Strange behaviour....

Posted by JROI
Yeah, I don't see the problem in being curious now... it was strange behaviour and it popped in to my head, I was just wondering if it's normal behaviour for an Aqua to act like this.

As for FWB, maybe I explained that wrong... I never offered him anything, this is just what I had decided in my mind, that if it came down to it I wouldn't want to get involved completely.

Posted by AquaMermaid
OP,I'm just asking out of curiosity, are you a Cancer Moon?

Posted by JROI
Hahaha, no you're reading it all wrong and kind of jumping to conclusions a bit there. That wasn't the case at all... I never went near him while he was seeing the girl. He ended whatever he was doing with her and then started hanging out with me again.

I think maybe he was confused to whether he wanted to be my friend or he wanted something more... and I was pretty confused about that too. I mean, we didn't even kiss.

The thing that confused me the most though was that besides all that, we WERE good friends if nothing else, we still had a friendship and the fact he was so cold with me and barely even said a real goodbye when I was leaving. That's the part that I don't understand the most.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by JROI
Hahaha, no you're reading it all wrong and kind of jumping to conclusions a bit there. That wasn't the case at all... I never went near him while he was seeing the girl. He ended whatever he was doing with her and then started hanging out with me again.

I think maybe he was confused to whether he wanted to be my friend or he wanted something more... and I was pretty confused about that too. I mean, we didn't even kiss.

The thing that confused me the most though was that besides all that, we WERE good friends if nothing else, we still had a friendship and the fact he was so cold with me and barely even said a real goodbye when I was leaving. That's the part that I don't understand the most.

oh ok 😆

virgo mooners are quite shy. well, usually, not Always. lol

maybe he went cold on you cause he didnt want to pursue anything with you. He didnt see a future so he just left it at that.

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Posted by JROI

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by JROI
Hahaha, no you're reading it all wrong and kind of jumping to conclusions a bit there. That wasn't the case at all... I never went near him while he was seeing the girl. He ended whatever he was doing with her and then started hanging out with me again.

I think maybe he was confused to whether he wanted to be my friend or he wanted something more... and I was pretty confused about that too. I mean, we didn't even kiss.

The thing that confused me the most though was that besides all that, we WERE good friends if nothing else, we still had a friendship and the fact he was so cold with me and barely even said a real goodbye when I was leaving. That's the part that I don't understand the most.

oh ok 😆

virgo mooners are quite shy. well, usually, not Always. lol

maybe he went cold on you cause he didnt want to pursue anything with you. He didnt see a future so he just left it at that.

That's a possibility... part of me also thinks that maybe I was picking up the signals wrong, maybe he did just want to be friends but he was just really flirty or something :/ Still doesn't explain why he wouldn't say bye though. Confusing.

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Posted by AquaMermaid

I just asked because nobody is interested in going 2-5 years back just to figure out what happened during that incident except Cancer Moons. We kind of live in the past.It's a surprise she's a Virgo moon. I knew a Scorpio Sun/Virgo Moon guy who remembered every little detail about his past. It was mind-boggling and scary at the same time. I even asked him, " where do you store all that data?". He just had a smirk on his face.

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It's not like I am hung up on it, that would be a different story.... It's not bothering me, I was just curious and was trying to think of it astrologically.

Posted by AquaMermaid
That tendency to look back comes with Cancer placements and Gemini Mars make you seek adventure and thrill. You'll just stir things for fun. He pulled out and got all awkward because Aqua men need mental stimulation and connection first. You being so straightforward about it just threw him off balance. It wasn't appealing to him.

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Posted by AquaMermaid
That tendency to look back comes with Cancer placements and Gemini Mars make you seek adventure and thrill. You'll just stir things for fun. He pulled out and got all awkward because Aqua men need mental stimulation and connection first. You being so straightforward about it just threw him off balance. It wasn't appealing to him.

1. I wasn't stirring anything for fun.
2. What was I being straight forward about?

I'm starting to think you're not actually reading anything that I'm saying.

I'm all for astrology and everything but when somebody is right here, telling you what they mean and you're choosing to not even listen to them and instead make your own assumption based on signs, that's a bit ridiculous. You're not all knowing, you couldn't be more off the mark if you tried.

I and Lisa are the only ones who actually tried to read YOUR ridiculous story about something that happened like two years ago and you weren't even seriously dating this guy! He was only being nice to you that's all! If he wanted you he would have pursued you and let his intentions known clearly! YOU'RE reading too much into it when there is nothing more.

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