Does he have a romantic interest?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by camim20 on Monday, November 16, 2015 and has 10 replies.

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@camim20
12 YearsPisces

Hello, just 3 weeks ago I met an aquarius man at a Halloween party, he was there with his group of friends but one of my friends knew him. He seems to be very social so he approached me, introduced himself and we had conversations throughout the night. The next day he added me on Facebook, I accepted and we started talking. The next day he asked for my phone number and called me, we talked for almost an hour. He invited me to go out to dinner t so we went out with 2 friends of him who are a couple. The next week we went to the cinema. In those two "dates" he payed for EVERYTHING.
The thing is that even though he shows signs of interest, during this 2 dates he didn't even try to make any move, he didn't touch me, didn't held my hand and there was CERO physical contact... I know we just met, BUT maybe he is just interested in a friendly relationship?? Aquarius men I need your input ...
He is a pilot so he travels a lot but during his trips he constantly texts me and calls me, the last time we went out he parked the car at my house and we stayed there just talking for more than 2 hours, but again he didn't even touched me or try to kiss me or anything. Is he just trying to take things slow?

Another thing: my friend, showed me his ex-girlfriend on Instagram. She is gorgeous!!!! Model type, and very SEXY, you know fit body, big boobs and huge ass. I'm not ugly, I am pretty but not in the sexy kind of way, more in the cute way haha, so I'm not sure if I am his type.

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@Octoberbaby91
11 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

He enjoys your companies not all guys are in a rush to get in your panties he is just a gentlemen. You're younger so I sense a little insecurity when you mention his ex. For every beautiful woman there's a man that's tired of putting up with her so it's not all about beauty. Be confident don't downplay your looks.

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Sometimes water and air signs have trouble feeling each other out.

I remember my ex was a Pisces and we went on our first date and we talked for ages and we both knew we wanted to have sex but neither of us wanted to instigate so we went out and got pissed and next minute we were all over each other like a rash.

Aquarians are observant and like to live life through principles.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

He likes you. Just be willing to take it slow. I think it was the 4th date with my aqua before I ever got a kiss. I was starting to think he didn't like me, lol!

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by camim20
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Another thing: my friend, showed me his ex-girlfriend on Instagram. She is gorgeous!!!! Model type, and very SEXY, you know fit body, big boobs and huge ass. I'm not ugly, I am pretty but not in the sexy kind of way, more in the cute way haha, so I'm not sure if I am his type.

Don't worry about that. Aquas can see past the "physical". They're more into personality and finding a good fit.

*not an aqua, just my opinion.

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Ah the dreaded ex-girlfriend photos. I'm actually glad my ex finally got married because she did somehow create insecurities in people I was interested in :

Look not all aquas are the same but yeah most of us would like to start out as friends if we think that person is worth pursuing. At least for me anyway, if I know I'm only interested in the looks and physicalities sure I'd make a stronger push but if I really enjoy someone for just them, I'd actually just want to be friends with them and do fun things together and see where it all goes. Just take note of what you guys talk about, I generally like to talk about a wide range of things when I'm interested in someone.

On the other side of that coin, sure he might just actually think you'll make a good friend. When I enjoy someone's company I don't usually think about physical contact or any of that shit. I just think about having fun and connecting.

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@mirelska
10 Years

I fully agree with @aquasnoz.

If he wants to have smth with you (which I assume, actually) he wants first to get to know you better. That is for sure. We highly value intelligent people who can talk on different topics so that we will not get bored too soon & too easy.

On the other hand, yes, there is always a possibility the guy just to want your friendship but I doubt he was going to do all that stuff that fast.

Aqua people are looking for the inner beauty! Always. πŸ™‚ In case you have it, you are definitely his type πŸ˜‰

Good luck and always be yourself and be honest and straightforward. We hate when people lie or pretend to be someone else. πŸ™‚