top three turn offs?

lately i have found that alot of men have been coming on to me. everyone of them i have been turned off by something they have said or done. my top three turnoffs and why are as follows:

1. men whose conversation has an abundance of sexual connotations- don't talk to me about sex especially if you don't know me.
2. men who are needy acting (ex. why didn't you call me, when am i gonna see you blah blah blah whine whine whine and we just met)- i don't need a crybaby i have a 2 year old
3. men who talk about their material/financial value- what you have does not impress me because at the end of the day it is still yours. i like a person for himself not for waht he owns.

well those were the last three men i met.i must have I LOVE LOSERS typed on my forehead geez. what are your top three turnoffs and why?

1. Men who try TOO hard to show their self esteem & confidence when none is really there. When I talk about my accomplishments & SHOW (not tell) my confidence, they always try to compete with me. They don't realize that self-esteem is something Aquas more likely to interpret when we SEE it versus just how someone tells us how high or low it is. I don't like it when a guy tries to get overly proud & prideful to the point that it's obvious, he's not & is possibly trying to suppress his low self-esteem.

2. Too touchy feely (especially when we just met). I'm only affectionate when I feel I have made a deep intellectual connection with them. Trying to hold my hand, always putting your arms around me (and oh God, please don't try to carress my body), trying to force the first kiss (rather it's on the lips or cheek) or just always feeling the need to touch me when talking is very annoying. When that happens there's always going to be a thought inside of me that provokes suspicion on the other person's behalf.

3. I hate it when men are quick to bash their ex girlfriends or those from their past. It's one thing to discuss it if asked, but I immediately get suspicious & distant when they VOLUNTEERILY volunteer information about someone when what we were talking about before has nothing to do with or in connection with an ex. When it's just me & him, I want the date to be about US getting to know eachother & US talking about where we're going. The only time I feel the need to talk about where we've BEEN is if I'm asked or if I ask...But if we're looking at our menus & after the waitress walks past, he immediately says "She reminds me of my ex...the one who broke my heart 2 years ago" I immediately get distant because it was unnecessary & uncalled for.

Virgo women
Cancer women
Cappy women.

Whatever they do turns me off.

Those listed were great ladies. I concur with them all.

"3. men who talk about their material/financial value- what you have does not impress me because at the end of the day it is still yours. i like a person for himself not for waht he owns."

this urks me to no end, but men do it ALL the Time...then wonder why they are gold-diggged.

((I don't agree with thelibran on being so judgmental, but lol, it's a fabulous punchline))

lol.. i was jus being funny. anyway i dont mind talking to them. but its just that they are gifted....





... to get on my nerves.

1.Arrogance/snotty
2.Being too serious
3.a follower

good responses everyone. i added a few to my list. lol! i agree thelibran is funny. Kris you don't have a list of at least 3 turn offs?

OH! And another thing I hate is:

4. When a guy text messages or answer too many calls during a date. It gets really annoying & suspicious when he spends alot of the date focusing his energy on his phone. I always put a guy to the test by asking him if I can see or use his phone...if he immediately get defensive & guarded about his phone, I'll think something's up (considering the average girl won't go through his phone WHILE he's sitting right across from her, yet these guys STILL get nervous).

5. And another thing! Geesh! I hate it when a man can't look me straight in the eye when we're having a deep conversation. I get kind of turned off when a man keeps looking at the ground or at everything BUT me when he's talking & expressing himself. I don't expect for a man to look me in the eyes the entire time, but looking someone in their eyes when talking assures the other person honesty & calamity & staring into space when talking or being to jittery signals to me that he's very insecure, is not being completely honest OR is hiding something

develops friendships with other women while in the ladies room....WTF @ the ability to become best friends while taking a whiz.....

Based on what I've read I'd turn most of you off immediately upon arrival.

Posted by krysrenee7
4. When a guy text messages or answer too many calls during a date. It gets really annoying & suspicious when he spends alot of the date focusing his energy on his phone. I always put a guy to the test by asking him if I can see or use his phone...if he immediately get defensive & guarded about his phone, I'll think something's up (considering the average girl won't go through his phone WHILE he's sitting right across from her, yet these guys STILL get nervous).

Very rude. 😢