Seriously confusing Aquaman!

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psca
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13 Years

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Hi guys!
I'd re-heally like some insight on this...
For starters I'm a pisc sun, aries moon&venus. He's aqua sun and gemini moon&venus.
We met 1yr ago, I made the 1st move. He was eager to meet again, initiated contact by sms(we lived in different countries) and we met again.It was pretty fiery and intense. Lots of emotions in public. We talked and were really good with each other.I met his friends, and everyone was just so nice.
The following day he was acting a little distant and was almost avoiding me at times. I figured this might've been because he thought I was hurt or understood a joke he made with his friends.He had this little-boy feeling to him after that and was a little apologetic.. Anyway we ended the day on good terms.
We chatted a bit online after that (I initiated) and he answered. Then he went silent for a loooooong time. Kinda disappeared.Not a word. I know he was working hard and has a million projects on his hands.. still. You'd think you'd find the time right?
Anyway after 6 months pooof there he is again, really(!!) wanting to see me again, contacted me several times, asking when and where we could meet, I should come to his place. And let's get married. So of course I'm sort of excited but a little on my guard anyway.. I agreed to meet though. I love to travel so I don't mind going to places meeting ppl.. So once tried to arrenge that I'd go see him but that was shot to shit cause he was just answering YES w/o checking calendar.I got pissed off. Anyway a month later we met when he came to my country.

We spent the night again and had a good time.. called me his girl to his friends etc.Again emotions in public&private.
Anyway the next morning he was a bit distant again. We chatted and rolled in bed etc though. But something.
So after that no contact again.. I again sms him, some practical advice etc. Then out of blue he tells me he's met someone, when I asked (casually) if he'd join me to an event. They were toghether for a couple of months, he broke it off and went right away to the next girl who is nothing like his other gfs, alot younger and.. she seems a little air-headed. But def a looker. He seems to keep options open w/ me, not telling yes or no, but... yeah time to move on I guess.
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truecap
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I know an Aqua with those placements and he keeps girls on the line all the time, strings them along. He's always wanting to just keep the options open and won't ever burn a bridge. For him, I think, its a lot of girls he can use for a booty call. If one tries to get a little close, he disappears on her for several months, then tries to contact her to see if she's still "game". Douchebaggery at its finest!!

Not saying that's what he was doing to you, but he was definitely keeping that option open. I think the Gem influence and the Aqua detachment makes them extremely noncommittal.