Spill the beans!

When it comes to Aquas & Scorpios, spill the beans!!!!

..What are your experiences with Scorpios in terms of relationships? Good? Bad? Turbulent? Down right ugly? Impossible? Awesome?! Tell me something!

I've read that Aqua & Scorpio relationships can be pretty turbulent. Well, great in the beginning BUT extreme clashing eventually. Just wondering if this is true. We can all read astrology books & websites, but nothing is more legit than real life experiences. So spill the beans!

I think it takes adjusting and understanding on both sides. I'm a scorp dating an aqua male. It's said that we are somewhat complete opposites and I do find that to be true sometimes...or more so we go about things differently. I think we're both guarded people, but it's just expressed differently. Scorps emotional guard is thru their secretiveness, while aquas emotional guard is expressed thru their need for freedom. Being a scorp, I do notice the whole aqua distance/freedom loving thing, but it's not something that has become a huge problem for me. I love my freedom as well, and I fiercely protect my independence and individuality. I definitely try to avoid being in a co-dependent relationship, and have no problem passing on plans with my aqua to go do my own thing (even though I have butterflies in my stomach from wanting to see him so bad!) I also think sometimes aquas and scorps can confuse each other because we can both play the same game very well. Sometimes I'll be waiting for my aqua to reach out to me, all the while he's waiting for me to contact him. But I think this is just something done while getting to know each other and trying to feel one another out.

Overall, I think it's a great combo...but I can see why others would think it's not. I adore my aqua because he has his own life and allows me to have mine. He's very unpredictable, which keeps me on my toes, and makes things interesting. He's super sweet, and I feel very calm when I'm around him (I can be a little crazy at times)....he makes me feel like a little kid 🙂

I'm seeing a Scorp. It makes me want to blow my brains out.

Our personalities are very, very similar. We can get along great and laugh a lot. When the emotions come in...that when we get tangled. I'm the ridiculously emotional one, while his mouth and heart are tightly zipped up. I'm contstantly spilling my guts, he's constantly taking it and running. We just can't seem to get off the ground.

There was one time someone asked me why I loved him. I said because he was strong, confident and no one could push him around. My friend responded by saying, "Oh, so hes like the male version of you?" I found that very interesting.

We're both very stubborn and can equally stand our ground. We butt heads a lot and it often feels like a game of chicken.

@ScorpioDreamer: I've heard that too. When things are high, they are extremly HIGH! But when things are low, it's extremely low & miserable!

@Candy: The Scorp I'm with now seems to be exactly as you described. Only difference with me though is that when it comes to love/emotions, the OTHER placements in my chart come out. Aqua is my sun sign but I have alot of Cancer & Pisces in me & those are both 2 signs that are said to be very harmonious with Scorpio. Maybe that's why I don't run away or keep my feelings bottled in when it's time to express them like some Aquas do. Maybe it's just the natural comfort & connection but I don't feel that typical security wall that usually tells me to keep everything zipped up, with him. I always feel the need to speak my feelings w/o any pride or w/o any hesistation. Maybe it's the Cancer/Pisces in me OR maybe it's just the fact that our relationship has that great of communication. Idk.

@Shadows: Hmm. Interesting. I can relate to what you said. On 1 hand, while their stubborness might be something I hate even though I'm that way, my Scorp doesn't take it to the extreme. When it comes to the qualities/traits that we share (stubborness, doing everything with passion, emotional, etc.) I tend to respect that we're both the same in those areas vs. allowing our similarities to come b/w us. As long as 1 of us EVENTUALLY knows when to put our pride/guard down, things are perfect. I actually think it's kinda cute when he's stubborn or when he holds back. Reminds me so much of myself.

It's alot EASIER for me NOT to take those certain things personal with my Scorp b/c I remember my OWN reasoning when I'm being the same way. And since half of my reasons come from me just trying to protect myself, it's kind of hard for me to knock someone else who feels just as justified to be a certain way during certain times too. That is the PERK sometimes of 2 fixed signs being with eachother. In order to knock the other person for being a certain way, we'd have to knock OURSELVES too! And clearly, that is something we WON'T do. It forces us to understand them & to TRY not to take certain things personal the same way we'd hope they wouldn't take it personal if we were being pains in the azs

Well, from my experiences the few Scorpio friends I do have...the relationships have been turbulant. Most of them tend to make a mountain out of a molehill and GOD forbid if you tell them no.

I get along better with them when they are not around and when they don't speak 😛 I admire their intense passion, because it makes me want to continue being passioniate with all I do....just not with SO much intensity. THAT is when the turbulance starts. It's as if they don't understand how I can be so calm and "removed" all the time. To me, nothing is SO serious that warrants a "code blue" reaction. Another interesting factor I've learned is that when I open up and share a piece of "me" either verbally or emotionally, they seem to take that as an open invitation and automatically ASSUME that we "click" or are best friends. It also seems as if they need people to be a certain way ALL of the time and they have trouble letting things rest as they are.

As far as other traits in my chart, most of them are Air and Fire. I don't "fit" with water signs too well in the romantic department. I prefer a NATURAL connection intellectually and emotionally rather than it being forced/demanded upon/from me.

On the positive side, I like their loyalty, stubborness, and convictions. If there ever was anybody to have in your corner when you are down, is a Scorpio....they seem to love you no matter what...lol

@ K7 The thing about taking things personally with a Scorpio is that they seem to bring the "real deal" of reality and a person right to your doorstep. (even if that person is YOU) They seem to have they ability to look right through a person and size them up in a second flat!

In certain ways that can be seen as a good trait, they can offer insight. On the other hand, that same trait can be viewed as unhealthy because how can one sum up another person in seconds flat without getting to know them. Its almost like one has been judged, tried, and convicted. There is more to a book than just one page.

Posted by Archimedes
To me, nothing is SO serious that warrants a "code blue" reaction.

I died laughing when I read this because I can just hear the sarcasm! Too funny! It's also so true...