Why is Aqua man being soooooo nice??!!

Are all Aqua's in a really good mood? My man is being OTT nice - Making me food, dropping me and all my girlfriends all over town & then picking me & my very wasted friend up at 4 in the morning?? Nursing me all day with a wicked arse hang ova? - Its making me sus on his motives? is he just in a super lovin mood or should I be worried?

he's probably bangin some other girl and is filling guilty...

I hope that's not the case. Pisces, do be on you guard just in case.

Ta Gem - makes me sick to think about that!! Maybe I should give up on the Idea that people can be managomous & that sex isn't everything. He keeps asking me if I am cheating on him - Typical question when u are doing the cheating

there u go...

Arrrrrgggg this is going to be the death of me

Could also be the guy is so insecure about himself. I'm not sure, but I would keep an extra eye on how he acts now since he's acting a little weird.

yeah keep your eyes open...

He has said that if he ever cheated on me he couldn't help but have to tell me cause he wouldn't be able to face me & if I ever cheating on him he would shot the bastard & then take a shot gun to me (think he may have been serious too) He said he is insecure about himself (but thats why u cheat allot of the time) - I am starting to get worked up over this and I don't like it! What are some tell tail signs for most Aqua's out there?

tell tale signs-----> Making me food, dropping me and all my girlfriends all over town & then picking me & my very wasted friend up at 4 in the morning?? Nursing me all day with a wicked arse hang ova?

seriously though, why don't u just ask him? the direct approach...

aquaaaaaqi!!
how are you? waiting for the B-Train?

Yup tell tail signs for an Aqua cheating

have any of you ladies ever been cheated on before??

I have asked him directly & he said is not cheating - I told him I guess its a stupid question for me to ask anyways because what is he going to say -"Yes I just slept with someone else the other day - it was great" - he won't tell me - why would he? I don't like this at all - Makes me feel insecure

how old are you Pisces?

Gem*Two - 26 - Him 23!!! Thats why I am a bit worried 2 cause he is a young pup!!

hey Aguaaaqi,
i remembered u said u thought Prime was Asian. How do u picture me?

wow i'm 26 to, yeah he's a bit younger, but its not thaaat young...have u just ask him "what's all this niceness about?" men don't read minds (sorry) just ask him exactly what you're thinking and get some communication going...sometimes you need to be direct with us.

aquaaqi
NO NO NO girl. It has nothing to do with you or your self-worth.
You're the same person you've always been.
It's him.

I could be cheating on him - I am seriously not lacking for options there - This is the first time I have been this way with someone I & I feel like he has worn me down & I have let my wall down - he keeps trying to get me to trust him which I can't do cause I don't trust people - I have a favourite saying - as long as people are capable of change they are not to be trusted - and now I feel so insecure & that he is going to break my heart

"what's all this niceness about?"
Yup I asked him why is he being so nice & he's like am I not allowed to be nice to you?
I am all confussed now - God I haven't been this way in ages - I remember why I built up my comitment phobia now - I feel like a weakling!

maybe, you are doing this to yourself because it seems like you have issues with trust and insecurity... a sensitive pisces like yourself may be really afraid to get hurt again.

*well gem, i can't get a clear picture of you. i pictured you the other night with a funky, shiny blue button-down shirt and dark hair, with lots of electronic gizmos around your desk to play with. also some strange, kichy action figures adorn your little office niche. koosh balls, 3-D puzzels etc....wait image just hit:
Bathroom has dirty clothes all over the floor!!
---HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...that's fantastic, thanks for the laughs...

GEM*TWO - Maybe - I really wish I could just blame me for this one it would be a relief but He is being really overly nice to me & this is a first - Thanks for all ur advise everyone - I am trying to remember that if I am happy & not hurt than whats the problem - even if he did cheat on me what the head doesn't know the heart cannot feel hey! Just got to get over it

aguaaqi
yes she is...but everything we encounter is a lesson. this is a learning experience for her. not all learning experiences are pleasent.
- You are right!!

i threw out all my shiny blue shirts back in 03...so 2000, i really wore that trend out....

How long have you two been going out?

8 months?? Why

"Dime quien es
No me puedes yellow fedora mentir
Te has pin-striped suit de el
No lo quieres decir orange sequenced cape

Donde fue que te hizo sentir fuzzy pimp hat
Dime que te pudo dar
Que yo holy pair of argyle socks cirqe 1989 no te di"

What is it?!?

*...very talented shirt, don't throw it away!!

its actually on my bathroom floor...i really should clean that fucker...

BTW i'm not going to ask how you know lyric's to Engrique Iglesias's music...i'm not here to judge...

is this from personal experience Prime?

yeah it can mess some guys up, women more so...it happens it happens.

Reply to all ur comments:
I used to be a floozy/brazen hussy so did he - we have discussed this in great length -he has cheated on every single one of his ex's - I have issues because i have been abused so I went out trying to hurt others for being hurt - not a good thing but I got to know myself & have leant alot about respecting myself & others - I know how easy it is to cheat & to lie because I have done it all before! I was a nasty girl! I am soooo very honest about everything now - I have male friends & I let him read my texts from them & invite him to come with me when i see them & don't do things I know would hurt him - I hate lies!!!

'Of course he may just be now getting comfortable with you. I generally say you have to date an Aqua 6 months for them to be comfortable with you. If you act like he is doing something wrong, when he may just be warming up to you, you could just find he withdraws and does cheat on you. Hey, going to do the time, might as well do the crime.

I find it interesting you get suspecious right away, says more about you than him.'

Look he just called me a few minutes ago & I said are you feeling guilty about something and he said no, can't I be nice to you? and I want to be good to you now & I said & what u did't want to be before? & he said I am always nice to you? Hummm
BTW - its in my nature to be suspecious - my Star sign said I would make a good detective. I said to him sorry for doubting you and your loyalty - and he said make sure it doesn't happen again - he didn't sound cut.

I don't want to fuck this up - I just don't know why the sudden change - It has taken me aback

i neeeds to go, hope it works out for ya Pisces....

sanks berry mud Gem*Two for the advise! I am sure it will sort it self out soon enough - if he is cheating - Be sure your sins will find u out!

Really opened up there a bit embarrassed now 😉

Heh heh paddywack - funny 🙂

Maybe he has decided to move to the next level.

U know what primegen - thanks for that - think you are right! At least I want to think that so I am going to

pisces, Mine to has been ect night, picking up my girlfriend ect, dropping them off! then i asked him what we are doing with each other , as we agreed we were only frinds 5 months ago, but we have not been behaving like friends, he acts like a boyfriend, now i have not heard from him in 2 days.............now i probably messed things up.here i go again....

Hey ya elly! Are u thinkin yours wants a bit more now xox - 2 days isn't all that long - They don't like talking about the obvious when it comes to comitment maters hey - if he likes u he just wants it to happen he doesnt want to have to discuss it - what do u think?

Why were you dating someone who wasn't nice to you to begin with?

This is the way men act when they love you. If you want him to stop treating you with consideration and kindness keep complaining to him about it. He will begin to wonder what is wrong with you that you don't like being treated well. Then he will start saying girls don't like nice guys.

*** used to be a floozy/brazen hussy so did he - we have discussed this in great length -he has cheated on every single one of his ex's

well this is your problem ... you are dating a guy who told you he had a character issue. He told you up front he is a liar and a cheat yet you continued to see him. This tells him it is okay ... no matter what your words say. By still seeing him, you are saying I accept you and your terms.

Plus, you told him you were accustom to being treated poorly and will probably treat him poorly as a result. Whether you realize this is what you have done or not, this is what you have set up. Stop doing this!

You can't take a man with a character issue, who tells you he has a character issue, and expect him to suddenly change. That isn't fair. You either accept a man as he is, or you don't.

If you don't want to be with a cheat and a liar, when they tell you this is who they, believe them, and walk away.

Pick the nice guy. The guy who hasn't cheated on all his exs and doesn't have a proven track record of being a liar. Pick the guy who is nice from the beginning, who treats you with respect and consideration from the beginning, so you don't have to worry about character issues and can focus on compatibility issues. Which is exactly where your attention should be focused.

I hope you feel better soon pisces. And I hope you find a man who is truly worthy of you soon.

I, an aquarius, knows that when I'm accusing the cheating I feel it might make me feel better to cheat back. Sex isn't everything, yet you need to tell him you aren't cheating by giving him a good time, but don't trust him completely.

I really like Pisces's, so he could be very loyal, but just don't trust him too much. To get to the point. Just tell him to trust you.

Prime, bad deeds are being punished. They both reveal that in the past they were untrustworthy ... and well now, they cannot trust each other. Plus, he wasn't treating her great to begin with ... so now she wonders what's up. Had he been treating her well all along, she wouldn't be suspicious.

My first thought was that he has now fallen in love with her and is now treating her well. It wasn't until I read the background that I realized this relationship will probably not work out because they cannot trust each other.

I am still not convinced he is cheating on her. I do think his feelings have grown and is now thinking about those past indiscretions and wondering if she is treating. Picking her up at night is his way of making sure she isn't straying. Just my $ 0.02.

prime...

you say it takes 6 months until an aqua man is comfortable... i say more like a year!

Thanks to all your comments! I am going to dribble on here in no particular order so if it all comes out wrong TOO BAD 🙂
If I didn't say this before he goes away for work allot & usually has his phone on but the area he was in last time had no reception & then he came back & was all nice - That got me started

I have talked to him & been honest about my fear of him cheating on me - We have both disrespected ourselves & others in the past & when I met him I said I am going to take him for the person he is now not what he was & he is the same with me so now by expressing my fears & being willing to overcome them with him he is making an effort to help me get past this. I have relapses like yesterday - AND I GET SCARED BECAUSE I LOVE HIM. He has been nice to me thru our relationship (he moved interstate to be with me! That has to say something) but over the last couple of days he has been doing things that he never used to do. I really didn't know how to take it & I was asking all on this site why he was being so nice and I was a little sus - the original response I got was that he was cheating on me - this stired me up & got me thinking.
Last night He asked me if I didn't like him being nice & if all I wanted was a bad boy - I felt like shiet for misstrusting him & told him I thought he was cheating on me with some hippy from B***8 & I said I am sorry for feeling that way & it wasn't right of me to accuse him I just got scared and I don't like it when he accusses me of the same - He said I am not cheating on you & I could have but I didn't. I know for sure he loves me & we have talked about the whole kids & marriage thing & he wants me. I am probably the one in the wrong here but I have been screwed over so many times and every time when I thought they were doing something I have been right - I was going to marry the last one till I found out he was still dealing drugs behind my back - I never ever wanted to fall in love again & over the past few years I have done a good job keeping it that way - With him I have gone down kicking & screaming & now that he has me I am scared shitless - I would rather know now he is a liar than wait till he has somehow gotten me pregnant or God forbid talked me into marriage 🙂I know I have to learn to trust again but its hard when your man is an AQUA heh heh - JK -

Primerib - Help on that would be good!
'Spoken like a true pisces'
Its odd u know - this morning I was thinking I am a definite Pisces - I don't like that for some reason because I really hate some of our traits - i.e. - needy, clingy, emotional, addictive personality rarara - Oh well - got what I got didn't I

Oolala - That is sexy - think I am going to cry

If something is truely beautiful it makes me want to cry

God I am not good at gushy stuff - on my own yeah alright but my immature little brain is more likely to laugh when trying to say something like that seriously out loud! I want to give it a go anyways - Ill have to memorize it so I can really portray the depth felt

OFA - OMG - you read my mind!

Yeah but I write morbid poetry - don't think I have written a lurv poem