Hi, I am an Aquarius female, going out with Aquarius male. The other day he asked me if I am interested in having children. I told him that I don't want to be a SAHM since I have a good career. Is this guy looking for a baby making machine or what? Why is he asking me this stuff?
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ok can I say,,RUNNNN run for your sanity..lol...not good to have 2 aquas.specially a male wanting a baby so soon, how long you been talking to or dating this aqua male?. this isnt what ur looking for,,dont let him manipulate you in to otherwise. Stay focused on your career if thats where you want to be in your life right now. Babies are precious and ntoto be taken for granted cus 1 person is wanting them, takes alot to commit too,,rearrange your life style ,,be the mommy,,and also,,there is many, many moms who work and able to keep the mother role.
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Well, I have been seeing him for six weeks. I really really really like him. He cooks for me, and he takes such nice care of me when we are together. He gives me space, if I say I am busy, he leaves me alone. I think he is quite possibly the sweetest person I have ever met. But he has asked me this question on two separate occasions, and has hinted a few more times. I think he really likes me too. But I am so confused
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WEll Aquariusannie, all I can say is best of luck 2 u and ur aqua male. If he is everything to you , dont let anyone get in the way, or what I said in the previous post. If he respects u and the fact u dont want a baby right now, he will drop it. if you 2 are ment to be together, nothing will matter. Maybe compromise, tell him if ur ment to have a child, it will happen but not right now, and dont rush a good thing, You too still need to get to know each other, spend that time with each other - it wont be there when theres a babie. Maybe after a longer time seeing each other, this topic may be something to talk about then. Again, best of luck.
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Be careful Aquariusannie!
Always be wary of any man who is offering/asking too much too soon. He could be a narcissist!
I have just come out of a relationship with an Aqua male who was pressuring me on the baby front after just 3 weeks (and promising marriage etc..) I'll just say I've had a lucky escape.
If you like him, set boundaries. Tell him that you would love kids - but that you would like to talk about it again in 6 months time. See how he responds.
Always be wary of any man who is offering/asking too much too soon. He could be a narcissist!
I have just come out of a relationship with an Aqua male who was pressuring me on the baby front after just 3 weeks (and promising marriage etc..) I'll just say I've had a lucky escape.
If you like him, set boundaries. Tell him that you would love kids - but that you would like to talk about it again in 6 months time. See how he responds.

I agree Alice- u said what I didnt-but ment,,lol
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