REAL UNCONDITIONAL love...

ok guyz.. im sufferin from insomnia... cant sleep so juz thought i'd chill on DXPNET... u guyz got me hooked... N E wen i got online i realized every 1c in bed fast asleep..... but still thought wen u'll wake up u might wanna comment on that:

do u guyz believe REAL UNconditional love EXISTzz— and will u eva get married—

YES YES YES

WAKEEEEEEEEEEEEE UPPPPPPPPPPPPP 🙂)

Yes it does. But that needs alot of preperation at the first 😉

preparation at first ?? in wat sense—

ok ..now im sleepy.... so i'll go n sleep 4 an hour or so.....

'...Unconditional love is NOT romantic love. It is a love that is similar to what you have for your parents/family. When you marry, you marry because of romantic love, and if you stay together for 15-30 yrs., then it grows into family love, or unconditional love. It is a deep attachment, like baby to mother...we don't usually form that strong of attachments to partners...'

i disgaree wid that... coz u CAN love a guy unconditionally n romantic love CAN be unconditional love and u dont need 15-30 yearz 2 love sum1 unconditionally... i mean HELLOOOOOO.. if dont love a guy right now.. how is that gonna change in 15-30 yearz—...doesnt make sense 2 me...

oppppzzzz typoz above 😢 i meant 2 say' that if U dont love a guy unconditionally rite now n marry him... howz ur love gonna change 4 him in da next 15-30 yearz—

i mean i can neva marry a guy whom i dont love unconditionally coz it juz wud b a LOSER lame marraige...

Unconditional love exists to those who love themselves unconditionally - they can then love others. We cannot give away what we do not already have within.

'...Unconditional love exists to those who love themselves unconditionally - they can then love others. We cannot give away what we do not already have within....'


WOW... that really waz powerful... i totally agree wid ya... how can u love some1 unconditionally wen u dont love urslef— love ur neighborz as urself...

powerful statement freebird.... u ROCk 🙂

'...so are younger couples able to experience unconditional love for each other?...'

i personnaly think it dependz of an individual... but trust me i have been amazed at how unconditonally peeple can LOve otherz ... i noh tonz of real peoplez stories like how this man'z wife cheated on him... he forgave her... n said that ' wen he fell in love wid her.. he didnt fall on da conditon that she'd love him back as much as he loves her..' he said shes imperfect'... and i waz like WOOOOW... so it dependz n as freebird said... if u have it within urself.. u'll give it freely 🙂

n about lovin ur family more than otherz— hmmm i noh of people who r willin to share their everything wid otherz ... they love otherz as much as there family...

oppppzzzz... typozzzzzz 😢


personally*

of = on* an individual....

"preparation at first ?? in wat sense—"

In the sense that you have nothing to gain and nothing to lose from your partner.

OFA

ur right we aquaz r SUPER sensitive but we're pretty gud at hidin'... i mean every1 thinkz im juz emotionless coz even wen im really emotional i juz control myself... n e wayz i noh wat u mean about findin it hard 2 love sum1 unconditionally especially wen they aint ur family......

haffo

i agree wid ya... BTW u have a gud sense of humor... i waz readin ur commentz n they made me smile 🙂

well every person is different. sum r capable of lovin unconditionally .. otherz aint..... like freebird said... if u dont love urself unconditionally u aint gonna love some1 else unconditonally 🙂

BTW nice 2 have ya online Branh.. itz FUN arguin' wid ya coz u put all ur heart n soul in ur debates sumthin' thatz waaaaaay KOOL abt ya... 🙂

'... im around other people but when Im alone, I can cry for hours. Its sucks. Crying makes my eyes turn green and makes me sick! ...'

wow i thought i waz da only silly aqua who cries wen all alone...gud to noh there r sooo many out there like me 🙂

OFA ur awesome 🙂

*do u guyz believe REAL UNconditional love EXISTzz— and will u eva get married—

-maybe....this is a two part question really, Real Love and Marriage don't necessarily go together.....since people change so do our outloooks, just because you may love someone doesn't mean that a marriage is going to happen...i also believe love is a dynamic thing, it varies person to person, people show it and feel it differently....its complicated....stay single, its less expensive....

Yup - Unconditional Love is real! I still Love my my ex but in a different way - I would still care about him no matter what he does - same with my nearest friends