notoriously fine-tuned intuition when it comes to those close to us. You'd tell him you had a special friendship, and honestly and very innocently probably, came off as the ever-loyal friend. Then turn around time and time again, buying him all kinds of things, and leap over all kinds of mountains just to be in his presence, or at the very least, stay in touch on the phone. Most likely what you were telling yourself during all of this was that you were, in fact, very close friends. He saw something much deeper going on under the surface. The way you talked about "his new girlfriend" that he met on the bus, tells me he knew how you felt about her when he actually did meet her..he knew you were jealous. Being an aqua, he..for lack of a better phrase..chose to "play a mind game" by turning the tables around and accusing you of looking through his phone, etc. It only served to prove to himself that he was right.
I have no doubt that he had some real, true feelings for you, and most likely still does. However, out of everything I've just spilled out onto you, the biggest--absolute biggest--problem here is that for quite a long time he was trying to figure out how to handle the way you made him feel cornered and crowded, per say, and slowly started changing and doing odd things towards you as a true Aqua's way of saying "I'm having trouble breathing." Why take the cowards' way like he did? Because he does have some feelings for you. I can't say what they are, but just know that you were special enough to him to even bother playing such childish games.
Personally, I would give him some time and let him be the one to make first contact again. After the long beating you gave him in that letter, he's definitely going to need some real time to lick his wounds and decide what he needs, and wants, to do.
🙂
I just read your email to him. As a "rock-hard" aquarius myself and having a brother plus a handful of male friends who are aquas as well, I can tell you at least one thing here. If..and I do mean If..he read your mini-novel of an email, regardless of how he now or has ever truly felt about you, after reading that, he is absolutely treetrunking irritated and stressed out as well. Butter, I was stressed out myself after reading it, simply because I am, therefore think, like an Aqua. Actually, I'm willing to bet he was already stressed out LONG before the friendship turned sour. Aquas have (mostly..not every single one of us, lol) notoriously fine-tuned intuition when it comes to those close to us. You'd tell him you had a special friendship, and honestly and very innocently probably, came off as the ever-loyal friend. Then turn around time and time again, buying him all kinds of things, and leap over all kinds of mountains just to be in his presence, or at the very least, stay in touch on the phone. Most likely what you were telling yourself during all of this was that you were, in fact, very close friends. He saw something much deeper going on under the surface. The way you talked about "his new girlfriend" that he met on the bus, tells me he knew how you felt about her when he actually did meet her..he knew you were jealous. Being an aqua, he..for lack of a better phrase..chose to "play a mind game" by turning the tables around and accusing you of looking through his phone, etc. It only served to prove to himself that he was right.
I have no doubt that he had some real, true feelings for you, and most likely still does. However, out of everything I've just spilled out onto you, the biggest--absolute biggest--problem here is that for quite a long time he was trying to figure out how to handle the way you made him feel cornered and crowded, per say, and slowly started changing and doing odd things towards you as a true Aqua's way of saying "I'm having trouble breathing." Why take the cowards' way like he did? Because he does have some feelings for you. I can't say what they are, but just know that you were special enough to him to even bother playing such childish games.
Personally, I would give him some time and let him be the one to make first contact again. After the long beating you gave him in that letter, he's definitely going to need some real time to lick his wounds and decide what he needs, and wants, to do.
🙂
Please choose the following options:
A. You need therapy.
B. Stop sending him messages if you don't want to contact him anymore.
C. Try to make some new friends.
D. Try not to miss his calls again to save yourself money from texting/calling him ( your main complaint )
E. Nothing above works. Then email his girl/ call her/ text her and drive her crazy till she does the same to him, i.e. Chain mails.
A. You need therapy.
B. Stop sending him messages if you don't want to contact him anymore.
C. Try to make some new friends.
D. Try not to miss his calls again to save yourself money from texting/calling him ( your main complaint )
E. Nothing above works. Then email his girl/ call her/ text her and drive her crazy till she does the same to him, i.e. Chain mails.
Well I just bumped into this thread and trust me he definitely read the email. It seems like he just wants to go past all of this and start over or back to when this did not happen.
Posted by examMy aqua is 10th Feb 1985
Freaky, this guy has the same birthday as my Aqua hubby except for the year. All I can say is that your Aqua doesn't like talking on phone but if he does call you alot then he likes you alot or even loves you. On the other hand, if he doesn't call but still accepts your calls then you're a very special friend and he won't easily forget you. He likes nature and excercises and will always find a chance to do something. If he doesn't have outdoor activity then he'll be very depressed and can shut himself in surfing net for jokes and obscure facts. He's totally an airhead so even he has good intentions, he will still forget and think "I did it already" but it's all in his head only! Just like Aquaj said, he can forget time and totally obsessed with his work ( which is cute by the way! Got to give the man a coconut for having such devotion in something in life!) so while you think that he's a jerk and ignores you, he might already plan a whole grand trip for you and him and then completely forgets about it.
Having said all of this, I think this man likes you but he doesn't respect you. Did you make a mistake in the past? If he has a girlfriend as well, don't worry that he loves her, I think he doesn't love either of you and is just being mean because he is. In fact, he might have already lost his direction in life and is desperate for someone knocking some sense into his head but it has to be someone he trusts and respects. 10th Feb Aqua is kind, sentimental, hard-working and affectionate but if he lost his faith in life, he can be mean, cynical, arrogant and self-righterous, he will need some tough love and a spiritual guide. Are you sure that you want to go through all of this at 30 something?
Ur husband too?
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