Why are Aquas scared of serious relationhips??

listen to the kitten - no joke 🙂

It is not sign related - it's the wrong time --- nothing can be made to make anyone feel any different for you. They do it willingly or not at all.

^ lol - joker kitten...

See that's what confuses a lot about non-fire signs - most of the other signs are really just subtle or civil or attempt to string intelligent sounding words, with deliverance so they leave a lot really confused

Actually, I think being in the relationship itself is not what we fear, b/c we feel that we are very good at the loyalty & longtivity thing once it's been established. BUT, we are more fearful of the people that we actually chose to commit to, versus the commitment itself. The distance, the aloofness, the coldness, & all of the things that we Aquas have the tendency to do all stem from the people we are dealing with & not necessarily the situation or commitment we are in.

Aquas love love just like everybody else. We love relationships, we love intimacy, & all that good stuff. But at the same time, we are natural born skeptics of everything that might seem TOO desperate or have too big of a craving to get next to us. We hate when things seem "too good to be true" b/c we're always & constantly trying not to be/appear naive, or the one that got "fooled" so naturally, we always try to stay 2 steps ahead of the game & back off the minute we think we might be giving in to our emotions in a way that love makes us blind. It's not your Aqua doesn't want commitment or that he is afraid of the commitment hiself. In fact, he already knows that when he's in, he's IN with no turning back. He's just afraid that if he slips up on the "reading others" scope, or if he gives into his emotions out of vulnerability instead of reality, that he might end up investing in the wrong person. And THAT is what we secretely fear.