trying to make friends with aqua girl??...but

So im in High School and I've been trying to make friends with this aqua girl because im friends with her best friend, so it would all make sense if we were all friends. But I don't think she likes me? Well at first I did because when she added me on FB she would like all my status' and comment or like my pics. I thought it was kind of weird at first, but i didn;t think to much if it, i mean i felt flattered but...yeah

Anyhow, when I would see her with her friend at school she would not say to hi to me unless i said hi to her unlike her friend who would be hey "insert my name" so happily. Her Bff is a scorpio by the way.

One night we were all at the same party and after the party we kind of wandered around downtown a little bit. I was so drunk and didn't have a place to stay that night, (i wasn't going to take public transit home drunk) so she let me sleepover her house for the night.

When i came to her house she showed great hospitality got me some clean clothes, let me sleep on her bed, while she and her our friend slept on the ground on a matress. We shared chips and then a watched a movie before falling asleep.

But then when I see her at school she still acts the same doesn't talk to me if i don't talk to her, she sometimes even ignores me— Like i don't understand, Sometimes I think she thinks im trying to steal her friend, but Im not, Im trying to become both of there friends but she is making it hard.

She acts sort of snobby btw I mean she is always nice, except for the ignoring , and sometimes weird stareing either than that she is nice, but i don't know i don't think she trusts me.

Im an aries, i have good intentions, but she is sometimes wishy washy. I never know what Im going to get.

Thanks for reading

sorry for the bad spelling.

Could it possibly be that she is more shy in public? It seems that in private she is more open and friendly, a totally different person. Maybe she just feels more comfortable. Or perhaps it might be because of the drink - it maybe relaxed here somewhat. But anyway in public it appears that she is more reserved/standoffish?

I'm not sure about the whole threat thing - I mean maybe it is that but I wouldn't worry. She's given you some signals that she does like you - other times it could just be misunderstandings. She might be off in her own little world and possibly just doesn't notice certain things that are going on around her. Don't take it too personally. I doubt she would've let you sleep over that night if she didn't like you.

Wishy washy might just be the right word. 🙂

She just seems very shy in person or in certain places, she is probably thinking about how to approach you but doesn't really know. Aries and Aquarius go together magnificent in my opinion 🙂 most of my friends are aquas and scorps. I would say to break the ice be very bold to her and just go up and start talking. that should thaw the ice. I love aquarius, they have the greatest ideas and are the most funniest people to be around with. if you bring up something funny just start laughing, that should make things work, im sure she will understand the same sense of humor.

talk about astrology to her.....but dont let on that u know too much just enough to entertain her aquarian mind....ask her whats it like to be aquarian or something....what im getting at is u need to give her a big head.......fire moves air when its heated....and air fuels fire hence why she was so hostpitable to you......also include her on an adventure like a little mission and make sure u have lots of laughs along te way to fuse the bond....make memories

Well there could be a few things going on here.
1. This Aqua girl may not necessarily have a problem with you BUT she may not also see you as someone of her "type" either, thus that might explain why she suddenly keeps her "distance" from you when it really counts, like persay the times when you two are in person.

2. This Aqua girl might be "feeling you out." She might be observing you. There might even be a little bit of territorialness going on too. She might be testing or observing you to make sure you're a good fit for HER FRIEND moreso than she is for herself. Of course this could stem from insecurity & immaturity BUT hey it's possible.

3. Alot of people nowadays are more bold & social over the internet, & especially on social networking sites. All this "indirect" attention on fb might happen b/c of alot of people's ability to be more themselves through a computer screen moreso than in person. And that's a common complaint now about sites like fb. It's no different than bullying. Some people get more BOLD over the internet when they're bullying someone than they would face to face. Some people are more comfortable with this passive/aggressive approach through the internet b/c there's no strings attached or not real confirmation that the friendship is real/valid.

4. She comforted you in her home b/c I'm sure she's not a complete A hole. Her being courteous & reliable when you needed her was probably b/c that's the kind of person she is in general..who knows, she might even be indriect/passive-aggressive online with other associates or "friends" as well.

5. And then there's always the possibility that she's so inconsistent b/c she's fake/phony. It's very common for someone whose fake and/or who has the wrong intentions to act one way in your face & another behind your back. This girl might be being nice to you only to gain cool points from you, BUT her intentions might be rotten.

6. Aquas can be very cautious, skeptical & guarded. It's probably not even that this girl is a complete B, but moreso that alot of Aquas don't see the need in working to gain the approval or the attention of others. When they are just fine with the friends they already have, sometimes they can appear to be very standoffish. And in high school, all we're used to seeing is girls going out of their way to get into "cliques" & into the circles of those they admire. But with Aquas, they don't go out of their way to please others or to be overly nice to others if it's not necessary. If they like you, they'll slowly BUT surely open up to you. and if they don't like you & if they are mature, they'll just give you the "mimimum," meaning, they won't necessarily be rude BUT then again they'll purposely put some distance there so that the other person won't get it twisted in thinking the Aqua could give 2 flips about them.

Aries and Aquarius females seem to have awkward energy around one another..I used to hang with this Aries chick and honestly I didn't trust her, she was bossy and seemed a bit fake and controlling, I liked her though but more from a distance b/c I didn't really want to get burned by her Aries fire/temper but for the most part we got along but I was not the initiator either for some reason, I liked her but not enough to go the distance and initiate and speak first so the friendship died quickly...When I'm disinterested in a person I'm aloof, it's not that the person is boring or not good enough but if I don't get a connection quickly I assume it's not worth bothering with or trying for. Ironically we got along well but I dunno something about her was off.

I wouldn't try so hard with Aqua, take it easy with her, she's just as curious about you as you are about her, just let her pace herself and seem not bothered by her behavior, your stepping in on her territory and Aqua's really don't like to share their best friends with anyone, I know I can be a bit suspicious/guarded/territorial with people that I love and care about. I'm always looking for an angle, trying to figure out how you fit into the picture and if your intentions are genuine or fake about the people/person that's most important to me.

Yeah she likes you, Like the posters said she may be shy in public or when she feels comfortable she lets loose, Just be fine everything will work out.
lol When I reading your post I throught I reading about myself cause I do the same thing to my family and friends with the non gretting thing lol I don't I just get fuzzy inside or shy inside or I feel like whats the point you know me you see me lol.
I guess its just aqua thing lol.

oh yea i act this way and im an aqua... I usually act this way when i am shy or unsure of a person. instead how about you approach her and try to have a convo. She probably doesn't know how to approach you. Start a convo with her and everything should go on from there =]