Winning back an Aqua Woman

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Thaicat
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12 Years

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Hi people, I am new and looking for some help concerning an Aqua Female.Im a libran.

Well 3 months or so ago I started dating a flippant Aqua..wonderful, charming and a good listener at the start She quickly began to run from me any time she felt hurt or that something that happened.no matter how small..was reason enough to walk.
Inevitably She'd return after a number of days. Though when it came to me being offended or hurt I just had to well..get on with it. I travel hundreds of miles to see her and we have had pressure as she lives with her mum and has a child. She was dragged up and we have no space, in fact we've had 1 day in 3 months to ourselves.

If i try to take her out she complains she has tried to make time but that I don't compromise. Well, this time she says she has had enough. I feel i travel far weekly only to have her dissapear out with her friends. I take time to deal with her anger and rejection of me since I know she is not only an aqua but an aqua with a horrible past. I speak to her calmly and hear her out at all times while trying to respect who she is. After new year she flipped again and this time she has said there is too much water under the bridge. Weve both made mistakes but weve not cheated or lied as far as I know. I was in a hotel near her a week ago and she messaged me asking if I was there, I replied yes but why ? She said she was just asking. I popped to hers to collect my bits and rather than saying cheers good luck, she asked where the hotel was but made out she didnt care that it was just to make convo. She explained that working it out is too hard and she prefers to be alone..she hugged me goodbye. I offered her to the hotel after I left and she said she couldnt because her mum wont babysit.
She didnt say she didnt want to..all she did say is that she can push her feelings aside and get on with life. The next day I turned up to her work with flowers, she looked pleased...I did the same the next day but just to say bye before leaving the city and she explained I smother her and its too much. She said it doesnt matter how she feels when she sees me because its not enough ans she cant go back through it. I know she cares and that she is still attracted to me...so for the first time ever...Ive not contacted her, no calls or texts..but has not blocked me on whatsapp. I know she used to check it to see when I was online..I dont know if shes gone for good ? Any help Aquas? Thank you 🙂
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Thaicat
@Thaicat
12 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 24 · Topics: 4
Hi people, I am new and looking for some help concerning an Aqua Female.Im a libran.

Well 3 months or so ago I started dating a flippant Aqua..wonderful, charming and a good listener at the start She quickly began to run from me any time she felt hurt or that something that happened.no matter how small..was reason enough to walk.
Inevitably She'd return after a number of days. Though when it came to me being offended or hurt I just had to well..get on with it. I travel hundreds of miles to see her and we have had pressure as she lives with her mum and has a child. She was dragged up and we have no space, in fact we've had 1 day in 3 months to ourselves.

If i try to take her out she complains she has tried to make time but that I don't compromise. Well, this time she says she has had enough. I feel i travel far weekly only to have her dissapear out with her friends. I take time to deal with her anger and rejection of me since I know she is not only an aqua but an aqua with a horrible past. I speak to her calmly and hear her out at all times while trying to respect who she is. After new year she flipped again and this time she has said there is too much water under the bridge. Weve both made mistakes but weve not cheated or lied as far as I know. I was in a hotel near her a week ago and she messaged me asking if I was there, I replied yes but why ? She said she was just asking. I popped to hers to collect my bits and rather than saying cheers good luck, she asked where the hotel was but made out she didnt care that it was just to make convo. She explained that working it out is too hard and she prefers to be alone..she hugged me goodbye. I offered her to the hotel after I left and she said she couldnt because her mum wont babysit.
She didnt say she didnt want to..all she did say is that she can push her feelings aside and get on with life. The next day I turned up to her work with flowers, she looked pleased...I did the same the next day but just to say bye before leaving the city and she explained I smother her and its too much. She said it doesnt matter how she feels when she sees me because its not enough ans she cant go back through it. I know she cares and that she is still attracted to me...so for the first time ever...Ive not contacted her, no calls or texts..but has not blocked me on whatsapp. I know she used to check it to see when I was online..I dont know if shes gone for good ? Any help Aquas? Thank you 🙂
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aquasnoz
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You know I always hated that they implemented that "last seen" or "last read" feature.

It's not to say humility isn't a good thing but you are too good for her and she knows this. Face the facts there's nothing you can or can't do and it is entirely up to her. I have a Libra rising so to some extent I sort of understand why you are doing what you're doing.

Best of luck however, I would advise you to just leave it alone.
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ElleSeCache
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12 Years

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Posted by aquasnoz
You know I always hated that they implemented that "last seen" or "last read" feature.

It's not to say humility isn't a good thing but you are too good for her and she knows this. Face the facts there's nothing you can or can't do and it is entirely up to her. I have a Libra rising so to some extent I sort of understand why you are doing what you're doing.

Best of luck however, I would advise you to just leave it alone.



i think she knows she holds all the cards and that you really need to hold back for her to appreciate you if she is going to.

sounds it could be a done deal though because aqua women love fiercely and loyally with all they got if youre the one, im going by my aqua moon.
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Thaicat
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12 Years

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Hi people. Thank you all. This woman claims only to have felt so strongly for someone twice..this time she told me quite often i give her butterflies. Well last time she left someone she wanted it back fiered and she pined for a year.. shes left most of them because she didnt love them but she told me i had her love her everything. I didnt cheat or lie ect i just tried to hard i think. I dont how long it takes aquarians to realise but leaving someone she still liked previously did nothing but hurt her in the end...if i mean so much i hope shel miss me enough i guess..typical libran. Pefect match is an aqua too.
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lisabeth
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aquarius female here and ex's are a no no. All those who commented are very right and spot on.
if she doesn't want you in her life, she doesn't. I'm sorry it hurts, but aquanoz is right. you are too good for her.
and to be honest, you should never go by sun sign alone and what astrologers say. Always go by your gut instinct and not keep chasing an "ideal". i dont know about other aqua females but honestly, i can't stand it if my ex's want to keep coming back, it shows a huge disrespect. severe disrespect.