Why aren't you scared yet, Aqua?

Sounds like u git urself a good one. Plus he might have his mmon in water or something. Either that or u just knew how to handle the situation very well. U prob didnt push him for commitment and let him progress in the relationship when he was ready for it. I on the other hand pushed my Aqua guy for about the first 6 months and that just drove him away. However once I stopped pushing he progressed the relationship at lightning speed. Ever since then (2 years in) he has been acting like ur guy. Keep up what ur doing and never start pushing for more. Have him lead the relationship cause if u start to ask for more when he isnt ready he might run. However if u guys r at the point of marriage and been dating for a while and he hasnt proposed then it might be ok to just mention it to him or drop hints that u want it. After that let it go and dont mention it cause he will remember what u said. Dont ever push. In dating now and in the future.

Well, you're right. We often do hear about how Aqua men can be so aloof & so distant once they feel their emotions taking over. BUT, the key word though was that you are his FIRST girlfriend. One, this isn't necessarily about him being an Aqua. We all remember how clingy & stuck we were on the 1st person that made us feel on top of the world. It's when an Aquarian man gets older & has had more experience in the field & in general gets to know himself & how he is in relationships that you'll start seeing him becoming more like the "Aqua man" that we all read about on websites & in books. I'm not saying that he's blinded by reality and/or that he's not being a true Aquarian or true to himself b/c you are his 1st girlfriend, BUT understand that anyone's 1st experience in love is usually going to be a very quick, passionate & compromising one. And hey, even if you were his 10th girlfriend, it's not to say that he STILL wouldn't be as stuck on you; after all, Aquarians are just plain dumb in love. Sure, like everyone else they can get a little scared when they sense that things are starting to move quickly & when things get really comfortable, BUT it's not like an Aquarian is going to just watch the best thing that ever happend to them (in their minds) just walk right out of their life b/c of fear. People need to give us more credit than that. If he really loves you & sees you as someone that is good for him long term, then all the loyalty, sacrificing & willingness to let things go as far as they can go will come out of him too. See that's the OTHER part about Aquarians that people forget about. Once they've actually made the decision that you are right for them, they'll give you their undivided attention. All the detaching, distance & aloofness is more common during the stages when he's not yet SURE if you're a potential long-term partner. But oh no doubt, once an Aquarian knows the answer to that question AND is content with that answer, they'll give you the world with no shame in their game. It's almost like they can turn into the complete opposite of what they're normally like or "supposed" to be like. And hey, that's how it should be. Aquarians in like are completely different than Aquarians in love. Don't sit & wonder..no just live & bathe in the moments of cloud 9 with him while the going is good..after all, there are plenty of people WISHING they could see THIS/THAT side of their Aquarian

Just continue to live in & appreciate the moment. The very minute you start even slightly raise your eyebrows at his constant attention towards you, he WILL pick up on this. And this is something that most Aquarians (1st love or not) are afraid of, especially since we all know that people tend to take advantage of the very partner that is giving them everything & that seems to NOT be going anywhere any time soon. Trust me, he's probably had moments where he feared his emotions taking over his logic. He's probably had moments when he doubted everything & when he really had to think to himself (by himself) if he was making all the right moves. I mean after all, I'm only assuming that someone would have to REALLY sit down & think things through before just aggreeing to up & move like that, regardless of who the person they're following or going for is. BUT, when he was having that sit down & talk with himself, he might've done it in the dark, & made it so that you never saw the side of him that probably/actually wanted to become distant or question himself. And that's a good thing, b/c when one person senses any hesitation, that hesitation alone can cast doubt, fear & bring the person back to reality. Now, it seems like you're seeing the side of him that already thought things through AND that decided that YES you were worth it. If you feel that this guy's intentions & heart are pure, then you've got nothing to worry about. Sometimes we can get so caught up in what some "book" says that we can miss out on the cloud 9 in a person. Just sit back, relax & enjoy the fact that you probably didn't even notice the Aqua in him that prob. freaked out the minute he started having even the slightest of feelings for you. As long as your intuition & spirit feels that he is geniune, then you've got nothing to worry about. IT's when we start doubting, questioning or assuming that things are too good to be true, that we are shortening our own cloud 9. I'm not saying keep your head in the clouds (oh no, always be realistic & make sure your logic has a say in things too), BUT don't let your logic & what some BOOK said be the reason for any hesistation or any pause in the relationship. You're lucky to get to see this side of an Aquarian. Most people NEVER get to see this side, b/c something always go wrong (on either's part) before that unconditional loyalty & devotion in them comes out

Oh yes, you are the first. If you ever break up, I feel sorry for the next lady.