Oakley01
@Oakley01
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Seduce an Aquarian and make him crazy about you
Hmm...
have your gag reflex removed
hehe :-)
anything else?
thnx
anything else?
thnx
Oh there's plenty of ways to sweep an Aqua off their feet when they didn't even see it coming! For example:
1. Don't come off as a know-it-all but exercise to them that you have just as creative a mind like they do. If you've got an Aqua saying, "Wow, I never thought of it that way" then that means you've actually excerised & opened up their mind (and people can rarely do that to us since we're usually the ones people say that about).
2. Naturally have alot of the same hobbies & dislikes (very important) as them, b/c believe it or not, Aquas aren't worried about how compatible you are with them that's making them so distant. Most of the time, they are scared about the ways you are NOT compatible & how it can & will cause problems in the long run. It's best to find out, for example what sport they like the best or what restaurant they love to eat at & suggest it FIRST as if you didn't even know they liked the same things you like. This will naturally make an Aqua feel more comfortable b/c we always fear that our weirdness, randomness & uniqueness will turn others off or that people only adapt b/c they have to & not b/c they are the same way.
3. Don't always agree with what your Aqua says. And when your Aqua gets on the defensive or starts going into lecture mode (as a way of further trying to convince you why their theory is right) don't ever argue with them. Simply (and on the spot) give your viewpoint that means the same as theirs (meaning no one is necessarily right OR wrong) but find another way for them to look at it, but still technically be saying the same thing they're saying, but in a different way. Once again, Aquas hate it sometimes that we're the ones who are always starting up the long conversations or the ones who keep them going. Aquas attach to things that remind them of themselves (minus all the know-it-all stuff) & it's best to make them value your opinion & your intellect, w/o at the same time making them want to compete against you for who's smarter or more unique.
Thos are just some examples. Hey, they work for me!
1. Don't come off as a know-it-all but exercise to them that you have just as creative a mind like they do. If you've got an Aqua saying, "Wow, I never thought of it that way" then that means you've actually excerised & opened up their mind (and people can rarely do that to us since we're usually the ones people say that about).
2. Naturally have alot of the same hobbies & dislikes (very important) as them, b/c believe it or not, Aquas aren't worried about how compatible you are with them that's making them so distant. Most of the time, they are scared about the ways you are NOT compatible & how it can & will cause problems in the long run. It's best to find out, for example what sport they like the best or what restaurant they love to eat at & suggest it FIRST as if you didn't even know they liked the same things you like. This will naturally make an Aqua feel more comfortable b/c we always fear that our weirdness, randomness & uniqueness will turn others off or that people only adapt b/c they have to & not b/c they are the same way.
3. Don't always agree with what your Aqua says. And when your Aqua gets on the defensive or starts going into lecture mode (as a way of further trying to convince you why their theory is right) don't ever argue with them. Simply (and on the spot) give your viewpoint that means the same as theirs (meaning no one is necessarily right OR wrong) but find another way for them to look at it, but still technically be saying the same thing they're saying, but in a different way. Once again, Aquas hate it sometimes that we're the ones who are always starting up the long conversations or the ones who keep them going. Aquas attach to things that remind them of themselves (minus all the know-it-all stuff) & it's best to make them value your opinion & your intellect, w/o at the same time making them want to compete against you for who's smarter or more unique.
Thos are just some examples. Hey, they work for me!
And besides all that mental stuff:
1. Have that "touch" some people naturally have that automatically feels good no matter what mood an Aqua is in. You know how some people just naturally can touch you anywhere & it arouse you, no matter what state of mind your in? Being soft but yet very sexy is the biggest turn on. Sure, some people who are very aggressive & fast-paced can arouse us just the same, but Aquas really want someone who doesn't have to try hard to arouse us; it's mind blowing when our partners always know when & where to touch us, even if we didn't ask for it. But GENTLNESS & confidence in your own touch is what makes the difference!
2. When watching movies together, an Aqua always feels more comfortable if their partner laughs, cries or blurts out at the very same moment they did b/c it shows compatibility & doesn't make the Aqua feel that they are the only ones who found something sad, funny or scary! I'm telling you it works!
3. Buy us the little but yet creative things on big holidays or anniversaries. We could care less about all that big, macho stuff b/c it'll be too easy for us to misunderstand you caring for simply trying to over-impress us (in which we'll naturally start to question your true motives). We could care less about quantity. We love QUALITY! How the gift was prepared (versus what the gift actually is) is VERY important to us.
4. Be able to cook, be able to keep up with our random freaky & spontaneous streaks in the bedroom. If you want to sweep an Aqua off their feet, put them into a position that they never thought of first, during sex. They'll be so amazed by how far your imagination stretches that they won't be able to stop smiling at how it's a good thing that you're just as creative.
So to answer your question, (since most of what I came up with somehow involved MENTAL stimulation in some form) the answer is NO! 🙂
1. Have that "touch" some people naturally have that automatically feels good no matter what mood an Aqua is in. You know how some people just naturally can touch you anywhere & it arouse you, no matter what state of mind your in? Being soft but yet very sexy is the biggest turn on. Sure, some people who are very aggressive & fast-paced can arouse us just the same, but Aquas really want someone who doesn't have to try hard to arouse us; it's mind blowing when our partners always know when & where to touch us, even if we didn't ask for it. But GENTLNESS & confidence in your own touch is what makes the difference!
2. When watching movies together, an Aqua always feels more comfortable if their partner laughs, cries or blurts out at the very same moment they did b/c it shows compatibility & doesn't make the Aqua feel that they are the only ones who found something sad, funny or scary! I'm telling you it works!
3. Buy us the little but yet creative things on big holidays or anniversaries. We could care less about all that big, macho stuff b/c it'll be too easy for us to misunderstand you caring for simply trying to over-impress us (in which we'll naturally start to question your true motives). We could care less about quantity. We love QUALITY! How the gift was prepared (versus what the gift actually is) is VERY important to us.
4. Be able to cook, be able to keep up with our random freaky & spontaneous streaks in the bedroom. If you want to sweep an Aqua off their feet, put them into a position that they never thought of first, during sex. They'll be so amazed by how far your imagination stretches that they won't be able to stop smiling at how it's a good thing that you're just as creative.
So to answer your question, (since most of what I came up with somehow involved MENTAL stimulation in some form) the answer is NO! 🙂
"have your gag reflex removed"
hahahahahaahaha
hahahahahaahaha
It is possible to seduce him. It isn't possible to seduce and keep him (if just seducing him was your intention), if he/she is an evolved aquarian.
I dunno. My guy seems to like the fact that I am hands on with a few things ( I can cook, I know dark room photography, and I'm into woodworking-I love tools). But it wasn't intentional. Its just who I am. I just learned how to drive (at 35 I know way too late) and he's proud of me and that makes me very happy. Okay let me leave this thread before I get all mushy lol
lol this is quite confusing. Are you saying pretend to agree with the aqua but manipulate the conversation so that the aqua sees your point of view but thinks it's his?"
No, what I was saying was that people should find a way to equally contribute their (just as important and/or just as right) opinion hopefully w/o activating an Aqua's sense that if you don't agree with them, you are mistaken or an idiot. I'm not saying, pretend to agree with an Aqua b/c that wouldn't do you any good (Aquas can smell it when someone's just too good to be true). What I AM saying is find a way to "disagree-agreeably" & that if you & your Aqua have a slight disagreement, to try to let them know that you understand where they are coming from by repeating what their argument is in different words, and THEN later laying out your opinion. So from an Aquas standpoint, if this happens, it'll leave us left saying : "Okay, so he didn't agree with me but he didn't necessarily disagree with me either." And I say that b/c just like Aquas tend to stray from people who agree too much or are too good to be true, the same goes for people (dealing with Aquas) who never have even a slight agreement on things. And this one mostly went out to the other signs like Aquas, who half of the time actually agree with eachother, but b/c of their selfishness & pride to be "right" all the time will mess things up by rewording something to activate an Aqua's sense that that person never agrees with them. Me and my Leo half of the time agree with the same things, we just express those things in different ways. And during the times when we're expressing them, we disagree alot but when we communicate effectively, we're both suprised when we both realized we agreed with eachother the whole time.
No, what I was saying was that people should find a way to equally contribute their (just as important and/or just as right) opinion hopefully w/o activating an Aqua's sense that if you don't agree with them, you are mistaken or an idiot. I'm not saying, pretend to agree with an Aqua b/c that wouldn't do you any good (Aquas can smell it when someone's just too good to be true). What I AM saying is find a way to "disagree-agreeably" & that if you & your Aqua have a slight disagreement, to try to let them know that you understand where they are coming from by repeating what their argument is in different words, and THEN later laying out your opinion. So from an Aquas standpoint, if this happens, it'll leave us left saying : "Okay, so he didn't agree with me but he didn't necessarily disagree with me either." And I say that b/c just like Aquas tend to stray from people who agree too much or are too good to be true, the same goes for people (dealing with Aquas) who never have even a slight agreement on things. And this one mostly went out to the other signs like Aquas, who half of the time actually agree with eachother, but b/c of their selfishness & pride to be "right" all the time will mess things up by rewording something to activate an Aqua's sense that that person never agrees with them. Me and my Leo half of the time agree with the same things, we just express those things in different ways. And during the times when we're expressing them, we disagree alot but when we communicate effectively, we're both suprised when we both realized we agreed with eachother the whole time.
this is also interesting because based on this sort of behaviour your entire relationship will be built on lies and hidden manipulation"
You missed the point. Clearly, it's impossible to know what exact moment an Aqua will laugh, cry or comment about a movie or on something they've seen. What I was saying was that when an Aqua is out with someone & notices that their partner tends to react at the exact same time they do, it turns them on & ignites the passion for their partners even more. I'm not saying, laugh just b/c your Aqua laughs, even if you don't think it's funny. What I'm saying is that a good way to turn an Aqua on for a long period of time is to let them see that you guys both respond, react & show reflexes at the same time b/c in their minds, it'll register as compatibility
You missed the point. Clearly, it's impossible to know what exact moment an Aqua will laugh, cry or comment about a movie or on something they've seen. What I was saying was that when an Aqua is out with someone & notices that their partner tends to react at the exact same time they do, it turns them on & ignites the passion for their partners even more. I'm not saying, laugh just b/c your Aqua laughs, even if you don't think it's funny. What I'm saying is that a good way to turn an Aqua on for a long period of time is to let them see that you guys both respond, react & show reflexes at the same time b/c in their minds, it'll register as compatibility
What I meant was, if you actually agree with your Aqua BUT at the same time can add in another point of view on the same topic, do that. I'm not saying agree with them just to make them happy b/c that will cause loss & no gain on both ends. But it happens alot when 2 people appear to disagree on something & half of the time this happens b/c both people don't realize that they actually DO agree, it's just that they agree from another point of view. And when an Aqua understands that their partners actually do agree, but just in a different way or from another creative point of view or angle that they never thought of, they are easily turned on by this.
Now on the other hand, if you don't agree at all, then that's fine & leave it at that. But I was talking about finding a way (if you actually agree) to make your opinion or viewpoint on the same subject a little bit more creative than theirs, b/c it will "awe" them & amaze them that someone else had a bigger imagination or was able to think of another angle before them. And when you get your Aqua to understand that you actually do agree & when you throw in your point of view that is the same, but just slightly reworded to fit your own personality, then the Aqua will mentally consider you an intellectual match AND/OR challenge, which is always a good thing
Now on the other hand, if you don't agree at all, then that's fine & leave it at that. But I was talking about finding a way (if you actually agree) to make your opinion or viewpoint on the same subject a little bit more creative than theirs, b/c it will "awe" them & amaze them that someone else had a bigger imagination or was able to think of another angle before them. And when you get your Aqua to understand that you actually do agree & when you throw in your point of view that is the same, but just slightly reworded to fit your own personality, then the Aqua will mentally consider you an intellectual match AND/OR challenge, which is always a good thing
Posted by cappygolightly
probably open his mind to new experiences and a world of adventure he didnt previously realise existed.
BINGO!
this is also interesting because based on this sort of behaviour your entire relationship will be built on lies and hidden manipulation.
lol - original script sounded good though but trust Cappy to summarize the intellectual fuzzzzz 🙂
Oakley01, why would you want to pretend to be someone other than what your not for this Aqua man? Trust me he's going to analyze the hell out of you and you can only "act" for so long, the "real" you will be revealed.
Posted by AiryWater
Oakley01, why would you want to pretend to be someone other than what your not for this Aqua man? Trust me he's going to analyze the hell out of you and you can only "act" for so long, the "real" you will be revealed.
I don't want to pretend and I never did. I just behave the way I am. But when I honestly agree with some ideas or thoughts with my Aqua, he is asking me "why I always agree??" Because I agree. Why not? Should I hide that?
And when I disagree he turns off and consider this as a quarrel, which is not! ....confusing...
If I'm trying to have his attention as a woman, because I need love and passionate relationship, I like to have sex everyday, it turns me on when I get his love and touch, it seems like I'm trying to be "needy" or something... which is not!! again... That's why I asked how to seduce him (not because of seduction itself, we are already in relationship) and KEEP HIM (if possible, of course). Cause I do all this things which you described here, this is my own way too!, but nothing seems to happen. I'm wondering how is possible that Aqua man catch you few months, try to please you, do everything for you, express his love and emotional as well mental bond, and then weeks can pass that I feel with him like I'm nobody, like he do not feel anything, not interested etc... That is confusing and that is the reason why I'm asking this questions. I cannot all the time just speak about philosophy, science, universe etc... We can speak until next morning but what a night would be if this conversation can't end with a sex, or sleeping in his arms, or kisses or just expression that he finds me interesting girl which he loves?? I am not craving for this, but it will be nice to KNOW somehow what he is thinking or feeling...
Thanks for all your answers! I decided just to be what I was and what I am no matter if I'm with him or not. Maybe he knows the reason why he "fall in love with me" and then became distant. Maybe I should ask him...
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