Will this Aquarian man hate me forever?

There is an Aquarian man that I started having relations with last year...started off as friends..great friends. Ended up a little more. No relationship. Something happened about a month ago that upset him and he hasn't told me what it is, nor will he talk to me the aame. About 2 weeks ago, he came out of the blue to apologize..give me a huge hug and tell me that were best friends...then blew off seeing me the same night like we had planned. He's been super distant..barely even acknowledges me (if a at all)..but I find him staring at me or stealing glances...sometimes mean stares. Anyways...I reached out to him today to tell him that I'm moving in 2 days and I really wanted him to know how much I valued his friendship and our mental connection...that he helped me through a lot and that if he ever wants to talk or changes his mind over the next couple of days..he knows where to find me. He seemed nervous, jittery...glad to have me walk out the door.

Does he hate me? All sex aside...the friendship means to much to me and I don't want to lose him from my life. I care a lot about him.

My dominant sign is Taurus...but I have more fixed fire win my chart than anything (Sagittarius).

Sun- Taurus/Gemini cusp
Moon- Pisces
Rising- Leo
Mercury- Gemini
Venus- Taurus
Mars- Gemini
Jupiter- Aries
Saturn- Sagittarius
Uranus- Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
Chrion-Gemini
N. Node- Aries
S. Node- Libra

His dominant sign is but he has more fixed water in his chart than anything (Scorpio).

Sun- Aquarius
Moon- Sagittarius
Rising- Virgo
ercury- Pisces
Venus- Aquarius
Mars- Aquarius
Jupiter- Scorpio
Saturn- Pisces
Uranus- Capricorn
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
Chiron- Virgo
N. Node- Capricorn
S. Node- Scorpio


If this helps at all.

I meant mutable. Sorry. And yes, the sex probably did change it but we've been doing this for about a year...whatever he's mad about is something just isn't willing to talk about and I have no idea what I did. At one point he said he wasn't talking to me because he heard that I had slept with someone else...but I didnt..and regardless, I thought he wanted to just be friends...so he has left me completely confused.

I know Aquarians can be unique in their approach to people...some say the more that they act like they don't like you..the more feelings they actually have for you. I don't know how much that is true.

Posted by brittagolds
I meant mutable. Sorry. And yes, the sex probably did change it but we've been doing this for about a year...whatever he's mad about is something just isn't willing to talk about and I have no idea what I did. At one point he said he wasn't talking to me because he heard that I had slept with someone else...but I didnt..and regardless, I thought he wanted to just be friends...so he has left me completely confused.

I know Aquarians can be unique in their approach to people...some say the more that they act like they don't like you..the more feelings they actually have for you. I don't know how much that is true.

uh not really.

you shouldn't rely on what those sites say, but your instinct and intuition. i mean if a guy likes you, you would know....even if he is the SHY type, you'll still know.

My gut tells me that he liked me more than he let on..and I hurt him somehow and he's distancing himself. He's definitely pissed. I guess all I can do is just move on from here. If he contacts me then great and if not, oh well. I reached out, I did my part.

Posted by brittagolds
My gut tells me that he liked me more than he let on..and I hurt him somehow and he's distancing himself. He's definitely pissed. I guess all I can do is just move on from here. If he contacts me then great and if not, oh well. I reached out, I did my part.

sorry to hear about that. 😢

Guy's feelings get hurt so much especially if they like the girl ALOT. Let him blow off his steam and he'll come back when he's feeling better and cooled down.

Thanks lisabethur8. And busyeyes- I wanted more...he has that aqua/sag/Virgo detachment and freedom need. I didn't want to push it..I wanted to stay his best friend and let it flow..and not run him off..but I guess the inevitable is just that.

Posted by brittagolds
My dominant sign is Taurus...but I have more fixed fire win my chart than anything (Sagittarius).

Sun- Taurus/Gemini cusp
Moon- Pisces
Rising- Leo
Mercury- Gemini
Venus- Taurus
Mars- Gemini
Jupiter- Aries
Saturn- Sagittarius
Uranus- Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
Chrion-Gemini
N. Node- Aries
S. Node- Libra

His dominant sign is but he has more fixed water in his chart than anything (Scorpio).

Sun- Aquarius
Moon- Sagittarius
Rising- Virgo
ercury- Pisces
Venus- Aquarius
Mars- Aquarius
Jupiter- Scorpio
Saturn- Pisces
Uranus- Capricorn
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
Chiron- Virgo
N. Node- Capricorn
S. Node- Scorpio


If this helps at all.

ok, from what i see, you have gemini mars to his sag moon (that's oppoiste attracts) but his venus is in aquarius, and while venus to moon is nice, his aqua venus to your pisces moon doesn't sound good, UNLESS he is a 12th house aqua venus OR 8th house or one of the water houses. it'd help alot.

you said his dominant sign is Scorpio? does he have a prominent 8th house? that'd help alot. that's just what i see anyway.

Posted by brittagolds
Thanks lisabethur8. And busyeyes- I wanted more...he has that aqua/sag/Virgo detachment and freedom need. I didn't want to push it..I wanted to stay his best friend and let it flow..and not run him off..but I guess the inevitable is just that.

you've got some Sagittarius and your personal planets which is mars gemini can get on well with him.

and his virgo to your taurus.

well, PATIENCE. 🙂

He's an aqua in the 6th house ...Idk how to tell what house his Venus is in..I'm using astrod.com

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Yes, we have a lot of crosswires that match up pretty well. Intelectually, we are awesome with holding conversations with depth...sexually..it's magnetic....and emotionally...that's where we have issues. I have a vedic aqua moon and he has a vedic scorpio moon and I swear that we act more that way than anything. I can be detached as well...I will act like I don't care because I know it's what he wants me to do. Anyways...he's worth it..I'm just hoping it works out. Thank you for helping. 🙂

Don't you already have a thread about this?

If he is behaving in and out of your life, then it shows he is in a state where he doesn't know what to do.

The question is what do you want out of him really? A boyfriend or just a very good friend?

I have noticed in my Aquarian friends, we really would like to settle for one person. I can't speak for all Aquas, but from what I have seen, we make stable partners for life with a person whom we confide with and TRUST.

We may act weird, may distance ourselves from our loved ones, but then eventually settle for a person whom we truly love. If he feels you cheated him, I can understand him giving horrible stares. I know its not your fault that he got it all wrong.

Posted by brittagolds
Yes, we have a lot of crosswires that match up pretty well. Intelectually, we are awesome with holding conversations with depth...sexually..it's magnetic....and emotionally...that's where we have issues. I have a vedic aqua moon and he has a vedic scorpio moon and I swear that we act more that way than anything. I can be detached as well...I will act like I don't care because I know it's what he wants me to do. Anyways...he's worth it..I'm just hoping it works out. Thank you for helping. 🙂

you're welcome. but just because you read it somewhere, it doesn't Always work like that.

i mean it should be NATURAL. you know?

if you have aquarius in your chart, or 11th house you'd understand. good luck!!

If I had to settle for a friendship alone..then I would..but I'm not sure how that would work out. I have deep feelings for him. I want him to be my partner. He's just young and I'm not sure if that's even a possibility. Especially with what's happening with the distance and me moving 45 minutes away.

Anyways..I have Aquarius as my vedic moon and aqua in the 7th house..