Will she come back?

Im a taurus guy and ive been committed to an aquarius girl. We were together for nearly 3 years and i gave her everything she asked for. Everything seemed like it was going good until one day she just decided to say she doesnt love me and kicked me out of our apartment. She said she was unhappy and all i did was suck the happiness out of her. She never told me anything so this was a blindside to me.

Now its been a little over a month and i cant help but keep hope that she'll be back but when in reality, i dont see her. I decided to start a life changing career for me and i leave in a couple of months. I really love the girl and i would have married her if things didnt go south. Of course me being a taurus, i gave her my all so now i just want to understand i i should lose hope and hold on thinking she'll realize that i was good to her

Hey there. I know your pain. Im a Cancer, and Im dating an Aquarius Girl. Although we are both women. Aquarians are VERY COMPLEX.
I would say, @ least TRY. For an Aquarian that is intrested a month with NO commmunication may say she is done. But from what I understand Aquarians are never really done unless they have lost complete Interest. and when that is done, its done.

Me being me, I would at least send her a text, something that would normally get her laughing.
Bring up the career change. CAll her by her nick name and say hey I got a new position....Something positive.
IF no response....:/ give it time. IF she doesnt respond at all, this may suggest she is gone...:? and im soo sorry youre going through this.

Posted by Ninja5423
Im a taurus guy and ive been committed to an aquarius girl. We were together for nearly 3 years and i gave her everything she asked for. Everything seemed like it was going good until one day she just decided to say she doesnt love me and kicked me out of our apartment. She said she was unhappy and all i did was suck the happiness out of her. She never told me anything so this was a blindside to me.

Now its been a little over a month and i cant help but keep hope that she'll be back but when in reality, i dont see her. I decided to start a life changing career for me and i leave in a couple of months. I really love the girl and i would have married her if things didnt go south. Of course me being a taurus, i gave her my all so now i just want to understand i i should lose hope and hold on thinking she'll realize that i was good to her

Seeing that you were very vague in this explanation id like to know if she said anything to you that might have led up to this. Most of us air signs will tell you and you just might be too stubborn to notice. Females just don't kick someone out of their apartment for ZERO reason. All astrology aside there are always warnings. She had to. You had to have some type of communication otherwise you wouldnt have moved in with her. Have you done something? What did she "talk" to you about that concerned her. I think maybe you need to take a moment and comb through your conversations. Maybe she brought something up to you but in subtle way. So many times I hear this from my guy friends and I tell them each time that females we don't just wake up one day and are like "Yeah Im going to dump him and kick him out". Something led up to that decision.

As bad as it sounds, i left her alone yet i kinda put myself on the back burner. As hard as it is for me, its hard to not txt her but ive been pretty good about it. And i was going to give her 2 months before i go. She wont respond to anything. What makes me wonder is thay she still has some pictures and keepsakes i bought her but maybe its an excuse for hope. I did gentlemen like thing an went to her family and told them the situation. I honestly feel that its 70/30 over because it seems like shes moved on and im happy for her, yet i have that small hope because i gave her good memories. She held her feelings and blew up so idk. I know time heals all wounds.

This happened before and she came back when right when i decided to cut ties.

Posted by Ninja5423
As bad as it sounds, i left her alone yet i kinda put myself on the back burner. As hard as it is for me, its hard to not txt her but ive been pretty good about it. And i was going to give her 2 months before i go. She wont respond to anything. What makes me wonder is thay she still has some pictures and keepsakes i bought her but maybe its an excuse for hope. I did gentlemen like thing an went to her family and told them the situation. I honestly feel that its 70/30 over because it seems like shes moved on and im happy for her, yet i have that small hope because i gave her good memories. She held her feelings and blew up so idk. I know time heals all wounds.

This happened before and she came back when right when i decided to cut ties.

Mmm that's not what I asked though. I think you are avoiding the actual statement that I made.

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Posted by Ninja5423
Im a taurus guy and ive been committed to an aquarius girl. We were together for nearly 3 years and i gave her everything she asked for. Everything seemed like it was going good until one day she just decided to say she doesnt love me and kicked me out of our apartment. She said she was unhappy and all i did was suck the happiness out of her. She never told me anything so this was a blindside to me.

Now its been a little over a month and i cant help but keep hope that she'll be back but when in reality, i dont see her. I decided to start a life changing career for me and i leave in a couple of months. I really love the girl and i would have married her if things didnt go south. Of course me being a taurus, i gave her my all so now i just want to understand i i should lose hope and hold on thinking she'll realize that i was good to her

Seeing that you were very vague in this explanation id like to know if she said anything to you that might have led up to this. Most of us air signs will tell you and you just might be too stubborn to notice. Females just don't kick someone out of their apartment for ZERO reason. All astrology aside there are always warnings. She had to. You had to have some type of communication otherwise you wouldnt have moved in with her. Have you done something? What did she "talk" to you about that concerned her. I think maybe you need to take a moment and comb through your conversations. Maybe she brought something up to you but in subtle way. So many times I hear this from my guy friends and I tell them each time that females we don't just wake up one day and are like "Yeah Im going to dump him and kick him out". Something led up to that decision.

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Well i initially moved in with her for her personal security. I got job that gave me steadier hours. I will say that i did get too comfy and i felt i was doing a lot of the house work because "happy life, happy wife" but i just sucked it up. We got busy for a couple months and didnt spend much time because we had something happening every week. We got distant and i felt it, and i told myself that i need to take her out which i did but it seemed to be too far to save

All i recall her saying is that she felt i was sucking the happiness out of her, she putting everything good i ever did

y'know, to get the ball rolling so when she has her own activities and fun in her head,
even dancing to music cleaning around the house,
you can suggest something fun for you two to do. It DOES NOT have to be going out to dinner.
Even just watching a new tv series, or playing a board game, or something just so that you are TOGETHER, doing something. Even if it's as mundane as gardening together. Or even painting the empty room together. Togetherness is the key.

And you can do your own thing too, but do not, ever grow distant from eachother. Don't neglect eachother, it's as SIMPLE as that.

Itd be nice if we actually tries to fix the relationship, but she didnt want to

Posted by Ninja5423
Itd be nice if we actually tries to fix the relationship, but she didnt want to

I dont know what kind of chart you two have but it sounds like you need alot of intuition to understand this woman.
You are the earth, stable and fixed, you would give her immense security and stability.
Unless she is also dominant earth (which can get boring for the both of you but you both will stay grounded, because as ancient astrologers say...earth and earth is boring together but you'll be forever by eachother's side, no matter how boring)

On a general basis, if she's like other women, venus love style helps here, you need to romance her if that is how you got her in the first place. But then, you must consider the FUTURE. because what you have already discovered was that you both grew apart. And that is bad. You must understand eachother's workings as a couple and grow together, stick together even if it's just lazing around the couch. Some people dont like that I notice, they always want adventure and high sky diving somewhere in the Mayans or something. Which in my imagination would be okay but I'm scared of the travel and what if we get hijacked or worse, there's theives traveling and there's the question of all those scary happenings...
better to stay home and watch the Mayans on discovery channel. LOL

...eh Well, if my husband were to get tickets to go the Mayans, I dont care if I get seasick or travel sick, no one is going with him but ME! So illness or not, i'm popping several pills, even drinking if need to, throw up in the cabin and wait till we get there, with my bloody eyes and my stomach heaving...
saying "are we there yet!?"
Yeah i'm a terrible traveler. But once I'm there, grounded on the ground...it feels good, just direct me to the FOOD section. To put back all the food i emptied out.

Oh...you wanted to get her back right?

well don't stalk. that'll freak her out.

Nope she doesnt want work it out, believe me that in a fighter, the only way i would stop is if i believe its a lost cause or if she asked ne to stop period. She just asked me to leave her alone. Yeah i felt that i was doing so much to try and keep her happy yet she feels i wasnt doing enough. Communication wasnt great and i know it fixable, but she didnt want to

i am an aquarius and we get bored easy like the wind we move on , after we heal our heart aches but we always think why did it end , but we move on . and new move ex lovers into the friendship zone .

Sorry to say this but once an aquarius makes a decision, we dont change it. We are stubborns. I also had a relationship with a taurus guy for 6 years. Love was perfect when we were dating. It was when we decided to live together that things changed. I felt so drained with him. I had so many dreams before moving together with him, but he changed that. I started to see my future as grey. Probably one of the hardest decisions I have ever taken was to break up with this guy. It hurt me a lot but I dont regret my decision.