She has a bf but...

This aqua girl who I like has a bf but she stares at me whenever we are near each other. She notices me in a crowd. Does she secretly have feelings for me?

Sounds like she is attracted to you.

Well you haven't really given us much to go on. It's def. possible that she ATLEAST likes you/finds you attractive, but her actually having real & genuine feelings for you might be a stretch.

Obviously there's something about you that intrigues her. What intrigues her OR to what level certain things about you intrigue her is unknown & only something SHE'd know. BUT it takes more than an attractive face or an intriguing quality within someone for us Aquas to officially be able to claim that we have real "feelings" for someone.

You may have sparked her curiosity. She may be staring at you simply b/c she notices you staring at her; after all, to know someone is staring at you means that you're staring at them too. Either way, she's STILL taken so I'm hoping that no matter HOW hard she's staring at you/sending you signals that you'll realize she's "off limits." Trust me, she'd be no good for you either if she can't keep her eyes off of someone she didn't choose to establish a committment with. If she's not happy in her relationship or if she wants to stray, I'm assuming there's no gun pointed at her head that's making her stay. She made the DECISION to be with her boyfriend, therefore it's kind of tacky of her to have glowy eyes for anyone other than the person SHE picked to be with.

If you were to ever get her for yourself in the future, expect for her to be staring at another man in lust (or WHATEVER) while she's sitting next to you.

She is attracted to you. your looks perhaps, your essence. But for a aquarius girl to just pursue you is not likely if she has a bf. question is how great is her relationship with her boyfriend.

I had times where i would be in a relationship with a man...and during the last months before we break up, thinking back. I would start wondering. at least my eyes. I would look a lot at different men that im attract me. BUT because im still in the relationship bad or good (at least with my character) i didnt pursue nor try to attract the men.

Hope this helped ya in a way to get insight to "one" aquarius mind set if one was that aqua girl

could be your interesting. something about you attracts her mystifying gaze...she prolly already has you bewitched. your now owned by her secretly...to be a slave for all eternity. i know im devoted to my aqua friend...she has no feelings but theres this....thing. keeps me around i guess....always willing to do anything to make her happy.

I think its a pretty big leap to assume anything. You may remind her of someone...she may be wondering if you got a haircut...I mean honestly it could be anything.

Posted by Shadows
I think its a pretty big leap to assume anything. You may remind her of someone...she may be wondering if you got a haircut...I mean honestly it could be anything.

Ha! I agree! Aquas (hell women PERIOD) notice & pick up on EVERYTHING! She may be staring at the same booger that's been in your nose for the past 2 weeks. She may be noticing you notice other people (or perhaps even HER). She may have heard something good OR bad about you, therefore it's only thrilling/natural for her to have the opportunity to fully observe the person/thing that was the topic of a conversation before. Who knows, it could be anything.

I'm sure she probably LIKES what she's seeing when she stares at you, but he actually having feelings for you? That's a stretch. If anything, Aquas do things the complete OPPOSITE when they have feelings for someone they don't really know. They're not like most girls who sit & stare, express/expose all of their emotions. Hell if anything, we'll purposely NOT stare at you or give you any clues that we like you if it's possible!

Aquas are very loyal. She may be a cheater, OR she may be unhappy in her relationship. She may not even realize that she's staring at you as much as she does. She may be unhappy, thus she might sub-consciously have a "wandering eye" b/c it's her heart/mind's way of signaling that she wants to stray/get away from the relationship or the person she's with.

Hell she could be staring at lots of guys, but of course since you like her alot, you may only see what you want to see. You may only notice her when she just so happens to be noticing you. For all you know, there could be 5 other guys that are thinking the same, "Man she keeps staring at me" thing you're thinking. I'm not trying to bust your bubble here. I'mJustSayin' =)

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Posted by Dafink
This aqua girl who I like has a bf but she stares at me whenever we are near each other. She notices me in a crowd. Does she secretly have feelings for me?

Leave her alone she has BF mate. Who gives a fuck if she's checking you out, maybe she finds you attractive or maybe not, doesn't matter mate. Stop thinking she has feelings for you as well, aquas are not emotional, they are superficial indeed, but they are not necessarily emotional. Move on...

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Bollocks, Aquas are indeed emotional. We just choose not to display it by snotting all over your shirt and screaming like a rabid hyena over a broken nail.

Pft, not emotional - utter rubbish!

I agree with NZ: We ARE emotional. We just don't wear our emotions on our sleeves! Just b/c you can't see it doesn't mean that it's not there. And hell half of the time we WILL & DO show others our emotions; it's just that we have to build a certain comfort level with them 1st. But oh trust me, the emotions are there.

Let's be honest here. If we Aquas turned into Cancers people would be complaining about how annoying it is that we always talk about our emotions. We're damned if we do, damned if we don't

Thanks for the replies guys. They really mean a lot. Do you guys think she is into me? She glances at me and her bf has noticed. I think he is trying to distance us, but none of us have ever talked to each other before.

just cos theres a goalie doesnt mean u cant score

@Dafink: Well if you're seeing this girl as a "hit it & quit it" target then I'm sure if you said/did the right things AND if their relationship was on the rocks, you probably COULD get what you wanted out of her.

BUT, it's sounding like you're genuienly interested in this girl, so if I were you, I'd do BOTH of you guys a favor & just let it go.

It doesn't matter HOW many times she stares at you nor does it matter that her boyfriend is starting to catch on & do little things to ensure that you don't come within so many feet of his girl. She's STILL taken. Him trying to place distance is his way of marking his territory & to an extent I can't blaim him. There's nothing more annoying than being out with your partner & noticing someone ELSE drooling over the person you love even after finding out that THEY KNOW your partner is already taken. It's a form of disrespect. I'd be a fool to call her man insecure b/c hey, he's just trying to REMIND you that she's already taken. And since he's already started doing the little things to make sure you both stay far away from eachother, I'm almost positive that he's had some sort of "talk" with his girlfriend about you by now.

If she's never talked to you before there's only so much she knows about you. She may like you physically BUT if she doesn't know anything about you other than hear-say it's almost impossible to believe that she has any geniune interest in you. Just physically liking what you see isn't enough. She doesn't know anything about you thus there's really no way for any of us to say, "Yep, she wants you." If she DOES like you, her admiration for you is pre-mature.

Like I said, she's probably still staring at you only b/c she notices you staring at her. She's probably so curious to know why someone would keep watching her even after seeing her man by her side. Even if she wants out of her relationship, it's always a BAD move to show the person you like that you'd be willing to completely overlook/disrespect their partners all so that you can "get in."

Remember, if she'll stare you down while she's ALREADY taken, she'd do the same with someone else persay you & her finally hooked up. If she's THAT unhappy in her relationship that she feels the need to use her "wandering eye" then she'd leave the relationship, BUT she hasn't so know your place & stop trying to "guess" your way through this. Either way, she's taken & technically you 2 have NOTHING to talk about until she can finish things