So I asked

I asked the aquarius guy i like whether or not he liked me. in fact, i specifically said "do you like me more than a friend, or are we strictly just friends." i explained that i didn't want to read more into what we are. i told him that i do like him, and i didn't want to get ahead of myself. i also said that i had been curious for a while, and just needed to know. his response, "i can't answer that question." i don't know what that means (and he apologized for being vague). although i do think he likes me more than a friend, i'm assuming that it means he's not sure whether or not he wants to go any further w/ me than just friends. he said that he's got a lot going on right now (which he does), and that he hasn't even stopped to consider how he feels....which i don't know i necessarily believe. but my response was that I totally understood, and in order to avoid any hurt feelings or misunderstandings; i said that i would just view our relationship as a friendship. when i said that, he changed his tune a little...but still cudn't answer my question.

i'm just looking for some feedback. the truth of the matter is that there's nothing i can do if he's unsure of how he feels about me. i'm certainly not going to push the issue...but at the same time, i'm not going to hold my breath either.

This scenario plays over and over again with Aqua's it seems...they never want to give you a concrete answer in regards to their feelings about relationships. Mine was the same way, I asked him straight up and he couldn't give me an answer because of "too many things" happening in his life right now. Do Aqua's ever reach a point where they are at peace with life and themselves or do they always live their lives in emotional turmoil— ARGH!!! It's sooooo frustrating because I am very drawn to the Aqua man...I just wish you boys would get your head out of your !@# $ 's ....no offense 😉