Why would he lie?

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I've been talking to this Aquarius man for about 3 months. We met on a dating website and really hit it off. From what I can tell, he seems really into me and I'm really into him. We've talked almost every single day since we met on the dating website. Last month we planned on meeting in person. But things didn't work out because he had to stay late for work. The day before we were supposed to meet, I texted him asking if he found out about staying late that day. He never replied. Until the next day I texted him "hey" and he said he had to stay late but he felt bad. I'm not quite sure if he was lying then. The second (or first) time he lied to me was about his Halloween costume. He told me that he was going to be flounder from the little mermaid and his guy friend was going to be Ariel. But after Halloween I asked him to send me a picture of his Halloween costume, and he was with some girl dressed as Ariel. It looked like a friendly picture nothing more. But why did he say his guy friend was dressing up, when it was one of his girl friends? But I'm sure if it was something sneaky he wouldn't have sent me the picture of both of them in the first place. Maybe he would have cropped her out or something. But the third (or second) time he lied to me was yesterday when I asked if he had a Facebook. I knew he already had a Facebook, I just wanted to see what he'd say. And he told me he didn't have one. He told me this 30 minutes after he changed his profile picture. I asked him if he deactivated it, and he said yeah because he's trying to find a new job. Why would he lie about that? I really like him, but I don't know if I can really trust what he says? Why would he lie about those things? I know he likes me. Well at least it seems that way. Should I pursue with this and let these things slide but be cautious at the same time? Or should I just drop him?
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Posted by libraah92
I've been talking to this Aquarius man for about 3 months. We met on a dating website and really hit it off. From what I can tell, he seems really into me and I'm really into him. We've talked almost every single day since we met on the dating website. Last month we planned on meeting in person. But things didn't work out because he had to stay late for work. The day before we were supposed to meet, I texted him asking if he found out about staying late that day. He never replied. Until the next day I texted him "hey" and he said he had to stay late but he felt bad. I'm not quite sure if he was lying then. The second (or first) time he lied to me was about his Halloween costume. He told me that he was going to be flounder from the little mermaid and his guy friend was going to be Ariel. But after Halloween I asked him to send me a picture of his Halloween costume, and he was with some girl dressed as Ariel. It looked like a friendly picture nothing more. But why did he say his guy friend was dressing up, when it was one of his girl friends? But I'm sure if it was something sneaky he wouldn't have sent me the picture of both of them in the first place. Maybe he would have cropped her out or something. But the third (or second) time he lied to me was yesterday when I asked if he had a Facebook. I knew he already had a Facebook, I just wanted to see what he'd say. And he told me he didn't have one. He told me this 30 minutes after he changed his profile picture. I asked him if he deactivated it, and he said yeah because he's trying to find a new job. Why would he lie about that? I really like him, but I don't know if I can really trust what he says? Why would he lie about those things? I know he likes me. Well at least it seems that way. Should I pursue with this and let these things slide but be cautious at the same time? Or should I just drop him?
i dont think he cares about you enough to tell you DETAILS. it sounds like he's just lazy about how he talks to you.

sounds like a guy who just doesn't give two flying fucks what you think of him.

I'd drop him. Cause if you stick around, he's gonna keep playing these dumb games.
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Posted by lisabethur8
i mean come on you're smarter than that. you saw how he don't give a damn. And it's insulting to you.
You're right. I honestly felt like dropping him after that. But idk. Maybe he just didn't want me on his Facebook because he doesn't want me posting things on his profile or something. (Which I wouldn't anyway) I just wanted to Facebook stalk him. But who knows
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Posted by lisabethur8
i mean come on you're smarter than that. you saw how he don't give a damn. And it's insulting to you.
You're right. I honestly felt like dropping him after that. But idk. Maybe he just didn't want me on his Facebook because he doesn't want me posting things on his profile or something. (Which I wouldn't anyway) I just wanted to Facebook stalk him. But who knows
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