What did aquarius guy mean by

He initiates contact with me everyday. We've known eachother for a month and been on 3 dates, didnt sleep together yet. Yesterday he asks me out again and says we can do whatever I want or we can just "Netflix and chill" and then he laughed and he put the Netflix and chill in quotations. Does he mean hook up? I got offended when he said that, is it wrong that I'm offended? :/

Posted by MIIeFisk
Tell him he can "Pornhub and Nivea" all by himself

Hahaha that was hilarious! 🙂

How do you not know what that means?

He's jokingly saying he wants to fuck you and wants to see if you'd be open for business in that department.

When guys say that stupid shit, they're trying to "joke" their way into seeing if they have a chance with you when it comes to sexy times.

Posted by Huntertyga

Posted by MIIeFisk
Tell him he can "Pornhub and Nivea" all by himself

Hahaha that was hilarious! 🙂

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That IS hilarious.

He'd probably want you even worse if you said that.

😄

he literally means what he said

Thanks so much for all your advice guys!!!! We've never talked sexual before though so this surprised me. I just hope that him saying that doesn't mean that he just wants me for hooking up and that's it😢 we text everyday and talk about our day and he wants to know more about me so him saying that kinda made me feel like he just wants sex? :/

Yeah, how many guys would really be that up front, honestly?

My Aqua STILL can't be up front about it.

Most guys will be thinking it but won't say it. Can't blame a guy for trying.

OP, if you like him just suggest something you'd like to do and don't get hungup on his douchy delivery and wanting to get a reaction out of you. That's what they do. He'll be fine if you don't want to get naked. And if he isn't, no harm done and move on.

I'm sure he'd be happy being a fukboi but that's all up to you.

It means sex without commitment. Don't do it; your next thread will be: Why Has Aqua stopped contacting me

Yeeeaah, what @librawomen7 said. ?

Posted by rockyroadicecream
How do you not know what that means?

He's jokingly saying he wants to fuck you and wants to see if you'd be open for business in that department.

When guys say that stupid shit, they're trying to "joke" their way into seeing if they have a chance with you when it comes to sexy times.

F@&k boy behavior

Posted by littlenanobyte

Posted by rockyroadicecream
How do you not know what that means?

He's jokingly saying he wants to fuck you and wants to see if you'd be open for business in that department.

When guys say that stupid shit, they're trying to "joke" their way into seeing if they have a chance with you when it comes to sexy times.

That is so fucking true nowadays!

Like "I'm kidding, but not if you're serious though"

So getting rejected is easy because they are "kidding" but if the girl is down, they win.

They aren't kidding more than 9/10 times I'd say.

It's kind of fuckboy tbh.

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It really is.

Here you go, OP

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Here you go, OP

Thanks so much for that! Will put it to good use ?

the whole "netflix and chill" thing is so beat in now everyone knows it is a joke LOL yall really need to lighten up on here

im 99.999999 percent sure hes being sarcastic. he just wants to hang out

I'd take the guy on his offer. Dgaf what his intentions are. I'd hang out with him because he would seem to be a cool and chill dude. But that is just me.

What's your sign OP?

Posted by TheLibraMudra
He meant that he'd like to feck thee brains out

It's kind of a dur, yet some people deny it haha (mostly dudes, funny how that works).

I gotta love when the dudes pipe up and downplay such stupid talk and deny what's really going on here. But as I've said before, a lot of the guys here have no idea what it's like to be female in dating, so their input for the female perspective is lol worthy.

Joking or not, joking about THAT when things are still really fresh is just tacky and rude and it's SO obvious why he was "joking" about it.

Same shit as when a guy starts asking sexually related questions or bringing up sexually related topics- he's got one thing on his mind.

Joking or not, it's kind of inappropriate and it's also really inappropriate to tell women to just downplay it or play along with it. She's obviously not uncomfortable, but was kinda wtf about it because it left her confused that he went from okay dude to making sexual innuendo with her in such a tacky way.

Fun fact, women do NOT have to tolerate this shit nor should they be told to let it slide because he was "joking." *eyeroll*

If I ask you to "Netflix and chill" - sexiest thing gon' happen is maybeh you see my big toe, cos my woolly sock has a hole innit...

😏

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Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by TheLibraMudra
He meant that he'd like to feck thee brains out

It's kind of a dur, yet some people deny it haha (mostly dudes, funny how that works).

I gotta love when the dudes pipe up and downplay such stupid talk and deny what's really going on here. But as I've said before, a lot of the guys here have no idea what it's like to be female in dating, so their input for the female perspective is lol worthy.

Joking or not, joking about THAT when things are still really fresh is just tacky and rude and it's SO obvious why he was "joking" about it.

Same shit as when a guy starts asking sexually related questions or bringing up sexually related topics- he's got one thing on his mind.

Joking or not, it's kind of inappropriate and it's also really inappropriate to tell women to just downplay it or play along with it. She's obviously not uncomfortable, but was kinda wtf about it because it left her confused that he went from okay dude to making sexual innuendo with her in such a tacky way.

Fun fact, women do NOT have to tolerate this shit nor should they be told to let it slide because he was "joking." *eyeroll*

My neck

My back

My netflix

nnnn my snax

I don't even watch tv anymore so asking me to netflix n chill would crack me up. Even if I did watch it all the time, I'd still crack up. Maybe it's a serious question they ask because they wanna cuddle and get lost in a show. My mind always goes to sex cause I'm a dirty perv.

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Bwahaha.

I don't know of many guys who cuddle and it not lead to sex though haha. In an ideal world, yeah that'd be awesome. But next thing you know, there's a hard on pressed into your back.

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
He's letting you know he's up for sex if you wanna go for it at the same time he's cool carrying on as is. He is interested in you. Not just for sex.

Nothing to get offended about.

If on the other hand you wanna get yourself worked up over nothing then listen to the clucking hens.

Sexist and ignorant. You must be a catch. Hold up them panties, ladies, we got a keeper here!

I do agree with the first part of your statement. But I also don't see anywhere in this thread where the OP was offended, or anyone else, for that matter. Just eye roll equivalent of "jebus, what a fuckboy move." He basically asked her if she wanted to come over and fuck, and tbh, in the female world of dating, when you hear this coming form a dude you're still acquainting yourself with, this is really not what we want to hear so early on and it's really disappointing. "Great, another asshat."

She wanted his stupid joke translated, and that's what she got. "He wants to fuck you and went about bringing it up in a fuckboy fashion." That in itself would turn off any self respecting woman, tbh. Nothing's wrong with making intentions known, but to go about it in such a passive, stupid way is pathetic and shows where his maturity is.

But hey, you wanna do the whole "bros before hoes" mentality and dismiss this guy's shitty game, by all means.

Offended over a date? OMG. Looks like someone here needs some Netflix and Chill. What is so wrong for him wanting his girlfriend to watch a few movies, cuddle, flirt, play or even sex. What's the difference between that and asking a woman on a date to go home with him or vice versa? Or dinner at someone's house? That is an obvious sex move right there.

All these questions about this Aqua guy by one OP in multiple topics.

this topic is hilarious. lol 😆

let's be honest here.

if it's a guy we want so PASSIONATELY have hot good sex with, and you want to be his boyfriend and make yummy love to him....

you're gonna be all YAY!!!!!!

run to the bathroom, get shaved up, clean your teeth, mouthwash, gargle, do your make up a little but not too much (some guys don't like too much) make sure there's no plague between your teeth, check your armpits if they are shaved, make sure that down there too is not looking like a JUNGLE LOVE. 😆 😆 *que steve miller band*

haha.

then you say, to the guy on the other end, "Hey baby I know you want some!!! never mind the Netflix!!! let's get it on!!!"

puts on "Marvin Gaye" music.

😆

i'm just teasing, it's all fun in my head. but in all honesty, i'm too shy for that shit. but I can IMAGINE how it would be. so funny!!

Lol @lisabethur8. You crack me up!

Next topic from the same OP:

Went "Netflix and chill" with a cool guy. He brought popcorn and beer. I....sexy undies and a pack of condoms. Next thing we did, was to cuddle on the sofa, talking about the latest Space X explosion. Untill he fall asleep...😢

WHAT DOEAS IT MEAN?

Is he not attracted to me 😢...— Have I been FRIENDZONED 😢...............?!!!!! Help!!!!!!

I think you’re taking it way too seriously. Most Aqua guys I know are just really big on jokes and it sounds like he was being sarcastic, especially by calling it ‘Netflix and chill’. If all he wanted was sex from you, he wouldn’t try to get to know you past the “what’s your name and all the basics” stage and probably would have tried something physically by now. But from the way you put it, it sounds as if he was being sarcastic about it since that’s what most people do when they stay home with the object of their affections instead of going out lol. And even if he does want to have sex with you, he is being blunt about it. Which is another Aqua trait I have come to adore. But him being straightforward about sex doesn’t mean he will just use you either. He could, but it’s not set in stone. I dated an Aquarius with an Aries moon for two years and we were just hook up buddies in the beginning that became way more so don’t listen to people that say Aquarius will sleep with you then just disappear because that can happen with any sign lol.

Her back must be quite chilled by now 😛

Posted by Undine

Her back must be quite chilled by now 😛

haha.

they must have just "finished"

HAPPY FINISH. 😄 😄

btw I always joke with my husband when we pass by a massage parlour,

and I point out, "Think some guy are getting some happy finishes??" 😆

I wish they put porn on Netflix. You could be watching porn while fking at the same time. Or watch it before or after together.

Posted by GemNinja
I wish they put porn on Netflix. You could be watching porn while fking at the same time. Or watch it before or after together.

They already did. It has some shows that includes nudity, sex and sexual suggestions.

Example:

Spartacus