Posted by JanMayMarrycorrect. 100% . But he told everytime why he isn't coming as i put a barrier that he has to talk to family first. He lives tooooo far to come twice. And now my mom is saying he shouldn't come without family approval. It IS A BIG DECISION TO COME ALONE TO MARRY so i don't mind if he changed dates . These are all his plans not mine. But this time he is like let me come or else stop talking to me as i don't want a time pass situation... is it enough to believe a guy ?
I remember your story. He didn't turn up the last time he said he will.
Idk how to trust his words again, if I were you.
Posted by Gemitatifirst try is to talk again to families. I m 36 he is 33...you guys wd laugh but even at this age family values are supreme.
Will you both go against family?
Posted by ACsquareplutoPosted by Catgirlpk
This guy you did synastry about has disappeared... on watsapp but not msging.
I ws veryyy sick n messaged him but as usual his net ws off.... he read after like 5 days !!!! I had written a lot of stuff for him till then but nothing over the top. I just complained that now m in hospital n u stil hv ur net off.... so now don't ask me wat happened to me.
He read but never replied. I expected a call at all costs....why didn't my illness move him or ws he guilty cz i said no need to ask about me ..am nothing for you..
Might be good to wait until Mercury turns direct August 18th before you write off the relationship. It seems like often in your posts you worry, and then come back stating he's called with an explanation and sharing his appreciation for you. Along with Mercury, Mars and Saturn are also retrograde, so you might assume the best and practice patience until they are all direct by September 6th. Its always a good idea to hold an Aquarius to no expectations and allow him to take supportive/loving action on his own time, when he's ready. Your relationship could last a lot longer than this illness, this situation might not be worth writing him off over. I hope you are feeling better though.click to expand
Posted by bluebirdPosted by Catgirlpk
Same here with my aqua. 10 days. Radio silence. WiFi off. Watsapp off. Going to voice mail .
Have you guys met yet?click to expand
Posted by HappyCapper3 years have passed. Eager to know wat happened to OP.
Ultimately, it's not about what we think. If you feel that it's imortant to you that you keep in touch every day, then that's your choice, and if he is not on the same page, then maybe you shouldn't be together. Maybe take this as an oportunity to figure out what you want and what is acceptable to you. And yes, we all go a little crazy in this area of life at times - comes with the package.
...and do me a favor and look back at this thread a year or two from now - it's gonna make your day.
Posted by Libralady1985same here with me n my aqua guy. Told him yesterday i m having negative thoughts n he pleaded sorry but then vanished on text.Posted by GeminiinphillyPosted by Libralady1985Posted by Geminiinphilly
Mine does the same thing and we've been together for almost 2yrs. It's still very frustrating for me as if it's the first time he's done it lol I'm Gemini sun and Libra moon
Do you call him on it, or just wait for it to pass lol
There's been times when I have called him on it, but I'm not the greatest when it comes to voicing my feelings. So, I either shut down and ignore him even after he contacts me, or I snap on him for what I perceive as ignoring me. At one point , I even accused him of seeing another woman. Like, I said...it seriously frustrates me and has me questioning our relationship every time he does this. It's like exactly as you described. When we are good and the communication is good I don't question a thing. But, when he gets quiet my mind goes hyperactive smh lol
Hahaha we sound alike. My mind wanders into bad thoughts sometimes and I have to tell myself to settle down and drop it hahaha... I try to not act on impulse and blame him for the illaborate things I think up, because I don't think that's fair to him, and I know I'm not being logical, but I'm not perfect... butter happens lolclick to expand
Posted by Senorita_LLP2no. We had plans but nothing fixed. M gonna go to paris in August. To meet him. The trip is luckily free granted by my company
I have no words to speak for you. Are you the one that post about him flying over to you to get married but didn't turn up in the end?