Do Aqua men only like women they can't have

So its kind of weird I was talking to this one guy on tinder but just cause we are both from Aus and he was having a party and wanted girls to go. So a few wks later he was like oh i showed my friend your photo and he can't stop talking about it. Do you want to get set up and I was like umm weird maybe group drinks. Then the friend started following me on instagram, like a week later he must have got tinder or just coincidentally came up so we started talking then a few wks later he must have found my last name on one of my instagram posts and added me to fb. Then we were talking about meeting up but he was going away and when he got back he asked me out but it was last min so I said no then suggested we go out the next wk, we set a night then i sent a msg to follow up and he just didn't respond till the next day and said he had to work a double but I looked and he was active on fb the whole time. So weird, its like he stalked me out but doesn't actually want to meet me....any idea what that could be about

They need a challenge that's for sure.

If you're a challenge and worth partaking it.

i feel like i didn't make much effort though just rescheduled cause he didn't make definite plans with me the week prior so then when he msgd me last minute I was kind of like well i'm busy now. I wasn't going to be waiting around for him but then as soon as i showed any interest its like poof he's gone lol. Oh well I just won't make any effort from now on.

Posted by MissM
i feel like i didn't make much effort though just rescheduled cause he didn't make definite plans with me the week prior so then when he msgd me last minute I was kind of like well i'm busy now. I wasn't going to be waiting around for him but then as soon as i showed any interest its like poof he's gone lol. Oh well I just won't make any effort from now on.

They don't like procastinators when they're making an invitation.

Besides, take into account they enjoy alone time just as much, so you either say yes on the spot or 'next week' most times won't do it; they have their own beat you need to adapt to if you're interested.

My moon is in Aqua and I read that it makes me more attracted to people who basically give me little to no attention lol. I’m not sure if Aqua suns are the same way. But most guys that end up being interested in me have Aqua somewhere in their chart, and most are attracted to me because I come off as very uninterested because I am off in my on world. Only interested in intellectual conversations and getting to know people.

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Posted by MissM
i feel like i didn't make much effort though just rescheduled cause he didn't make definite plans with me the week prior so then when he msgd me last minute I was kind of like well i'm busy now. I wasn't going to be waiting around for him but then as soon as i showed any interest its like poof he's gone lol. Oh well I just won't make any effort from now on.

They don't like procastinators when they're making an invitation.

Besides, take into account they enjoy alone time just as much, so you either say yes on the spot or 'next week' most times won't do it; they have their own beat you need to adapt to if you're interested.

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haha well i guess i'm not that interested then. If someone expects me to just be there when its convenient for them i'm not interested. I'm a gem with aqua moon, i already march to my own drum beat!

Posted by canceraqua
My moon is in Aqua and I read that it makes me more attracted to people who basically give me little to no attention lol. I’m not sure if Aqua suns are the same way. But most guys that end up being interested in me have Aqua somewhere in their chart, and most are attracted to me because I come off as very uninterested because I am off in my on world. Only interested in intellectual conversations and getting to know people.

hahah I hear that.... I'm an aqua moon and am only really interested now cause i'm getting no attention lol

Must be mentally challenged above all else otherwise we lose interest and just sleep with you. But I would point out that if you're talking to someone on tinder, I don't think he's very serious to begin with.

We analyze a lot although I'm the female aqua so things might be a bit different. We like to know as much as we can about you and study you like a science project so we know exactly what buttons to push depending on the outcome. Sometimes unfortunately, we will get distracted if something better comes along.

My advice with him. Leave him and tinder unless you just want a casual fling or fwb. If that's what you're looking for, which is totally ok and don't let anyone shame you into thinking otherwise, then I would just wait for him to come to you. Make sure things are always on your terms.

Posted by MissM
So its kind of weird I was talking to this one guy on tinder but just cause we are both from Aus and he was having a party and wanted girls to go. So a few wks later he was like oh i showed my friend your photo and he can't stop talking about it. Do you want to get set up and I was like umm weird maybe group drinks. Then the friend started following me on instagram, like a week later he must have got tinder or just coincidentally came up so we started talking then a few wks later he must have found my last name on one of my instagram posts and added me to fb. Then we were talking about meeting up but he was going away and when he got back he asked me out but it was last min so I said no then suggested we go out the next wk, we set a night then i sent a msg to follow up and he just didn't respond till the next day and said he had to work a double but I looked and he was active on fb the whole time. So weird, its like he stalked me out but doesn't actually want to meet me....any idea what that could be about

Mihai Eminescu, Romanian national poet and Aqua.

Never married or in a relationship.

Written poems about inaccessible women (and demi-gods). Longterm infatuated with a married woman called Veronica Micle....

Posted by Aquagirl2015
Must be mentally challenged above all else otherwise we lose interest and just sleep with you. But I would point out that if you're talking to someone on tinder, I don't think he's very serious to begin with.

We analyze a lot although I'm the female aqua so things might be a bit different. We like to know as much as we can about you and study you like a science project so we know exactly what buttons to push depending on the outcome. Sometimes unfortunately, we will get distracted if something better comes along.

My advice with him. Leave him and tinder unless you just want a casual fling or fwb. If that's what you're looking for, which is totally ok and don't let anyone shame you into thinking otherwise, then I would just wait for him to come to you. Make sure things are always on your terms.

Yeah I don't take tinder very seriously but I think he only got it to talk to me and then totally stalked me down... generally I'm only on there for some entertainment when I get bored.

Aqua moon is a loveable placment. It's hard not to like or be attracted to people with this placement because they make you feel heard and understood. Having said that, they are usually found single because despite the significant number of people they attract, they desire the one they can't have for whatever reason. They are a love tragedy of their own.

Posted by aquarius09
Aqua moon is a loveable placment. It's hard not to like or be attracted to people with this placement because they make you feel heard and understood. Having said that, they are usually found single because despite the significant number of people they attract, they desire the one they can't have for whatever reason. They are a love tragedy of their own.

Yes, I am an aqua moon and hate an overly clingy mate but when they go away then i'm more interested and am like hey where did they go. This guy I think is a cancer moon but an aqua sun.

Posted by Undine
Mihai Eminescu, Romanian national poet and Aqua.

Never married or in a relationship.

Written poems about inaccessible women (and demi-gods). Longterm infatuated with a married woman called Veronica Micle....

Cap

His letters to her are on a level of cringe worthiness no Aqua placement could muster.

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Posted by Undine
Mihai Eminescu, Romanian national poet and Aqua.

Never married or in a relationship.

Written poems about inaccessible women (and demi-gods). Longterm infatuated with a married woman called Veronica Micle....

Cap

His letters to her are on a level of cringe worthiness no Aqua placement could muster.

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I'm surprised to see that he was born on 15th of January (1850) .....I didn't check earlier because he was often mentioned in my family as having his birthday two days before my father's birthday (who was nicknamed "the Poet" in his youth, due to a striking resemblance). Ah well, I was wrong.

Cap...WTF?

He had moon and Mercury in Aqua though....Neptune in Pisces 🙂

@OP

To your post question, because it gives them a challenge. They feed off of brain stimulation. I would know I dated one for 5 years and it was sporadic and chaotic. Virgos and Aquas do not clash.

To your post: He viewed you as a conquest. You easily gave in. He conquered. You should not have rescheduled.

Ummm do you realise how guys talk about tindr chicks?? My friends see them as sport my best friends are german and aussie and they live up the road from me. Whenever german brings girls over he takes them to his rape dungeon down stairs and he sneaks them out the back door with a towel over their head while we are up stairs playing cards. If they are hot he will only introduce them to us. He also gets my aussie friend to write all his messages, so funny to watch.

hmm... my aqua knows i want and like him, but he also knows i have some commitment issues and the tendency to get overwhelmed and run away. sometimes he responds better when i ignore him or when im aloof, and others he seems really happy when i give him loads of attention. i guess aquarians like variety and unpredictable behaviour.

He is on Tinder. That might be why he suddenly became busy with his work.

Posted by Virgorean
@OP

To your post question, because it gives them a challenge. They feed off of brain stimulation. I would know I dated one for 5 years and it was sporadic and chaotic. Virgos and Aquas do not clash.

To your post: He viewed you as a conquest. You easily gave in. He conquered. You should not have rescheduled.

I didn't reschedule he asked me last minute and I'm not at the disposal of a man. After that he started contacting me all the time and has been txting me daily I actually went out last night and we met for the first time.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Ummm do you realise how guys talk about tindr chicks?? My friends see them as sport my best friends are german and aussie and they live up the road from me. Whenever german brings girls over he takes them to his rape dungeon down stairs and he sneaks them out the back door with a towel over their head while we are up stairs playing cards. If they are hot he will only introduce them to us. He also gets my aussie friend to write all his messages, so funny to watch.

Haha yeah I'm aware what tinder is. It's what you make it. You can pick up a one nighter if that's what your looking for but there are some normal ppl on there

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Ummm do you realise how guys talk about tindr chicks?? My friends see them as sport my best friends are german and aussie and they live up the road from me. Whenever german brings girls over he takes them to his rape dungeon down stairs and he sneaks them out the back door with a towel over their head while we are up stairs playing cards. If they are hot he will only introduce them to us. He also gets my aussie friend to write all his messages, so funny to watch.

What in the fucking hell is wrong with you?

You jokingly talk about how he takes her down to his "rape dungeon," conning and using these women, treating them like shit, and then you think it's so funny to watch, knowing they're being total skeezes?

You're just as a big piece of shit as your disgusting friends.

It's fucking amazing to see GAY DUDES just as guilty of male privilege as straight dudes. You think it's FUNNY to see men treating women like this? I don't care what the platform is, it's still a terrible thing to do.

Posted by dontwant2fitinn
He is on Tinder. That might be why he suddenly became busy with his work.

If he's on tinder maybe he swiped right on a hottie who wants a no strings attached hookup. He had to decide between taking you (op) to dinner or deep throat for his peen.

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Ummm do you realise how guys talk about tindr chicks?? My friends see them as sport my best friends are german and aussie and they live up the road from me. Whenever german brings girls over he takes them to his rape dungeon down stairs and he sneaks them out the back door with a towel over their head while we are up stairs playing cards. If they are hot he will only introduce them to us. He also gets my aussie friend to write all his messages, so funny to watch.

What in the fucking hell is wrong with you?

You jokingly talk about how he takes her down to his "rape dungeon," conning and using these women, treating them like shit, and then you think it's so funny to watch, knowing they're being total skeezes?

You're just as a big piece of shit as your disgusting friends.

It's fucking amazing to see GAY DUDES just as guilty of male privilege as straight dudes. You think it's FUNNY to see men treating women like this? I don't care what the platform is, it's still a terrible thing to do.

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it's bad, but there ARE women out there that look for a man to do things to her and she doesn't care.

I remember reading and posting about the "Secret life of a Call girl" real life person who actually admitted to posting on ads, or places where they are actually looking for "hook ups" where their services can be paid, exchanged for money.

I thought to myself, wow they have everything online. for everyone to have their needs met. she then later married that man who was looking for prostitution/ call girl action.

the site got shut down by the way. it was illegal so the site owners realized this later I guess and the people were complaining to the site owners.