should i keep trying for my aquarius soulmate?

hey by far i've found out and witnessed that this guy is truely my soulmate..
we like the same colours and we wear them at the same time...isnt that funny
and when i go looking for him on the road in my car and my heart is really aching cause i cant find him he appears
on the same street if he's looking for me too...but i'am becoming at little exhausted after a year and a half...
rigth now i'm hurting cause i know he is
secretly trying to get my attention by
seeing another girl that i told him was
a no... no...a few weeks back...this was after i wrote him a letter and told him i didnt want to pursue him anymore
i'm sure this confused him because i told him i would never give up...but i was trying to take a short cut to his heart to see if he would come after me
but he didnt... instead he choose to get
my attention to come back around cause
his heart really wants me... he just doent know how to approach the love he's always wanted and now has ....but
like i said i'm starting to shed alot of tears cause i want him so bad...ididnt think i would ever say this but... i'm almost totally exhausted
should i continue my quest for love with this aqua guy?

If your soul mates then maybe you will come together at a different time, like many years in the future. If he is seeing someone else, then he isn't respecting you or being kind to your feelings and that isn't a soulmate. I know its hard, been through that myself many years ago, but you have to love and respect yourself first or no one else will.

63. it's me again. Now that I have a more indepth insight on whats happening let me try to assist.
You love him...what's not to love. Let me offer a few things that may help.

1) don't say something that you don't mean
2)Aquaris men will stick it out until they feel pressured.
3)Love him completely and he will return the love back.
4)aqua men have a lot of female friends. Just let him know that you are his friend now and you understand that he has females friends but out of respect to you he can not hang out with them.
5)Sometime when a person knows how much you love them they take it for granted. Ruffle his feathers a little bit. Don't be available to him this weekend. Go out with the girls and see a movie. Be aloof like he is doing. I promise you you will have his attention.
6) be very honest with him

It is clear to me that you are both in sync but he is afraid of getting hurt. Remember women are stronger. We can break up with a guy, deliver a baby, have pms, a cold, all in one week and a man will have the sniffles and think that he is dying. YOu have to treat him delicately.

hey lady virgo,

your just too good at this... thanks
and i will take your advice except that yesterday i bought him a little stuffed puppy with a heart in his mouth saying
puppy love and i stopped by his work place this morning and told him that my
girlfriend at home has a gift for him
and not to throw it away... but of course this was after i saw this girl at
his house last night so i was a bit hesitant in delivering it last night, so i waited till this morning to think
more about the delivery... i was happy
with his response it wasnt negative at all really... but when my girlfriend tried to deliver the puppy at his work place he wasnt working today... so it
became obvious to me that he only went
to work because he was waiting for me to
cross to see if he was there,so he waited on me to hear my response to last night
..but i didnt get upset at all
i just told him about the puppy and totally ignored the fact that he was with her the night before... do you think i did the right thing?

hey lady virgo,

your just too good at this... thanks
and i will take your advice except that yesterday i bought him a little stuffed puppy with a heart in his mouth saying
puppy love and i stopped by his work place this morning and told him that my
girlfriend at home has a gift for him
and not to throw it away... but of course this was after i saw this girl at
his house last night so i was a bit hesitant in delivering it last night, so i waited till this morning to think
more about the delivery... i was happy
with his response it wasnt negative at all really... but when my girlfriend tried to deliver the puppy at his work place he wasnt working today... so it
became obvious to me that he only went
to work because he was waiting for me to
cross to see if he was there,so he waited on me to hear my response to last night
..but i didnt get upset at all
i just told him about the puppy and totally ignored the fact that he was with her the night before... do you think i did the right thing?

hey lady virgo,

your just too good at this... thanks
and i will take your advice except that yesterday i bought him a little stuffed puppy with a heart in his mouth saying
puppy love and i stopped by his work place this morning and told him that my
girlfriend at home has a gift for him
and not to throw it away... but of course this was after i saw this girl at
his house last night so i was a bit hesitant in delivering it last night, so i waited till this morning to think
more about the delivery... i was happy
with his response it wasnt negative at all really... but when my girlfriend tried to deliver the puppy at his work place he wasnt working today... so it
became obvious to me that he only went
to work because he was waiting for me to
cross to see if he was there,so he waited on me to hear my response to last night
..but i didnt get upset at all
i just told him about the puppy and totally ignored the fact that he was with her the night before... do you think i did the right thing?

hey lady virgo,

your just too good at this... thanks
and i will take your advice except that yesterday i bought him a little stuffed puppy with a heart in his mouth saying
puppy love and i stopped by his work place this morning and told him that my
girlfriend at home has a gift for him
and not to throw it away... but of course this was after i saw this girl at
his house last night so i was a bit hesitant in delivering it last night, so i waited till this morning to think
more about the delivery... i was happy
with his response it wasnt negative at all really... but when my girlfriend tried to deliver the puppy at his work place he wasnt working today... so it
became obvious to me that he only went
to work because he was waiting for me to
cross to see if he was there,so he waited on me to hear my response to last night
..but i didnt get upset at all
i just told him about the puppy and totally ignored the fact that he was with her the night before... do you think i did the right thing?

hey lady virgo,

your just too good at this... thanks
and i will take your advice except that yesterday i bought him a little stuffed puppy with a heart in his mouth saying
puppy love and i stopped by his work place this morning and told him that my
girlfriend at home has a gift for him
and not to throw it away... but of course this was after i saw this girl at
his house last night so i was a bit hesitant in delivering it last night, so i waited till this morning to think
more about the delivery... i was happy
with his response it wasnt negative at all really... but when my girlfriend tried to deliver the puppy at his work place he wasnt working today... so it
became obvious to me that he only went
to work because he was waiting for me to
cross to see if he was there,so he waited on me to hear my response to last night
..but i didnt get upset at all
i just told him about the puppy and totally ignored the fact that he was with her the night before... do you think i did the right thing?

hey 63...word of advice NEVER have your friends around your man. Keep the two seperate. Exspecially if she is around him when you are not. It is nice to give him a stuffed animal..it is a sweet gesture but don't share anything intimate with your girlfriend about you and him. I am not saying that she likes him but you never no. He appreciates the stuffed animal but stay busy this saturday. it's going to be hard because you may want to call him but a guy loves a good chase. Let him chase you for a minute....

hey 63...word of advice NEVER have your friends around your man. Keep the two seperate. Exspecially if she is around him when you are not. It is nice to give him a stuffed animal..it is a sweet gesture but don't share anything intimate with your girlfriend about you and him. I am not saying that she likes him but you never no. He appreciates the stuffed animal but stay busy this saturday. it's going to be hard because you may want to call him but a guy loves a good chase. Let him chase you for a minute....

Then how abt libra and aquarius? I'm a libra gal... I love my boyfriend alot. but i have no ideas of whether he loves me not... he himself knows tat i really love him but he is taking me for granted. how can i win his heart?
and one thing he keep asking me to lost my virgin to him... do u think he love me? i'm very upset... of sometimes i felt that he still think of his ex gf...

To 63, the one asking about whether to pursue the aquarian guy she thinks is her soulmate.....my advice: let it go, you've already confused the hell out of him. once you've confused an aquarian guy, you'll play loads of havoc trying to straighten it out, and once you do, there's not guarantee he'll keep his attention centered. aquarian guys are great as friends, but some are drawn to scorpios (why i have no idea cuz scorpios are possessive - but i believe it's the challenge that keeps them going) and they won't commit to anyone until they are absolutely certain they'll still have a free foot to do whatever they want in life. take it from me, an aquarian woman - i've been married to a gemini for 14 years, and it took me a while to find someone who would let me do my own thing, was comfortable with that and wanted to do their own thing as well. when i say "do our own thing" that means he won't b**** at me if i bring friends home and visa versa, and our interests are sometimes different, yet they blend together and we help each other out on many projects, cuz geminis rule in terms of diversity. we compliment each other well. when two aquarians get together, the sparks fly, the romance is intense, and then one of them winds up getting hurt, cuz one of the aquarians eyes will wander. that's just the nature of aquarians. they want freedom at all costs. and they will break your heart in a wink, then say sorry, didn't mean to give you the wrong impression, let's just be friends. i had a romance with an aquarian a long time ago before i was married, and i swore i'd never kiss another aquarian again. they're lethal in a romance. that's why you're exhausted. find someone who actually wants to be there for you. playing with aquarians in love is like going to las vegas, you'll either come back rich or you'll be hitchhiking the way back home. ok i've given my advice, take it or leave it. good luck.

Hi 202! First congrats on your virginity. It takes a real women to hold onto hers and I am so proud of you!!! It appears as if you are young (that's not a bad thing) The world is your oyster. You should know how a person feels about you without a doubt. If you are unsure about the way a person feels than pursue other avenues. You can still be his friend but he would know that he is not your priorty anymore. In turn he will begin to chase you. He knows that you are probably a good person who have her morales together. So let it happen naturally. This is a new relationship and aquarius men want to be sure that they can trust you. It takes time for them to build that trust so be patient. in the meantime date other people (don't sleep w/them) Be true to yourself. You deserve the best so why not have the best...

thanks alot lady virgo... but do u think he love me too?

I think that he cares for you. However his love for you is not as strong as yours is.