Catgirlpk
joined March 24, 2018
  • I really really think he ws over you long ago n breathed a sigh of relief after ur email. Hence is reaction is passive. If he ws hurt i wd hv expected total silent treatment from him. I don't know why but my 6th sense tells me he already has eyes on someone. Do a little investigation by asking his aunt.
  • Posted by Libralady1985
    Posted by Geminiinphilly
    Posted by Libralady1985
    Posted by Geminiinphilly
    Mine does the same thing and we've been together for almost 2yrs. It's still very frustrating for me as if it's the first time he's done it lol I'm Gemini sun and Libra moon



    Do you call him on it, or just wait for it to pass lol


    There's been times when I have called him on it, but I'm not the greatest when it comes to voicing my feelings. So, I either shut down and ignore him even after he contacts me, or I snap on him for what I perceive as ignoring me. At one point , I even accused him of seeing another woman. Like, I said...it seriously frustrates me and has me questioning our relationship every time he does this. It's like exactly as you described. When we are good and the communication is good I don't question a thing. But, when he gets quiet my mind goes hyperactive smh lol


    Hahaha we sound alike. My mind wanders into bad thoughts sometimes and I have to tell myself to settle down and drop it hahaha... I try to not act on impulse and blame him for the illaborate things I think up, because I don't think that's fair to him, and I know I'm not being logical, but I'm not perfect... butter happens lol
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    same here with me n my aqua guy. Told him yesterday i m having negative thoughts n he pleaded sorry but then vanished on text.
  • Posted by Senorita_LLP2
    I have no words to speak for you. Are you the one that post about him flying over to you to get married but didn't turn up in the end?
    no. We had plans but nothing fixed. M gonna go to paris in August. To meet him. The trip is luckily free granted by my company
  • WT happened at the end ?
  • I believe both relationship need to run the test of time without he being actively involved in either.
    We need to know the girls' decision too.
    Why should it be only the aquarian man's decision hanging in the air?
  • Nooooo video chat at all... rem i ws hating him for vanishing.....atleast he returned... n again we planning to meet in person...
    I told him i might not meet
    To which he said i will find u whichever city in France u will come to. ....
    I don't think anyone hiding wd say that.
    He never shyed away from meeting. Always had been asking me from first day to meet first then talk abt r.ship...
    It was me who pushed him into LDR...

    So then he always said i can sponsor u send u visa.... but i refused as i cant travel alone

    I guess our timing isn't right..we r toooo far apart to meet. .. i don't wanna meet him alone...i refuse....he doesn't want video chat....he refuses... need to wait till August
  • Lolzz.... at all of you. I I just feel superrr great... as far as actions r concerned.... no actions in LDR.... too bad i know

    Only that i m gonna go n meet him in 2 months as my company is sending me there.
  • Heyyyy...

    Justtt called himmmm...
    Though he didn't chk my msgs

    But he picked call at once

    N we came soooo close...n exchanged lots of pics.... he said when his switch goes off he cuts contact with the whole world...

    But today again he talked of marriage all by himself.... i wasn't even in the mood... n then we had great fun talking .
    Only he said don't complain n everything will be ok....

    Did anyone say aquas don't express? Well they do... he says love u a 100 times over... made up for all the lonely nights...
    .... i think i will be an author on the aquarian book some day...
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  • Wow here. U r asking of him blocking
    N my post ws about me breaking up.

    Yes they do block wdout anyyyy reason.
    He told me he blocked clingy girls...n even boring guys....now wats that all about?
    I will never block my gender just for being boring... i will just not talk much...

    Lord.. aquas

    Btw i think m gonna get blocked today. I feel like pushing him into telling why he disappeared.
  • Posted by -sierra
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    Posted by Ariqua
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    Posted by Ariqua
    Don’t ask “shall we talk”..just talk.

    Also we need to make sure this guy is real before you start acting crazy. Have you at least chatted on the phone?

    Do you have Facebook and does he have family there?

    He is not on fb. He has pics wd his bro many times....wd loads of cousins...same faces many times. Told abt them all.

    Talked to my mom too.... made plans to meet me HIMSELF .... i never did..but his work came up.
    We talked on phone many many times.
    He is for real. Nothing shady.
    As he is NOT getting any favours out of this r.ship so he aint gonna get anyyything dragging it for 6 months . No sex. No money involved.

    But we both r here... after 6 months....


    Have you seen the show catfish?

    There’s some reason he won’t video chat you

    Not that show
    I live in Pakistan
    But hv been hearing the word catfish here a lot


    girl he could be catfishing you i mean what if it's a woman? we don't know
    have you even heard his voice on the phone or something? and he's telling you he blocked 100 girls, now that's just unrealistic.. he does not seem trustworthy at all..
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    Can you read a bit above plz dear.
    Yes talked manyyyy times. Seen multiple on spot short videos....veryyyyy in the face... family pics too...many times.
    He has talked to my mom as well...he could hv ditched that....but says i want to meet u first...i dont feel comfy wd video chat....a lot of guys i met online used to say that.... perhaps they also dont trust girls.
  • No ..she just changed name i guess
  • By the way
    I love allll of you girls
    Been on my case like good old friends
    I soooo wish this ws an fb close group so we could share pics n screenshots

    I still wonder why the dark-aged dxp format makes us come here

    However this proves ONLY WISE A D SERIOUS ppl come here wd real advice.... not just social media junkies who want to make fun n abuse
  • Posted by Ariqua
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    Posted by Ariqua
    Don’t ask “shall we talk”..just talk.

    Also we need to make sure this guy is real before you start acting crazy. Have you at least chatted on the phone?

    Do you have Facebook and does he have family there?

    He is not on fb. He has pics wd his bro many times....wd loads of cousins...same faces many times. Told abt them all.

    Talked to my mom too.... made plans to meet me HIMSELF .... i never did..but his work came up.
    We talked on phone many many times.
    He is for real. Nothing shady.
    As he is NOT getting any favours out of this r.ship so he aint gonna get anyyything dragging it for 6 months . No sex. No money involved.

    But we both r here... after 6 months....


    Have you seen the show catfish?

    There’s some reason he won’t video chat you
    click to expand

    Not that show
    I live in Pakistan
    But hv been hearing the word catfish here a lot
  • Posted by -sierra
    but with double aries like that i would think he'd be very forward or go after what he wants... even libra moon goes after what they want.. i don't understand.. my female virgo sun friend with a taurus moon is currently seeing an aqua sun man with a gemini moon and she's very confused about him.. he seems to like her but can sometimes be weirdly cold too...

    It's no sun moon or anything

    Its AQUA N AQUA ALONE
    Lolzzz
  • Posted by Ariqua
    Don’t ask “shall we talk”..just talk.

    Also we need to make sure this guy is real before you start acting crazy. Have you at least chatted on the phone?

    Do you have Facebook and does he have family there?

    He is not on fb. He has pics wd his bro many times....wd loads of cousins...same faces many times. Told abt them all.

    Talked to my mom too.... made plans to meet me HIMSELF .... i never did..but his work came up.
    We talked on phone many many times.
    He is for real. Nothing shady.
    As he is NOT getting any favours out of this r.ship so he aint gonna get anyyything dragging it for 6 months . No sex. No money involved.

    But we both r here... after 6 months....
  • My guy is also veryyy sweeeet....n makes me do things
    @sierra chk his n my placements in topic
  • Posted by Catgirlpk
    Posted by -sierra
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    Posted by -sierra
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    Posted by -sierra
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    I messaged him. Got a coooooldddd reply. I asked to talk. No reply.
    Our last talk 2 weeks ago ws smooth n lovey dovey. Maybe he has developed feelings n processing it.


    maybe or maybe he's chatting up someone else? did you pressure him to meet or videochat?

    I asked for video chat 3 months ago. Once only. Lolz. To meet well i can't pressurise him. We live continents apart... so it only be scheduled not forced.
    I just wished him Eid....the muslim festival today. N he is still giving one liners n sent me a forwarded msg

    Only good thing is he Is replying....we know aquas don't if they don't want to
    He is used to blocking clingy girls too. 100 around he told me.... but he ain't doing that either.

    My last msg. An hour ago was only
    Shall we talk?
    He hasn't seen on watsapp although he was online n sending me one liners

    I can bet he saw notification....but. ...i m suuure his emotions want him to underplay.


    i don't know girl, i've known aqua men to lie about things they can brag about or be arrogant about.. they've got this ego thing

    but you seem set on this guy.. though i'm telling you he's probably not interested coz he's ignoring the hell out of you..

    How do i post a screenshot?


    you could try imgur
    also what is your moon, mars, venus and rising? do you know his placements?

    His placements were analyzed in a topic
    Let me tag u there
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    What is imgur?
  • Posted by Catgirlpk
    He is 10th feb. 1985 born.

    Sun was in Aquarius at 21° 12'.
    Moon in Libra at 20° 31'.
    Mercury was in Aquarius at 14° 12'.
    Venus in Aries at 06° 43'.
    Mars was in Aries at 05° 28'.
    Jupiter in Aquarius at 00° 46'.
    Saturn was in Scorpio at 27° 34'.
    Uranus in Sagittarius at 17° 15'.
    Ephemeris neptune Neptun was in Capricorn at 02° 50'.

    Pluto in Scorpio at 04° 45'.

    I am 30th August 1981 born

    Sun was in Virgo at 06° 32'.
    Ephemeris moon Moon in Virgo at 11° 13'.
    Ephemeris mercury Mercury was in Virgo at 23° 47'.
    Ephemeris venus Venus in Libra at 13° 35'.
    Ephemeris mars Mars was in Cancer at 28° 02'.
    Ephemeris jupiter Jupiter in Libra at 11° 17'.
    Ephemeris saturn Saturn was in Libra at 08° 25'.
    Ephemeris uranus Uranus in Scorpio at 26° 20'.
    Ephemeris neptune Neptun was in Sagittarius at 22° 06'.
    Ephemeris pluto Pluto in Libra at 22° 29'.


    @sierra
  • Posted by -sierra
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    Posted by -sierra
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    Posted by -sierra
    Posted by Catgirlpk
    I messaged him. Got a coooooldddd reply. I asked to talk. No reply.
    Our last talk 2 weeks ago ws smooth n lovey dovey. Maybe he has developed feelings n processing it.


    maybe or maybe he's chatting up someone else? did you pressure him to meet or videochat?

    I asked for video chat 3 months ago. Once only. Lolz. To meet well i can't pressurise him. We live continents apart... so it only be scheduled not forced.
    I just wished him Eid....the muslim festival today. N he is still giving one liners n sent me a forwarded msg

    Only good thing is he Is replying....we know aquas don't if they don't want to
    He is used to blocking clingy girls too. 100 around he told me.... but he ain't doing that either.

    My last msg. An hour ago was only
    Shall we talk?
    He hasn't seen on watsapp although he was online n sending me one liners

    I can bet he saw notification....but. ...i m suuure his emotions want him to underplay.


    i don't know girl, i've known aqua men to lie about things they can brag about or be arrogant about.. they've got this ego thing

    but you seem set on this guy.. though i'm telling you he's probably not interested coz he's ignoring the hell out of you..

    How do i post a screenshot?


    you could try imgur
    also what is your moon, mars, venus and rising? do you know his placements?
    click to expand

    His placements were analyzed in a topic
    Let me tag u there