So he says..

you know i?m not ready for us to live together. Wow dude, slow down considering it?s never been mentioned, and you?ve been in my pocket since we met. Anyways, were off to Argentina Monday at midight and last night he asks me if i would look for a job while i?m there..a 12 hour flight from my country!! WTF, what a contradiction!! Clearly he saw the fear on my face, and said "you dont have to decide today", hahaah!!! You?re scared and so am I.

What to do, its a HUGE decision, but maybe worth a try?? It wont be until next year anyway, but its still making me feel the fear. Would you do it?

Not exactly the type of question we can answer for you...don't you think?

Didnt ask you to answer on my behalf.

Ummm, "Would you do it?". Ok.

No, my bf is Argentinian and i?m Scottish but we both met and live in Spain!! Anyways, he?s been here 7 years, this is only my 3rd but he?s been saying that he?s been seriously thinking about going back there to live permanently. So we?re going, mainly to see what i think of the place but also to meet his family etc and his his sister?s new baby. I dont know, its just so far away it makes me feel nauseaus, so i have hinted that he?ll have to marry me before a make definite decision..i need all the protection of the law if i go!!

So, i just said dont pressure me..i?ll think about it once ive seen the place.

I thought he cheated on you awhile back...or something?

I don't know if I would...I would honestly have to be in that situation, with your experiences and personal feelings with this guy before I could say if I would or not, and that's impossible. So...can't really say whether I would or not, as it's really only a question you can answer, and it doesn't make much sense to ask anyone else what they would do...