2011 Retrospection and resolutions for 2012

As a personal wish list from each of us, placing our order with the universe, what do you guys want from your life next year?
At the end of last year, I remember my priorities for this year (I was living in an Asian country where the economy was low and they didn't like us white girls cuz we'z too big, fat and hairy compared to the little Asian chicks) being making a shitload of money and getting way more sex than I did in the previous two years. I accomplished both... But the last four months have been really tough financially to the point where I'm on he bones of my ass with my saved money after my life as I knew it fell apart.
So! Now! My priorities for next year: getting a job that will stimulate me to the point where I will thrive and be happy and will actually be able to stay there for longer than a year. I would like a creative job where I'm working with people who share the same creative and soul energy as I do. I tend to feel very misunderstood in the work environment.
Priority number two is making a shitload of money again and being more constructive with the money I'm making.
Sex is still a priority for next year! Haha... Is it lame that sex is on my new years resolution list? I want regular sex, preferably with the same person. I really miss relationships for that purpose! It's so convenient havin a regular plumber! I hate not knowing when the next time I'll get some is.
Also, to be more active with my hobby next year! It's location specific and this year I wasn't as near to a place I could do it as I have been in the past. Before I was doing it like five times a week (probably why I could cope with only having sex four times in two years!!! Hahaha) and this year I've only done it like 10 times, if I'm lucky! (lucky I had more sex this year as a release channel! Haha)
There it is: career, money, sex, hobby! My wish is your command universe 😄
Oh! I would also like to meet and become friends with more people who understand me. It's quite hard feeling like a circle living with a bunch of squares! I need more of people like me!

Just my humble opinion, but I do not think it is lame to want sex.

I tend to get slammed (not in a good way!) for wanting it but it rates fairly highly on Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

First you have food/water/SEX, then some sort of security - resources like a job (or for some people a spouse with a good job negating them having to get off their butt and work themselves) then we have things like friendship and sexual intimacy.

I think sex is the only need that gets mentioned twice.

I hate how people (I get hated on a fair bit for it too) get slammed for wanting sex when everyone who has had sex knows how awesome it is and how it's actually a human need. Regardless of gender. Anyone who tells you they don't like sex is a liar. In the city I'm in now, the people are so judgmental and they are so quick to slap the slut/whore label on people who openly admit to enjoying sex and are not in a relationship. Sorry, but everyone enjoys sex and needs it, so why should sex only be reserved for people who are in relationships or with rings on their fingers?
Just because I choose to embrace my sexuality rather than play it down so people don't think bad of me doesn't make me a whore or slut. It makes me human! I'd rather be called that behind my back than a prude!
My friend was telling me that her housemate has never given a guy a blowjob and she's never deviated from missionary position. And she's had relationships that -- I have no idea how -- have lasted two years! I can't wrap my head around that! How fucking boring! Somebody must refuse me oral sex for one night and they'll be out the door... Don't even get me started on how she just lies there like a starfish in order to look like a good girl! Jeez! What a snorefest! Someone tried to keep me on my back for one night and I decided not to go back there again.

How much are you screwing yourself over by not embracing your sexuality and making sure you enjoy it as much as your partner?