To Star

First of all, thank you!!!! I have been looking at some of my old posts and I've found out that YOU were actually the one there to keep from going off on the deep end!!!! I have taken a lot of rage out on the people of this site: Majority Speaker, Unknown, VOR, and MARS8!!!! It's been like a huge war to end all wars!!! If the fight between me and MARS8 (an Aries) had continued, that probably would've been the worst war on this site!!! I've seen Aries and Scorpios go at it with each other! It isn't a very pretty sight!!!!!!!! But you and Scorpio Babe were there to calm it down! That's what I like in you!!!! So...........Star, tell a little about you. I'll be waiting!!!!

Hi SKEE-LO!

What do you want to know?

You are an intense person!
And from what I got from your decanate...that is part of it! What a challenge that must be for you...

I have learned many lessons..but, my "thing" in this life has been to "learn"...

You, to me, are the epitomy of masculinity, (if you don't object to my saying so)...

So strong and protective and willing to fight...yet, the strong are also vulnerable....do you remember the backrub (of sorts) that I gave you on the Cancer site?

I am a strong woman...I am silly, crazy, and strive to have fun...but, I never let the others get the best of me!

I love to have fun! And, to laugh! Yet, there is an edge to our lives that must be taken seriously...I don't always "get it" and feel "blonde" sometimes...
As must everyone..

Just how close to the End of the World do you think we are?

I didn't intend on getting a serious tone to this...but, yet it is out there...

SKEE-LO, I felt that some judged you too harshly...

I consider you a friend,
Star

Hello Star,

I have learned many things in life also!!! I've always had a hard time of things!!! I felt that my life was a constant and long war! Somedays I am armed, others..........!!!! Like I told you, my wife died and left me with two daughters!!!!! The oldest is only 11 years old going on twelve! My youngest is 8 years old. It is hard on them to go through their life without a mother! That makes it harder on me. And just so you will know, my wife was a Libra (I know you were probably confused about that)!!! Well, now you might want to know why I fought the Libras!!!!! For reasons beyond the truth!!!! Anyway, Star, you seem to be a nice, friendly, and warm person!!! You must be if you know how to calm the beast (ME)! You are a strong woman!!! I have noticed that since I met you!!!!! You NEVER turned your back on me! Even with the War on Aquarius thing I started a while back! THANKS!!!! You know, I've been thinking about leaving Los Angeles and moving somewhere else! It just cost TOO MUCH to live out here with two kids and no wife (she didn't have ANY insurance)!!!! So, where do you think would be a nice place for me to move? I've been thinking about maybe Florida!!! Where do you live? I'll still be waiting!!!! Buy Star!

I am a Northern girl..cold here in winter...have often wondered why I live here...have lived in a few other states in my life...guess I came back because my family is here..and it turns out my role in my family is too important for me to walk away from...
I am the middle child and the two older ones hate my stepdad and the two younger ones are his biological children...so...naturally the two older ones think the two younger ones get special treatment, etc...

So...guess what my role is...
You got it! Peacemaker!

My (step)Dad can be an ornery shit! But, I love him. He taught me to be strong and unafraid...without really trying. I suppose with his example.

I am probably older than you are SKEE-LO...even though your children are close to my daughter's age...she is 13.

It is a challenge...being a single parent...
And your situation is harder yet, because of your wife's death...your children must have taken it really hard and that is just so very sad. Not that it isn't sad for you...but, there are some things that it just seems children should be protected from. Things like losing their Mother.

You will always find a friend here.

I don't know much about Florida...
My grandparents lived there for half of the year when they were alive...but, I was young then and in school during the months they were in Florida, so, I have never been there.

I can imagine a Scorpio with a Libra. My Scorpion sister and my Libran sister are actually quite similar in many ways...they used to hate each other (being on opposite sides), but now get along quite well. My other sister is Aquarius as am I...yet, we are different...and my brother is Sagittarius. My step-Dad is Pisces and my Mom is Libra.

Didn't mean to get so serious...but, you may e-mail me if you want...
I am not really thinking we should, like, you know...after all we are on a message board...

But, I do think we should definitely be friends!
Don't you?
Keep in touch!
I Wish You The Best!
Star

Yes Star, I think we should be friends! I'd love to here more about you! Me and you are alike and different in many ways. So you live up North, huh? Well, you have gotta come out here to the City of Angeles! But don't let the nickname fool you, this city is full of develish criminals! Anyway, it is a very beautiful place. It is the only place I know of that has perfect weather just about everyday! There are a lot of beaches, theme parks, palms, mansions, movie stars, mountains, and many more! It was my dreamland! When me and my wife got married, I moved her out here for her wedding gift! We grew up in Georgia, so we wanted to leave here a.s.a.p. We loved California! I still do, but it isn't as, well, great as it used to be! Not without her! I now fell like everyday I stay here, I am making myself more and more depressed! I have got to get out of here! I have a relative of mine that is trying to get me a job in Miami! If I get it, me and my kids will have to kiss LA LA LAND goodbye!!!!! Anyway, my oldest daughter is an Piscies/Aries and my youngest is a Gemini!!! We have a pretty good relationship here! My oldest daughter is able to hold the house down while I am gone! My Gemini daughter will just follow along! What about your daughter, what is she? I'll still be waiting! Holla!

Hi!
My daughter is Aquarius as I am, but with Gemini Rising...she was born on my birthday! (She thinks that is Way Cool!)
She is very fun...very emotional!...and somewhat in tune with psychic phenomena!

She is gorgeous and has been asked to model by agencies...but, she doesn't have the confidence...I want her to do what she thinks is best for her...I am somewhat leery of "glitter and glamour" anyway...
I am just too small-town, down-to-earth to believe their crap.

According to Eastern Astrology, she and I are opposites...but, I have a very tolerant nature, and even at this difficult age in life...she thinks I am the best Mom she could have...I do make her communicate with her Dad though....even when she doesn't want to...I believe it is important to work on relationships at her age. Otherwise she will pay for it later....as I did.

I am in Minnesota...but, I am one of the few without the famous silly accent!

I have been to Los Angeles once...on vacation...it is a beautiful climate there!
I am not one who could ever be star struck though...they are people, like everyone else...except that everything they do (and sometimes do not do) is news!

Thanks so much for writing...
Your Friend,
Star

MINNESOTA!?!?!?!?!?!?! Wow, I've never been there. Is it worth the trip? If you don't mind me asking, what exactly happened between you and your husband? If you don't want to tell me, I understand. Hey, do you remember RAYNOR 313? Do you know where he is? I need to talk to him. Oh, my daughters want to say hi to your daughter! You know, we just had a little earthquake out here last week!!! What kind of disasters do you all have up there? Hey, I've noticed you've had a birth chart done before! Do you have a lot of Venus in your charts? Anyway, I've gotta go! My daughters just said bye!!!!! I'll see you later.

Hi Skee-Lo!

I am certainly not an expert on astology...I have had my chart done...and I have done it myself...but, the one from the girl in Hawaii was different from the others...she said there are two different ways..I wasn't even Aquarius according to her! Weird, because I am not even on the cusp! According to my book my Venus is in Aquarius and according to her my Venus is in Capricorn! I don't know how to tell if there is a lot of Venus...I was looking for the report I got from her...not sure where I put it...

Anyway, my daughter says "Hi!" to your daughters!

Part of Minnesota is very pretty and part of it is very rural...farmland...nothing too exciting...
We get tornadoes in the spring and SNOW in the winter...this winter has been very mild though...
Sad, but true, I have seen snow in April here!

Yeah, I remember Raynor 313...I have no idea how to reach him...
Do you remember Mt_Moonshine? She and I are friends....she says to tell you "Hi!"

Let's see...where do I begin...
OK...I may as well just say it...I am a loser when it comes to love!! Oh, not the sex or being there for someone...but, the men I pick! So, I backed way off and developed an attitude...and then after I broke it off with the last guy, I decided I needed to work on my attitude...that is where I am at...
I know I didn't answer your question directly...
OK...I have been married twice. The first marriage we were both young and never should have gotten married...he was a Virgo...anyway, the relationship ended on a friendship note and we stayed in contact for quite some time until he remarried and informed me that his new wife was jealous of me...so, out of respect for her feelings, we no longer stayed in touch...
My second marriage was to a Sagittarius...we had great fun in the beginning...he was a partier...but, he never grew out of it and indulged too much...then he started hanging out with guys who made my skin crawl and taking drugs...anyway, I had my dog, Sapphire, who protected me...eventually, I got tired of me going to counseling...him NOT going and me being his caretaker...so, I filed for divorce...

He is not my daughters father though..that was a brief thing with a Cancer...

See, I told you I am a loser in this department!

My daughter's father and I are still friends...He just doesn't know how to be a father...no example when he was young...

I worry that my daughter will have trouble with relationships because of no father in the house all these years!

But, it seemed better than fighting all the time! I hate to fight!

Take Care, Skee-Lo! Good luck finding Raynor 313!
Star

FIRST OF ALL, YOU ARE NOT A LOSER!!!!!! Don't think of yourself as one either! I don't!!! Thanks for sharing your story with me! If you have any questions to ask me, please feel free to write me! See ya! I'll still be waiting!

Thanks for not thinking of me as a loser!

I am currently dating a guy who is Aquarius with Leo rising...we seem very compatible...but, after what I have been through...it will take me years to decide!

I dated a few Scorpios before I met him and don't take this wrong...but, they were just too pushy for me...thought we should kiss right away and just too feely...
I like to know the person first! Especially these days...and I do not care to be intimate with just everyone!!!

How does it look for the job prospect in Miami? What do you do?

I'm thinking you must be in your 30's, am I correct?

Later,
Star

Well, I've heard that Aquarians can be astrologers if they wanted to. Some even say you are physic!!! Well, YOU must be because I am in my 30's!!! As for my job, I'm an Financial Executive for a banking business out here! The pay is good, but the cost of living out here sucks all of that money right out of your wallet!!!!!!!! If you are wondering, Scorpios are always ready to jump into "intimate" relationships!!!! We are the sign of sex after all! Well, Aries and Scorpios have always been drawn to each other like a magnet! It is because of our Mars rulership! I've noticed that Capricorn and Aquarius both share the same planet too- Saturn! Do you feel yourself drawn to any Caps? If not do you know anybody who has? Well, it's 11:00 pm out here, so I guess I'll see you tomarrow!!!!!!I'll still be waiting! See ya!

P.S. Where is Mt. Moonshine? I thought she had a question to ask me!

Hi!
It is 5:11 AM here...my sleep habits get screwed up now that I work straight nights...

My daughter can see auras. She thought everyone could. So, I bought a book that teaches how to see them...I can see them now, but not readily...I have to work at it. But, it is cool. I can see gray around people who are depressed or ill...and blue, and yellow, and green, and violet when they are not...
I had my aura read once too! At a metaphysical expo in Minneapolis...they had special equipment and could actually photograph a person with their aura! At first, I thought it was a hoax..then I studied the photos displayed and decided to try it! My Aquarian sister was the one who took me to it...along with her Gemini friend...the three of us usually have great fun together! But, it is always "unusual"...too much Air, I suppose!

I like Cappy's...although they are somewhat droll at times...but, if I am in a serious frame of mind, we can have most interesting (though serious) conversations! My favorite astrologer (Linda Goodman) was Capricorn. But she is not longer alive...she was not the typical Cappy to me, though...her book "Star Signs" is really far-out-there and quite entertaining (to me)!
Us Aquarians joke about our other ruling planet (Uranus) and feel they should rename the planet or at least have other signs ruled by it too! It just doesn't seem fair!

See how weird I get on too little sleep!

I am a registered nurse...maybe you knew that? I was a Director of Nursing in long-term care and then decided to take a position at a hospital...so, it has been a transitional period for me these last 6 months...
One thing I am good at is calming and cheering up crabby male patients! I suppose I learned from my (step)Dad. If the other nurses are complaining that about the patient, that is when I say, "You might as well give him to me!" I guess I learned not to be timid and afraid of them. I listen to them, be honest with them, joke with them, and before I know it...they are human again...
But, when they are throwing things...I have gone in and said, "Hey, what the hell is going on here!" Although it sounds comical coming from me...I have this voice that men (and women) consider sexy sounding...but, it does get their attention and then I begin my magic!

I make more as a hospital nurse than I did when I was in management! But, of course I get paid overtime now if I work overtime...that in itself is a difference!
Oh yeah! When I had my aura read one of my hands had blue and one had violet extending...the reader told me that because of my intuition, I am an excellent healer! So, I guess I am in the right profession!

I am in my 40's! I just realized that I am like middle-aged!! Funny! Actually, I work with a lot of 22 year old nurses fresh out of college...and they, at first, thought I was close to their age! (Unless those little shits were lying!) But, seriously, many people misjudge my age and think I am younger, not like 20's...but 30's...I am capricorn rising and have read that is a trait associated with it...
I would be talking about movies or music...and these "young" nurses would finally say, "how old are you?!"

My second husband was younger than I was and then I had an Italian beau for a time, who was also younger...but, we were both Aq w/Cap rising! Didn't last!

I then decided I should not go younger...

I had this Hawaiian astrologer do my compatiblity chart with me and my Aquarian guy...I don't get it at times, it says we are polar opposites??

But, she used a method that she feels is more accurate (that is what she told me when I asked her)...and it is not the method I usually find...

She has a website...but, I must have lost that too!

So, Scorpios are always ready to be intimate? Thing is an Aquarian may be ready, but, they won't tell (easier for a woman!)...that is how I stayed a virgin in high school!

Hey, ANYTIME!!!!!!!!

See ya,
SKEE-LO

Thanks for the insight. I think you are a wonderful lady. Take care. Big amount's of love to come your way!

Oh...that is really sweet!
Thank you!
Star

No thanks required, you deserve it.