should I leave this aqua man for good?

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9 Years

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I know i shouldn't be asking this question. But should I leave this aqua man?

His been honest and all that which I'm very grateful and I know the TRUTH hurts for all of us. Instead of lying and finding it out later on. This aqua man and I are not couple or anything its just casual fling but with deeper connection (but then again its ON and OFF). It intrigue to a point we can't get off from each other mind/chest. its very ODD and I'm not claiming to be his GF and he isn't too. But that ON/OFF scene and which I ask if his seeing another women and he said YES then the next time we get back again I ask him again if his been sleeping around because I just found out that his having an STI test and his just waiting for the results; in which he honestly told me that his been sleeping with this girl for a month condomless (4 weeks) i was very furious to the point I have to walk away from this and get some air to think it over. In fact he doesn't even want a relationship to anyone which I'm very STUPID as well to keep allowing him.

But now I just want to leave him for good, because this is going nowhere for us. It's just bad. I have to leave him.

Now i'm just worried about myself, probably he passed it on to me as well even though we had sex protection.
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Aquagirl2015
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t you did the right thing. Drown your sorrows in ice cream for a day and then start moving on your merry way.

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I think you need to leave him. He's being honest which is great but when we say we don't want a relationship, we really mean it. Plus you don't want to be one of many. When we're in that phrase, nobody is going to take it out of us. Be safe with your next partner with both your heart and your body.
Yep, I did. its too much 😭

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Posted by Aquagirl2015
It's hard but you did the right thing. Drown your sorrows in ice cream for a day and then start moving on your merry way.

Posted by vesper
Posted by Aquagirl2015
I think you need to leave him. He's being honest which is great but when we say we don't want a relationship, we really mean it. Plus you don't want to be one of many. When we're in that phrase, nobody is going to take it out of us. Be safe with your next partner with both your heart and your body.
Yep, I did. its too much 😭


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Yes i know i did the right thing. I'm away from trouble now except my health. I need to get tested too.

He said the results was all clear which is good for him; now he can go back and mess around with that girl.
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Aquagirl2015
@Aquagirl2015
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rts but it's better to be alone then be one of many when that's not what you want. Get tested and take a supportive girlfriend with you if you can. Don't beat yourself up but learn from this mistake. You'll be ok!



Posted by vesper
Posted by Aquagirl2015
It's hard but you did the right thing. Drown your sorrows in ice cream for a day and then start moving on your merry way.

Posted by vesper
Posted by Aquagirl2015
I think you need to leave him. He's being honest which is great but when we say we don't want a relationship, we really mean it. Plus you don't want to be one of many. When we're in that phrase, nobody is going to take it out of us. Be safe with your next partner with both your heart and your body.
Yep, I did. its too much 😭



Yes i know i did the right thing. I'm away from trouble now except my health. I need to get tested too.

He said the results was all clear which is good for him; now he can go back and mess around with that girl.

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vesper
@vesper
9 Years

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Posted by Aquagirl2015
I know it hurts but it's better to be alone then be one of many when that's not what you want. Get tested and take a supportive girlfriend with you if you can. Don't beat yourself up but learn from this mistake. You'll be ok!



Posted by vesper
Posted by Aquagirl2015
It's hard but you did the right thing. Drown your sorrows in ice cream for a day and then start moving on your merry way.

Posted by vesper
Posted by Aquagirl2015
I think you need to leave him. He's being honest which is great but when we say we don't want a relationship, we really mean it. Plus you don't want to be one of many. When we're in that phrase, nobody is going to take it out of us. Be safe with your next partner with both your heart and your body.
Yep, I did. its too much 😭



Yes i know i did the right thing. I'm away from trouble now except my health. I need to get tested too.

He said the results was all clear which is good for him; now he can go back and mess around with that girl.


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Oh you're very sweet my dear! first not a girlfriend But BOYFRIEND. I will look for a supportive and civilised Boyfriend if i have time and indeed it's a big big mistake.