Do aquas...

...get a kick out of sending spontaneous text messages in the middle of the night like:

"are you around town?"
"busy tomorow?"

and then...not replying?

um, what?

I do the random texting thing...but I reply. Maybe something happened.

well it was like...

Saturday 4am: "Busy on sunday, lets meet to catch up?" and then I reply and...no response

Yesterday 1am: "Just got off from work, are you in town?" and I reply and...no response

Theres more cases too, is it necessary to tell him that it thwarts my plans and that he should actually reply so I don't have to wait for him?

Yes, tell him.

in what way shall i express it? I don't want to sound too aggressive (and I often do), nor do I want to sound too pushover..

how old are you?

tell him you left the games to the children, cuz you're a grown ass woman, doing grown woman things. if he can't get with it, then he should get lost.

*Grown Women by Mary J. plays in background*

Tell him: "I would appreciate a response to my courteous reply to a 4 am text, which I graciously sent after arising out a most peaceful sleeping beauty slumber."

lol

I've never heard that song.

*runs to imeem.com*

Its on the new album.

*Its Grown Woman

Lady_M: what will my aqua think when he recieves that beautiful prose? =p

I know we're good for not responding to messages others have sent us just because we simply don't want to, but I'm not sure it's an "Aqua thing" when we send you a message, hoping for your reply & knowing good & dam well we're not going to respond back...I think what's going on here is just a simple matter of maturity & mind games----games I HOPE you don't have time for. There's always a deeper reasoning behind games like this. Forget telling him that you don't appreciate what he's done, just leave this guy alone. And if you chose to confront him about it, make sure he has a pretty good dam reason for why this has happend on MULTIPLE occasions.

Lady_M: what will my aqua think when he recieves that beautiful prose? =p

If he knows whats best for him he will reply.

I think he's testing you to see if you have a life. A 4am or 1 am text should only be answered with a text in a respectable time saying, "Stop drunk texting me!".