Scorpio-Aquarius

Does this relationship work? We were on fire for 1 year and then all of a sudden my Aquariun lost interest. I am trying to woo her back but to no avail? what now?

Hi,
If it helps telling a little about an Aquarius woman: they are usually quite sociable and have their own mind & very independant. They do not show easily their emotions and in a serious love affair they are usually honest and loyal. I think you should give it a try with her and ask the real reasons why she has backed off.

she feels, she is too suffocated in the relationship, though i have never stopped her from pursuing any of her myraid interests.
she says she likes me very much, but feels i am too overcaring and need not put so much effort to confess or show my love. this come naturally to me, but she feels embarrased.

more happened, and thought I should share for some advice. My Aquariun girl moved out on Sunday. I made it clear it was upto her if she wants to make contact or meet me. She calls me up everyday and in between we met a couple of times. When the time comes to leave I would give a peck on her cheek. Yesterday she called me up again and I realised it was exactly 2 years to date that we met. I took her out for dinner and then she took me back to her new apartment. I bought her a few crossword books and she started on those, i watched TV lying on the bed. around 11 i wanted to leave and after my usual pecks on her cheek, she to my surprise, gave three wonderful pecks/kisses on my neck. Can someone tell me what is happening and what is on her mind? Is she in or is she out?

by the way, we are from Germany, Hamburg to be precise

Lost in Love...you must most definately call in ALANA for this one...She is the ultimate when it comes to explaining what may be going on in anothers head...btw, she too is an Aquarian and one very SMART one indeed - call her up....ya gotta do it something like this:


Attention!!!! Attention!!! Lost in Love - Looking for one very wise ALANA to help me figure out life...please, contact me...many thanks, LIL

Good luck my friend, and ......know that she will hear you and be in touch.

Freebird...

Attention!!!! Attention!!! Lost in Love - Looking for one very wise ALANA to help me figure out life...please, contact me...many thanks

forgive, forgive, forgive, Lost in Love.
Probably the "bird" over estimates my capabilities in the games of love for aquarians and wisdom department!!!
So sorry I cant reply properly....my boss is hovering in and out of office all afternoon and I can't get on line to you proper.
So just a quicky....for Ms. Aquarius....over this weekend, make yourself so "not available"....when phone rings, don't answer.....if you do...say you are on your way out to meet such and such...blah blah....call back later if you wish to talk...you prob. won't make Ms. Aquarius jealous...but you will make her see that you have got a "file" and life outsidie her!!! She's gonna think she's the magic spark in your life....(she is probalby!!) but don't reveal that....mind-games are an aprhrodisiac to an aquarian and I know scorpions are capable or playing mind-games to the ultimum too.....all is not lost - just calm down, de-simmer over the weekend....DO NOT make that call.....DO NOT meet.....pretend you are having the time of your life out partying etc. etc.

If no contact from her say by monday, then you ring and you say, you are no longer going to be in her life...you are moving on....aquarian girls hate to think they are not the magic centre of anyone's lives...just say, thank you for ht elast year or so and now we our separate ways. She'sll be back to you in a heartbeat....she will think up and scheme of various ways to meet, etc.....

Anayway, wish I coudl be of more help but the boss is hovering!!!

And remember, you are second to nobody...tell her this...I use this phrase all the time to my lovers...and they believe it:-)

A x

thanks alana, will keep you posted....let the game begin!!!

I played connect four with my male aquarian pal...he lost.

I love games...Please - Lost in Love..do keep us posted!!!

Sweet-P, I could not agree with you more...Alana needs to write a book, most definately...she has quite a talent for writing!

This is gonna be good...Chapter 2 is on it's way 😉

Of course I will keep you posted. update will follow next week. ciao good friends !!!

first of all, many thanks to Alana!! i think you are the best in judging Aqus. well, followed your advice and for the first time in my relationship with Ms. Aqus I refused to see her on Sunday. She called up and asked me if I was interested in going to a movie. I refused saying I had other plans with someone else!! she seemed a bit taken aback. Anyways, she lands up unannounced today (Tuesday) and as I am putting out this msg, Ms.Aqua is sitting in the living room and watching TV. It is nearly 11 pm and she seems to have no interest in going back to her apartment. Seems she is quite lonely, now that I am not there beside her. By the way, I am her first love (so she tells me). Lets see now, what she wants friendship or something more!!! gets more and more interesting!! will keep you all posted.

How you doin' today Lost in Love?
We are all awaiting with bated breath to see how things progressed on Tuesday nite as Ms. Aq. sat watching t.v. while you tapped away merrily to us:-) -
When you returned to her, well did you? did she? did both of you?:-) Or was it peck on the cheek good nite mode for both of you?
I'm glad that you showed her at weekend that the world doesn't revolve around her...(we so like to think it does! - me included!!) - and when someone appears to be closing a cosy door on us, the feisty, game-player will emerge to keep her dainty foot in that door, however tightly ajar it is:-)

Landed up unnanounced....maybe that's her way - but perhaps you could set a new ground rule, you could say gently but firmly that you'd rather she ring first to see if it's OK with you - afterall you might be going out or have company :-) Get her wondering just what company.....be elusive and evasive, just as she is......she will pretend not to be too curious but when she gets home, that brain of hers will be ticking as to just who and where you might be going!!!

Next suggestion - when next you are chatting, throw in a few fake names of people - both male and female!:-) that you say you've got to catch up on and meet for lunch or whatever during your week ahead. I know you have been living together for a year and she probably thinks she knows everything and all about you....again the air of mystery will set in around you in her eyes (she's gonna be thinking - huh, he never mentioned them to me before!!!! - thre's hidden depths to this man!!!...and who can't be attracted to a mystery man or lady for that matter!!!!

Or you can "manufacture" a certain phonecall to happen when next she is with you.....you get a pal to pretendy phone up - blah blah....you beam and say - oh my god, it's been so long, we got to meet up and natter away. I'd even go so far as to say to Ms. Aquar. - you'll excuse me if I leave you for a while to talk to this old pal and exit the door for a while....that will get her goin'!!!

Anyway, Lost in Love, I hope all goes well for you in your world - be your own lovely scorpion self:-)

A x

Hallo dear Alana, sorry for being out of touch for so long. Just came back from holidays. It seems my Scorpio mind has been working exactly like yours. I did the same i.e, asked a couple of my lady collegues from the office to give me a ring at home (when my Aqua girl was present). She seemed dis-interested at first and then after an hour or so popped the question as to who they were and how all of a sudden so many calls start coming in from girls.

Though she has moved out, she finds some excuse to give me a call daily. She has herself stated that she is suffering from "Gef?hlchaos" which directly translated in English would mean "Feelingschaos".

Let us see were all this leads too.... thanks to all for the help and will keep posted when things get interesting again.

Hello to you today my Scorpio pal and so nice to hear again from you. We all thought that you really were lost in space!!! - gone but not forgotten!!:-)...never to be beamed to planet earth again:-)!!:-)

Hope you enjoyed those hols. Anyway, so "Ms. Gefuhchaos" is still making her daily contacts!!! So, you are definitely not "gone with the wind" and well done for those lady colleagues ringing while she was with you!!! a man after my own heart:-) and a lady so like mine (feigning disinterest when the telephone conversation going on!!! and later - by the way, who was that—?!!! Hey for god's sake man, give me your no. and I'll ring you when she's there:-) - that would put the cat among the pigeons!!!!:-)

I'd just keep doin' what you are doin'....have a friendly but "fine if you want to be with me and fine if you don't" attitude....let her initiate any kiss on the cheek hellos or good-byes....or touchie touchies....and in the meantime you make the most of your "play-time" while she's not around for you.

Gotta dash for now lol.

A x

We Aquapersons sure can be a pain in the a/s/s can't we? I had a scorpio girlfriend. Remember that Scorpio and Aquarius are both Fixed Signs. They square one another, which basically translates into a fundamental difference in the direction of the energy between the two. Scorpio is the emotional sign that makes decisions based upon emotional information it takes in. Aquarius is the mental sign that makes decisions based upon mental information it takes in. Scorpio can become obsessed with emotional security, etc if the Aquarius gets too distant. Where as the Aquarius may become obsessed with mental and personal freedom if the scorpio holds on too tight. I can't breathe without you VS I can't breathe, you're smothering me. I still really like scorpio people, and their secret hearts, but my flow gets messed up around them sometimes. I think compromise is the key. From both Aquarius and Scorpio, the cosmic executive signs. And remember to rock the boat till he's all wet.