So this Aquarius guy..

Same Aqua guy I'm refering to lol the one and only lol..

(some of you know the story and who I'm referring too) lol anyways. My Aqua friend who I??ve been really into and known for 2 years added my sister on fb and Instagram randomly. I met him just few days ago and it was soo much fun spending time with him. Talked a lot etc.. I may be thinking too much in to this but is this normal Aqua behaviour? I know this is really minor but it comes across like he's trying to make something happen with my sister.. Prob nothing its just I don't know who to talk to about this.

TasteOfChaoss,
I agree its minor. But he doesnt know my sisters. I do talk about them here and there or talk about my fam. Same as his, he opens up about his family and whats happening with them. But that doesnt mean I'm going to add them on Fb and Instagram right? I dont know them, they dont know me. 😐

Okay first off... who posed the friend request on FB him or her?

thats weird, or i dont know maybe gender difference matters. my aqua girl barely checks my fb account. even if i post something interesting she wouldnt mention it to me nor ask me about it. well, this aqua girl is not really MY GIRL, weve been dating for almost 2 months now but suddenly she became so detached when i started telling her my affection. we both confessed that we love each other so i thought we were good but then she just started to become cold and telling me shes not ready for a relationship and that she hates it when i become to controlling. i just dont wanna lose her, i was kinda paranoid that she might be talking with others so i tend to check out on her every now and then..oh well, i stopped already. her being so cold is making me crazy,she told me shes not bailing on me but damn, i dont feel she still exist. not a text, no reply, no calls... i dont know..

why are aquas like that? i dont know if she still likes me..does she need time or is this way of telling me to back off?

NotYourAverageAquarius, sagi2013, TasteOfChaoss

A while ago (over a yr ago) it was him who made the friends request first. My sister did ask me who he is and she knows that I really like this guy. He's tried chatting to her asking how she is etc.. being polite i guess. After a while my sister removed a lot of people off her friends list including him. And now that my sister has newly joined Instagram (roughly 1 month now) and he's following her. I know of his family on his list but i wouldn't follow them.. so i don't get why he's doing it.

And being very honest, if he did make a move on my sister i would be very hurt! But i know she wouldn't act on it coz me and my sister are close and he's not even her type personality wise. Plus I??ve noticed he does follow a lot of girls and vice visa. I already know Aquas are friendly and social so I'm ok with that. Its this little situation that's puzzling me. Should i be worried??

sagi2013,

Ahh yes thats a standard Aqua Trait. Dont worry too much about it. They do get detached for a little while only just because they need place space etc. I had a very hard to time figure this out. Its very frustrating but when they come back to you, you forget everything.. they have that effct on you..its odd..

Just give her that space.. let her come to you. x

angeleyes17,

thanks for your advice.really relieved my weary heart.

as for you, does this guy also follow you on your online accounts?is there a big difference between how he follows you and your sister? because if there is a significant difference like it seems as if he's really into your sister, then i might as well ask either your sister or him. hes an aqua guy, sometimes they do clever stuff to get what they want. the way i see it, theres just two possible reason about the "following" thing... either HE WANTS YOU and hopes to get closer to you through your sister or HE WANTS your sister and made you sort of a medium/bridge. im not really sure.. just go ask but make it a very light conversation. they dont want emotional talks.

And oh, i do have a question. sorry for being so inquisitive. this aqua girl just makes me go insane.haha

aqua girls, how much time and space do they really need/spend to have the "alone time?" does it really take days/weeks/months?

i made her a promise that i will take things slowly this time. it was my fault why she ran away from me few weeks ago after i became so controlling, dramatic and demanding. i asked for another chance and all she said is that shes not bailing on me.. but its just so confusing, i thought after our talk we were back to normal, that were ok..yet here she is, so cold and detached. she ignores me, wont reply my messages. im trying to play it cool now, i dont expect her to reply, its just my way of telling her that im still here despite giving me the cold shoulder. im just really botheres, does she really needs space or is she just being too kind not to tell me directly to stay away from her.

after that so called "space" do they really come back? some friends told me that if takes days and a girl still ignores you, i better let her go. but i wasnt convince, thats why im asking advice from people who have had experience same with mine, or people who are aquarians themselves. you guys should know better, right? x thanks thanks!

my apology, i did replied back and gave advice to the owner of this thread. she did sent me a message as a separate response. thread is all about sharing thoughts right? not necessarily just answering to the owner's question.

thank you.

Posted by sagi2013
angeleyes17,

thanks for your advice.really relieved my weary heart.

as for you, does this guy also follow you on your online accounts?is there a big difference between how he follows you and your sister? because if there is a significant difference like it seems as if he's really into your sister, then i might as well ask either your sister or him. hes an aqua guy, sometimes they do clever stuff to get what they want. the way i see it, theres just two possible reason about the "following" thing... either HE WANTS YOU and hopes to get closer to you through your sister or HE WANTS your sister and made you sort of a medium/bridge. im not really sure.. just go ask but make it a very light conversation. they dont want emotional talks.

Yeh he does.. but not on FB anymore. Last year he did that distance thing with me and I got really worked up over it and thought he didn't want anything to do with me anymore so I removed him off my friends list. After that he did eventually started talking to me and things were back to normal. I agree he is that kind of guy who has a thrill of getting what he wants. Its like his way only. Exactly i try to avoid that emotional talk coz i know how he's gets. Grr this is really annoying again.. Il get over it in a few hrs lol..

Posted by sagi2013
And oh, i do have a question. sorry for being so inquisitive. this aqua girl just makes me go insane.haha

aqua girls, how much time and space do they really need/spend to have the "alone time?" does it really take days/weeks/months?

i made her a promise that i will take things slowly this time. it was my fault why she ran away from me few weeks ago after i became so controlling, dramatic and demanding. i asked for another chance and all she said is that shes not bailing on me.. but its just so confusing, i thought after our talk we were back to normal, that were ok..yet here she is, so cold and detached. she ignores me, wont reply my messages. im trying to play it cool now, i dont expect her to reply, its just my way of telling her that im still here despite giving me the cold shoulder. im just really botheres, does she really needs space or is she just being too kind not to tell me directly to stay away from her.

after that so called "space" do they really come back? some friends told me that if takes days and a girl still ignores you, i better let her go. but i wasnt convince, thats why im asking advice from people who have had experience same with mine, or people who are aquarians themselves. you guys should know better, right? x thanks thanks!

Errmm from my experience with my Aqua man, its weeks/1month max. It could be that she really got attached to you quick and now she's realising it? She's got that distance vibe now and its got her thinking. oh yeah the ignoring this is really frustrating but trust me, she's reading those messages and must thinking about u.. give her that space and she will come back to you like nothings happened. I don't think you should give up.. if everyone thought that was the solution, no relationship would work. Everyone want to be felt like they are worth it. To keep your mind off things, keep yourself busy. carry on with your usual life style . Just don't make her feel harassed or feel suffocated. x

Another thing that got my attention is that he rarely likes or comments on my ig pics or fb stuff.. very randomly he will like 1 pic of mine on ig.. but when i see the news feed stuff hes like soo many other random pics of other stuff including pics of other girls. Sad i know, as im typing this im thinking what the hell im I doing..

think i'm gna blame PMS on this one lol..

is this typical Aqua behaviour? or am i thinking too deep into this? Is this part of the whole being distant with me thing?

Chill out! It's ONLY facebook! I don't get what the whole hoopla is about facebook and "he likes my stuff" or "he likes other people's stuff". Geesh!!

My aqua boyfriend and I very rarely comment on each other's facebook, but we comment on friends stuff all the time. If he post a pic, I might "like" it or I might just text him and tell him how sexy that pic was he posted. Much better to do it in person than on a public forum.

And the fact he likes other people's stuff, no big deal. Some of them are family, old friends, high school buddies, college buddies, army buddies - people you only ever have contact with and mostly only through facebook. So what if he "likes" other people's stuff. I "like" other people's stuff. Doesn't mean I want to date them!!!!

It doesn't sound like he's leaving flirtatious comments on their pics, he's just clicking a "like" button.

Gosh!!! What are you doing? Stalking his page? Your scorpio placements are taking over your logic!

Not trying to be mean here.

truecap,

I know your not. Harsh words can be for the best.

I'm not making a big deal or stalking him. Its just something that got me thinking for a moment. Otherwise I'm hardly on FB either. Its stuff that gets flagged up that you see it. Or its prob coz I miss him.. point of weakness...I'm ok now! thanks x

Posted by Angeleyes17
truecap,

I know your not. Harsh words can be for the best.

I'm not making a big deal or stalking him. Its just something that got me thinking for a moment. Otherwise I'm hardly on FB either. Its stuff that gets flagged up that you see it. Or its prob coz I miss him.. point of weakness...I'm ok now! thanks x

You know I like you and I understand your fustrations. I just wanted to throw that perspective out there.

*hugs*

hmm just got done reading. Hmm that is weird that he adds your sister and doesn't know her. Too freaking weird. Why'd the hell he do that? You must not be that close if you don't outright ask him, "why did you add my sister and you don't even know her? Don't you think that's really inappropriate and quite socially inept?"
Sorry, it's just that wow, thats weird.

On 2nd thought, there's alot of people out on FB land who do add people and they don't even know them and they're not aquas.
When i used to have fb people would add me and I dont know who the hell they are.

Anyway, i'm getting frustrated just reading this. I feel your pain.