Several Questions for you all.

They have no basis for anything just wonder is all.

1. Do aquas have a tendency to beat around the bush because I get that more often than the directness alot of sites say they have.

2. What is the basis for anything you do? Meaning when you take action or do something about anything do you consider if it'll affect another person or do you do it based on what you think is right or responsible?

3. What is the deal with walking away mid conversation? Is it only when you are being shy about the subject?

4. What is the deal about making assumptions. Half the time the assumptions are not even correct.

5. Do you guys ever apologize or too much pride like the LEO?

Thanks for the input!

Interesting.

What I mean in terms of beating around the bush are instances where I feel like they are trying to hint not necessarily to "test" but because they are hoping for a certain end result but don't want to directly communicate what they are hoping for either.

In terms of walking away I've noticed they have a tendency to ask a question or start a conversation but then walk away when the other person is answering/reacting.

The one thing I don't get is the assumption thing. What I meant is I've also noticed their tendency to do things based on what THEY think another person wants or would want without actually knowing or asking what the other person would prefer and they always assumed I was being serious and I would always have to tell them I was joking. Even when they knew I was joking they'd form some perception about what my preferences on that subject are in the future.

It's like you have to convince them what their assumptions on things are based on things they misunderstood. You can't convince them of that lol.

I only don't take people at there word and make assumptions when what they say doesn't add up to what they do. Therefore, I obviously deduce I have to analyze what they do or how they say things... Yada yada yada...

Posted by aquarius78
This thread right here is proof that sun signs dont make up a persons motives/personality/charactor and such. ALso Life experiences, surroundings, the way we grew up, the friends we made can all impact the way we interact with the world and the formation in which we choose to interact and see ourselves.

I think he is a capricorn moon. I don't know exactly what his birth time was, but I pretty much am positive i know his birth location.

What does the moon represent?

I have a long history with my aqua man and now i do really get his meanings of

1. Do aquas have a tendency to beat around the bush? Yes, well.. mine does. He doesnt like directness, he needs to talk about everything and just not deal with the question i asked. So i need to remind him that hey, i asked a question and now answer. Hard to get again the direct answer, because he starts to beat around the bush and again from the start.


3. What is the deal with walking away mid conversation? More interesting things to do. That doesnt mean he doesnt want to answer. He will, but when he has time to think about the subject again and answer. So basically i know two reasons why my guy goes away: when he has work and doesnt have time to dedicate himself to our convo anymore. No worries here because he cames back, when he can again concentrate on the subject and me. The second reason is when he doesnt know what to answer or is feeling weird about my talkings lol. i sense the time he does that and then i add something else and he is back again lol.

4. What is the deal about making assumptions. He does think about stuff in his head and doesnt ask me before he makes the final assumption and then believing it. If u do a assumption, ask me and i confirm it or not. He accused me of making assumptions, but mine are always correct lol and his are not most of the time. haha

5. Do you guys ever apologize or too much pride like the LEO? They dont come and apologize first. When he has done something i am the one who pushes him to apologize or say stuff like that u really need to apologize because only then we can move forward and i will say why i think he needs to apologize and when he understands, then he will apologize. He needs to know what made this situation that needs to be apologized for.

Thanks Taurus!

1. Do aquas have a tendency to beat around the bush because I get that more often than the directness alot of sites say they have.
nope. I get to the heart. Tell it like it is. I guess my husband influences me alot. which i love, it's a good influence. He's straight to the point. No bullshit. So i take his lead alot.

2. What is the basis for anything you do? Meaning when you take action or do something about anything do you consider if it'll affect another person or do you do it based on what you think is right or responsible?
uh. not sure about this. I just follow orders. (lol. that sounds funny ...but i just take my hubby's lead)

3. What is the deal with walking away mid conversation? Is it only when you are being shy about the subject?
i never walked away from someone mid-sentence. Only if it's some jerk off on the street trying to talk to me. i probably haven't even started a convo so it's only him doing it one-sided. It's usually rude to walk away mid-sentence.
4. What is the deal about making assumptions. Half the time the assumptions are not even correct.

even if i make an assumption, *shrug* just let me know it's an assumption. I'll be like, okie dokie. So i'm wrong. allrighty then. I let it go and we move on. can't help it. most of the time, i'll guess it's just something else and assume otherwise.

5. Do you guys ever apologize or too much pride like the LEO?

(i'm not sure what this means. I mean profusely apologizing? There's so many situations.

like say, if i stepped on someone's shoes on accident, i would say i'm sorry! it's just automatic. of course i'm sorry because of course, i didn't mean it.

if i bumped into someone, i'd say oh excuse me.

or when you get into an argument with family members or friends? is that it?

i mean when you do something reactionary like dropping a cup of hot coffee on someone, you are sorry! sorry that you're super clumsy. we cant help our muscle reflexes and things that happen accidently. You can't help it.

Posted by IAmMystified
Interesting.

What I mean in terms of beating around the bush are instances where I feel like they are trying to hint not necessarily to "test" but because they are hoping for a certain end result but don't want to directly communicate what they are hoping for either.

In terms of walking away I've noticed they have a tendency to ask a question or start a conversation but then walk away when the other person is answering/reacting.

The one thing I don't get is the assumption thing. What I meant is I've also noticed their tendency to do things based on what THEY think another person wants or would want without actually knowing or asking what the other person would prefer and they always assumed I was being serious and I would always have to tell them I was joking. Even when they knew I was joking they'd form some perception about what my preferences on that subject are in the future.

It's like you have to convince them what their assumptions on things are based on things they misunderstood. You can't convince them of that lol.

Depends on the person/situation. If you are referring to someone in a relationship or potential relationship then yes.. I might beat around the bush. I want to know what they are thinking before I put myself out there. I am very cautious with feelings and I'm quite often scared that feelings aren't mutual. This can be said for a reverse situation as well.. If I'm not into someone but I can tell they are into me I won't directly say I don't care for them like that, at least not at first. I will let my actions take care of that for me. It's not meant to be cold or rude. I just don't like conflict or hurt feelings. Same goes for if I do like them. I won't put myself out there if I think I might get burnt. Done that too many times.
Sarcasm confuses me. Particularly via text. For me, I assume they are being serious. Sarcasm is often seen as a defence mechanism to say what you want without any fear of rejection bc you can always say, oh that was a joke. I tend to overthink things and if you aren't being perfectly clear or direct I might assume one thing or another based on my past experience with these same types of situations. I appreciate honesty. I admit that I do use sarcasm and joking as well but basically for the reasons above so I assume that others are doing the same.