Confrontation

How do I confront an aquaruis man. He is spreading rumors about me. I was trying to be nice and let it go. People talk all the time, but I'm done with the bullshit. Any suggestions?

Take him to the side, layout everything and ask him what his deal is.

Same way you deal with ANY person spreading rumors. Smack them.

Idk if is an Aquarius thing. But ex gossiped and spread rumor like a 7th grader yeeesh how annoying. Once he would get confronted he would denay everything

Posted by starlover
Do you want me to do some voooodoooo on him Iwill? 😛 😆

Yea, you should.

Posted by starlover
Do you want me to do some voooodoooo on him Iwill? 😛 😆

lol voodoo him!!

me and my husband were talking about voodoo stuff that happens in Africa the other night.

There are actually people who are living walking breathing voodoo entranced and were "controlled' by these certain people who practice voodoo. According to the story, the man woke up one day (i guess whatever drug he's been given wore off) then went to his home where he last remembered or something like that.

He didnt remember the last 20 years. (during his voodoo trance)

Posted by sassafras
Take him to the side, layout everything and ask him what his deal is.

This is what I plan to do.

Posted by phEnyxBull876
Same way you deal with ANY person spreading rumors. Smack them.

That's what I want to do. I have done this twice in one year.... At work. Only they weren't spreading rumors. They said rude shit to me.

Posted by Yeli04
Idk if is an Aquarius thing. But ex gossiped and spread rumor like a 7th grader yeeesh how annoying. Once he would get confronted he would denay everything

Yes, he's all in the middle of something that doesn't have anything to do with him. He's been being two faced. So, he's trying to cover his tracks. It ends today.

Posted by starlover
I have been the witness, an onlooker to voodoo....years ago i had a fecking horrible woman boss..she was like Miss Trunchball lol. A workmate asked me to help her do a hex. I said no but went along and watched 😛

Trunchball ended up in hospital with gall stones

The hexer, i must add, was a lovely gentle Pisces girl who had been pushed to the limit by this dragon of a woman

Vooodoo works and i am told i would be very good at it, but karma etc makes me very wary

Yes, karma is a bitch.

Posted by starlover
I have been the witness, an onlooker to voodoo....years ago i had a fecking horrible woman boss..she was like Miss Trunchball lol. A workmate asked me to help her do a hex. I said no but went along and watched 😛

Trunchball ended up in hospital with gall stones

The hexer, i must add, was a lovely gentle Pisces girl who had been pushed to the limit by this dragon of a woman

Vooodoo works and i am told i would be very good at it, but karma etc makes me very wary

You better watch out with karma. I never lifted a hand or a finger with the abusive ex. NOT ONE BIT. I let him have all the money, possessions, ect whatever he wanted. I let it go! As long as he left me the hell alone, i was happy. He could have everything and have it all, but he won't have me.

In the end, i wished him well in his own happiness that he may find "peace" in himself. Instead, he died. I didnt even lift a finger, or thought very ill of him at all. But i had a hard time forgiving.
i easily forgive for many slights, but not for extreme abuse and putting me in the hospital.

KARMA is gonna getcha!!! if you are a cruel and inhumane human being....it's coming.

which interestingly enough....

i wonder if the voodoo people over there that misuse and abuse innocent people by hexing and stuff....

do you believe they got their karma??

WHY do you think he is spreading rumors about you?

Did something happen between you two?

Posted by aquapiscescusp
WHY do you think he is spreading rumors about you?

Did something happen between you two?

I know he is spreading rumors. It's between me and someone he knows. He has been telling me shit about her, also. In other words, playing both sides of the fence. Only difference is I only spoke to him when he said spoke to me.

He spoke*

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by aquapiscescusp
WHY do you think he is spreading rumors about you?

Did something happen between you two?

I know he is spreading rumors. It's between me and someone he knows. He has been telling me shit about her, also. In other words, playing both sides of the fence. Only difference is I only spoke to him when he said spoke to me.

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clear as mud

so what are the rumors about?

What is his motivation for talking about you?

Find the root cause and you can solve the problem.

Posted by truecap
What is his motivation for talking about you?

Find the root cause and you can solve the problem.

Will do.

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by aquapiscescusp
WHY do you think he is spreading rumors about you?

Did something happen between you two?

I know he is spreading rumors. It's between me and someone he knows. He has been telling me shit about her, also. In other words, playing both sides of the fence. Only difference is I only spoke to him when he said spoke to me.

clear as mud

so what are the rumors about?

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His friend has a problem with me. She tells him things and then he goes and spreads it to other people.

So, I got really pissed Tuesday and I guess the Aqua heard about it. I walked through the door and he just automatically put up his arms to block his face like he was expecting me to hit him. Smh.

How old are you?

Posted by Noreallynow
So, I got really pissed Tuesday and I guess the Aqua heard about it. I walked through the door and he just automatically put up his arms to block his face like he was expecting me to hit him. Smh.

Ahh, so he knows he's done you wrong. Did you confront him?