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Catgirlpk
joined March 24, 2018
  • Posted by JanMayMarry
    I remember your story. He didn't turn up the last time he said he will.

    Idk how to trust his words again, if I were you. Sad
    correct. 100% . But he told everytime why he isn't coming as i put a barrier that he has to talk to family first. He lives tooooo far to come twice. And now my mom is saying he shouldn't come without family approval. It IS A BIG DECISION TO COME ALONE TO MARRY so i don't mind if he changed dates . These are all his plans not mine. But this time he is like let me come or else stop talking to me as i don't want a time pass situation... is it enough to believe a guy ?
  • Posted by Gemitati
    Will you both go against family?
    first try is to talk again to families. I m 36 he is 33...you guys wd laugh but even at this age family values are supreme.
  • Finally and like always i broke the silence n called him after a month. And UNLIKE WHAT EVERYONE SAYS he didn't act non chalant or as if nothing has happened. ...he started right off where he left. The first sentences were full of deep emotions of yearning.....he kept asking me how i rembered to call him today.... (i m still clueless as to why aquas dont call thenselves)....anyway after like an year he called me by my nick...he neverrrr did before....a month's break and in first sentence he calls by my nick... and he ws sooooo persuasive in asking me to let him come without family as they didnt agree to our marriage.
    He had a solid 3 weeks plan to come to my country. We both are muslims. Now ny family said NO without his family agreeing too....

    Is he now fully in love? After all the disappearance, broken connections, half talks... why oh why !!

    We just talked for longggg.....n he was in a forlorn type of mood... as if he is losing me. I am sad.
    I was going to be amongst the few here who finally got an Aqua to bow down exactly as i wanted using my patience as a Virgo and now this societal pressure

    Do you guys think he will wait n pursue me? I fear he will get frustrsted n leave. What are the chances of loyalty in case an aqua is ready with dates and a plan to marry you. ?
  • Finally and like always i broke the silence n called him after a month. And UNLIKE WHAT EVERYONE SAYS he didn't act non chalant or as if nothing has happened. ...he started right off where he left. The first sentences were full of deep emotions of yearning.....he kept asking me how i rembered to call him today.... (i m still clueless as to why aquas dont call thenselves)....anyway after like an year he called me by my nick...he neverrrr did before....a month's break and in first sentence he calls by my nick... and he ws sooooo persuasive in asking me to let him come without family as they didnt agree to our marriage.
    He had a solid 3 weeks plan to come to my country. We both are muslims. Now ny family said NO without his family agreeing too....

    Is he now fully in love? After all the disappearance, broken connections, half talks... why oh why !!

    We just talked for longggg.....n he was in a forlorn type of mood... as if he is losing me. I am sad.
    I was going to be amongst the few here who finally got an Aqua to bow down exactly as i wanted using my patience as a Virgo and now this societal pressure

    Do you guys think he will wait n pursue me? I fear he will get frustrsted n leave. What are the chances of loyalty in case an aqua is ready with dates and a plan to marry you. ?
  • Finally and like always i broke the silence n called him after a month. And UNLIKE WHAT EVERYONE SAYS he didn't act non chalant or as if nothing has happened. ...he started right off where he left. The first sentences were full of deep emotions of yearning.....he kept asking me how i rembered to call him today.... (i m still clueless as to why aquas dont call thenselves)....anyway after like an year he called me by my nick...he neverrrr did before....a month's break and in first sentence he calls by my nick... and he ws sooooo persuasive in asking me to let him come without family as they didnt agree to our marriage.
    He had a solid 3 weeks plan to come to my country. We both are muslims. Now ny family said NO without his family agreeing too....

    Is he now fully in love? After all the disappearance, broken connections, half talks... why oh why !!

    We just talked for longggg.....n he was in a forlorn type of mood... as if he is losing me. I am sad.
    I was going to be amongst the few here who finally got an Aqua to bow down exactly as i wanted using my patience as a Virgo and now this societal pressure

    Do you guys think he will wait n pursue me? I fear he will get frustrsted n leave. What are the chances of loyalty in case an aqua is ready with dates and a plan to marry you. ?
  • Posted by ACsquarepluto
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    @acsquare pluto

    This guy you did synastry about has disappeared... on watsapp but not msging.
    I ws veryyy sick n messaged him but as usual his net ws off.... he read after like 5 days !!!! I had written a lot of stuff for him till then but nothing over the top. I just complained that now m in hospital n u stil hv ur net off.... so now don't ask me wat happened to me.
    He read but never replied. I expected a call at all costs....why didn't my illness move him or ws he guilty cz i said no need to ask about me ..am nothing for you..


    Might be good to wait until Mercury turns direct August 18th before you write off the relationship. It seems like often in your posts you worry, and then come back stating he's called with an explanation and sharing his appreciation for you. Along with Mercury, Mars and Saturn are also retrograde, so you might assume the best and practice patience until they are all direct by September 6th. Its always a good idea to hold an Aquarius to no expectations and allow him to take supportive/loving action on his own time, when he's ready. Your relationship could last a lot longer than this illness, this situation might not be worth writing him off over. I hope you are feeling better though. smile
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    Yes i m doing good. I m just mildly worried about him. His best action when angry is to dlt or block me. He did none so i also felt he is feeling very guilty and cant show.
    Yes for the first time in 8 months i want him to initiate contact.
    Our last chat ended on him agreeing to talk to his mom about us. No pressure. I suggested once only. He decided calmly and agreed that it was about time. So it ws veryyyy necessary for me to wait at this crucial make or break moment. I know he hasnt talked . He lives in another city...so he wd be seeing a good time to tell her all this....or maybe doesn't want to break a bad news to me.
    Speculating. Not losing sleep.
  • @acsquare pluto

    This guy you did synastry about has disappeared... on watsapp but not msging.
    I ws veryyy sick n messaged him but as usual his net ws off.... he read after like 5 days !!!! I had written a lot of stuff for him till then but nothing over the top. I just complained that now m in hospital n u stil hv ur net off.... so now don't ask me wat happened to me.
    He read but never replied. I expected a call at all costs....why didn't my illness move him or ws he guilty cz i said no need to ask about me ..am nothing for you..
  • Golden words by kryserene again.
  • Posted by bluebird
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    Same here with my aqua. 10 days. Radio silence. WiFi off. Watsapp off. Going to voice mail .


    Have you guys met yet?
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    No. My visa needs to be accepted first. Going on monday for interview. Then if approved i can go in August...
    N oh yesss he JUST TURNED ON WIFI And called. It ws 12 midnight in london. He said he was sound asleep n hated to go n pick up the landline. Then when he knew i ws there he called instantly...no doubt he ws sleepy but he talked very naturally.... said love you... i sed dont say that....but he didnt mind my anger...then he said i can go on talking n he can sleep....something j alwayssss wanted but he never did.... and today he gave me all those....

    To all my questions his answer ws that he ws busy and i must call tomorrow to tell my grievances...he said all this very nicely and in a cute sleepy voice.... n then for a looong time he slept wd the ear phones n i kept crying n talking....i think he heard me..

    Let's seee wat happens tomorrow. Only lesson i learnt on dxp that when they give you there personal time (like right now of a deep tired sleep but still calling...n sleeping with ear phones).... then it means aqua genuinely loves you


    Whyyyyy the absence. God !
  • Same here with my aqua. 10 days. Radio silence. WiFi off. Watsapp off. Going to voice mail .
  • Yes our energy is calm and serene but as they say *still waters run deep*.
    Mind you stable and LTR always require a simplicity and not always wham bam intimacy

    Did you ever hear a 20 year old couple boasting of intimacy? Yet you hear of one month long romance telling you of great chemistry and all.

    It's all superficial. For some time. Your mind is ALWAYS the first organ of your body order wise... ur sexual zones come mid way. Ponder on the order of nature.

    (I m sure this lecture affirms my Virgo nature).
  • My aqua guy is gone from watsapp for 3 days....and i m busy in office celebrating my new title. For a day i felt frustrated but now am waiting sweetly.
    Virgo girl. 30.8.81
  • So what happened then?
  • Posted by HappyCapper
    Ultimately, it's not about what we think. If you feel that it's imortant to you that you keep in touch every day, then that's your choice, and if he is not on the same page, then maybe you shouldn't be together. Maybe take this as an oportunity to figure out what you want and what is acceptable to you. And yes, we all go a little crazy in this area of life at times - comes with the package.

    ...and do me a favor and look back at this thread a year or two from now - it's gonna make your day.
    3 years have passed. Eager to know wat happened to OP.
  • Good topic.
  • Wow

    Kryserene
    I always have to dig in and bring your posts up for community welfare!
  • I really really think he ws over you long ago n breathed a sigh of relief after ur email. Hence is reaction is passive. If he ws hurt i wd hv expected total silent treatment from him. I don't know why but my 6th sense tells me he already has eyes on someone. Do a little investigation by asking his aunt.
  • Posted by Libralady1985
    Posted by Geminiinphilly
    Posted by Libralady1985
    Posted by Geminiinphilly
    Mine does the same thing and we've been together for almost 2yrs. It's still very frustrating for me as if it's the first time he's done it lol I'm Gemini sun and Libra moon



    Do you call him on it, or just wait for it to pass lol


    There's been times when I have called him on it, but I'm not the greatest when it comes to voicing my feelings. So, I either shut down and ignore him even after he contacts me, or I snap on him for what I perceive as ignoring me. At one point , I even accused him of seeing another woman. Like, I said...it seriously frustrates me and has me questioning our relationship every time he does this. It's like exactly as you described. When we are good and the communication is good I don't question a thing. But, when he gets quiet my mind goes hyperactive smh lol


    Hahaha we sound alike. My mind wanders into bad thoughts sometimes and I have to tell myself to settle down and drop it hahaha... I try to not act on impulse and blame him for the illaborate things I think up, because I don't think that's fair to him, and I know I'm not being logical, but I'm not perfect... butter happens lol
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    same here with me n my aqua guy. Told him yesterday i m having negative thoughts n he pleaded sorry but then vanished on text.
  • Posted by Senorita_LLP2
    I have no words to speak for you. Are you the one that post about him flying over to you to get married but didn't turn up in the end?
    no. We had plans but nothing fixed. M gonna go to paris in August. To meet him. The trip is luckily free granted by my company
  • WT happened at the end ?