I met an Aries boy on a flight about two months ago. It was a short one hour flight, and he started chatting with me. We had the most engaging conversation, there was this instant spark, and chemistry. After we landed we exchanged numbers, hoping to meet if we're in the same cities ever. We kept in touch through the occasional text, one a week or so.
Last friday he texted saying he's visiting my city for work, asking if I'd like to meet that evening as he was flying back next day. I had dinner plans that night, so we decided to meet around midnight, spend time around town, and that I'd drop him off to the airport.
We met around one, it wasn't the least bit awkward. Drove around, went by a lake for a romantic walk holding hands, then picked up alcohol and got drunk. Since we didn't have a place to go, he parked the car up some alley and was all over me. I wasn't sure how to react since I barely knew him and wasn't sure what he'd think of me if I seemed so available so easy.
So I stopped, and forcibly pushed him off. He then got really forceful and tried a few more times, but I told him that this wasn't the way it should happen. He then came back to senses, and apologized. And started driving back to the airport. We laughed about what had just happened, he said he'll come back to see me, how we should talk more, atleast once a day. That we should be together on New Year, and how he's crazy about me. Finally we kissed and he left, and before leaving he took my hand and said he loves me. I laughed it off saying I wish he meant it. He just smiled, and kissed me again and left.
Now it's been five days, I haven't heard from him. And I'm okay. He's probably just a player who does this around alot. And In my head I had accepted this just as one romantic night, and fantasy. But could it mean anything more?
Yes, I am that stupidly honest with him. Website is not letting me delete my account He's saying he wishes to make an account here, so he can just lash back to everyone here. He's a writer, so he may be able to put things across better. But. what's the point.
Why are you Pisces so unwilling to accept anyone else's happiness without skepticism? Why am I still here trying to explain things to all you mean people?
You guys make me laugh, and your jealousy and envy shows through every single post.
@Ianthepisces You gotta be extremely retarded to think there is NO WORLD beyond USA!! It's a big frickin world. And I'm a qualified solicitor in the UK, and have been for over a year now. It takes six years to be exact, and I have been out of school since SEVEN yrs!!
I just shared this entire post with him on the phone and I will repeat his exact words on this "Let's go and get married right now, and we'll just post that we just got married, and these cynics can go treetrunk themselves. We are clearly better than them"
And I will personally say, treetrunk this website, and all you unhappy miserable souls! If you guys really knew us, you'd realize HE IS THE DOMINANT ONE AMONG US BOTH. He thinks we are soul mates, and maybe he's right, clearly why NONE of you understand where we come from.
I've had a bad past, but my journey has finally culminated in his arms.
I'm out of DXP for good. You people can keep ranting all you want!
I'm in love with the most amazing Pisces boy, and through all our supposed differences, we are crazy about each other and even though we've just been dating a very short while, are getting married next month. We have the most awesome connection spiritually, mentally, and intellectually. The sex doesn't have sparks, but it's warm loving and comfortable. I just know he is THE ONE!! We both just wanted some perspective on our charts, and would be grateful if someone could look over em!
@Peri & Iamthepisces - We're going beautifully right now, have overcome all those initial hurdles. I will seek you boys out if we face any storm We've talked about all these communication issues that might crop up several times, but we're both so extremely honest with each other. We've shared our fears, insecurities and are extremely intimate. We share exact same dreams, passions and he makes me reallly happy. Known each other a very short while, but I think he may be the one. Our planetary positions also match beautifully, except our sun signs. Hope it doesn't jinx.
@Peri - You know the only reason I came here instead of the Pisces board was because I needed help, not some smartass sarcastic remarks. I realized the spell error, besides I am dating a writer so I KNOW his OCD about grammar/punctuations blah dee blah. I really love this guy, and he loves me too. But somewhere we aren't getting each other, and he's getting seriously hurt in the process. I need help, not sarcasm.
So, he said he loves me. I didn't realize how sensitive he really is, but he says he's just fallen into the abyss, much deeper than I am, and it just scares me, since we haven't known each other very long. I can handle the abyss, and would fall in with him, but he still continues his friendships/rendezvous with several women, even after I told him blatantly I don't appreciate it. He said they all know about his lady-love, but he still entertains their advances openly. At the same time, he's expressed his love for me more times than I can count in a few days. I just don't know what all this means. I'm scared of falling for him, I can't handle his being with other women. I'm trying to be as mature about this as possible, and am okay with friendships, but I can't handle his flirting. It makes me want to strange him for torturing me so.
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Well, I was with a pieces boy very briefly - and that was during my chilled out, don't care a damn about the world phase and that is precisely what he liked about me - we got along very well - we used to have lots of fun together.
Pieces don't like confrontations much I think. Atleast whenever he and I fought, he would just leave the fight like that without bothering to clarify and go hang and party with his friends. Leaving me feeling like he doesn't a give a damn (he was my flatmate at university), and we wouldn't speak for two days avoiding each other in the same house, but then he'd do some GRAND romantic gesture and I'd just melt. That happened like four times in eight months. We never broke up, i just moved out after college ended, and we're still excellent friends.
Pieces and leo are very very different when it comes to solid relationships. And we only lasted because we were both not very serious. Besides i knew the moment i fall for him, it would be a mess, because as awesome as he was, i didn't/don't agree with his life style and his chaotic methods of doing things in life. And, I know he HATES nagging, being reminded what the right thing to do is. And we Leo woman all love consistently advising/lecturing the boy about how he can improve his life (at least I do). Secondly, pieces methods frustrate leos, which in turn frustrate pieces, so no good comes out.
About his taking time, truth is, only a pieces knows what's really going inside their head (and most times even they don't know what's going on inside their head). So, we can all try and figure out things together, but he'll surprise you tomm with something you never expected. Maybe, just step back, get your emotions in order, and impatience too, give him his time, if it happens great, but if it doesn't then be prepared for it, don't keep hanging on his words for him to take a decision. I know its easier said than done, but you should not give him TOO much important and let things take their own course. Just handle the whole thing gracefully
cancers and pieces are without doubt the most manipulative signs in the zodiac - but when they truly love then emotions do cloud their thinking - and they may get swayed by emotions (not 100% convinced)
which is where libra steps up - in my experience with libra's, nothing comes in the way of manipulation - they do pretty much anything to get what they want - with whoever it might be - i know a libran woman who manipulated her husband into leaving his dying mother unattended with cancer - and has been cleverly manipulating the love/career lives of her two boys (now 18 & 15) till date to ensure they don't leave her - or earn well, move away etc
and i' have close 5 libran gf's who have manipulated rich (VERY UGLY) boys into marriage for their money - the similarities in their stories is unbelievable
well i go with what ninjamu said above, its like everything happened too soon, which is something of a leo-libran thing i guess, things happen fast - but then if they fizzle then leos tend to just drop the whole thing and lose interest
i'd say step back, and just let him contact you and lead the whole thing - and trust me, he will - he'll forget about you for a few days and then he'll wonder where you are - and you'll get a text (don't reply) - let him call.
act aloof etc - leos do like things which are hard to get - don't be so easy - but dont be childish like coming late etc that's high schoolish - act busy and charming - and you'll be out on the next date in no time -
and if you do go out you have to options - either no sex - or mindblowing sex which leaves him dying/wanting for more - no midway, or the leoboy may lose interest
i've been with two libra men, and they have both had insanely high sex drives, pretty much ALL my relationship with both of them was about - there is also a libra man in my family - he's much much older but he's known as the player of the family, he had several extra-marital affairs and he pretty much flirts with anything that moves - in fact owing to my experiences with the three, I always thought libran men had the highest sex drive among all other zodiacs - but i could be wrong
lioness81 - i just found out from a common friend that he is much older than he had told me. I'm 24 and he's actually 35, whereas he had told me he's 30. Looks like he isn't all milk & ivory as I had thought him to be. I'm done with him.
I'm going to stop bothering and giving a hoot, since he's clearly not worth it. Can't believe I wasted a month of my life on that. Stupid capricorn moon.
zerox - call it lack of self esteem of wtv blah blah - is its easier to point fingers and judge - i did the same until bamm! its me on the other side
@sweethearts@pinklibra @sizezero thank you so much for being non-judgmental and helping out. its true i didn't know he was committed when we hooked up at first, but i should have stopped once i found out. i just didn't realize i would fall into this trap, it seemed to harmless at first and the sex haze took over perhaps (when i say we met online again, i meant on facebook chat, i was stupid enough to not check his status which clearly said he's in a relationship with her, which is why he assumed i knew about them) even though he's left her now i don't trust him which is why i've been seeking advice, and debating the whole thing
@lioness81 - I honestly don't know what to do. the way he rationalized it is "that he used to love me, but i left him - meanwhile he started dating someone else - but the moment i am back in his life, nobody else matters to him" - i know it sounds crap, but what is a girl to do when a guy who anyway makes her knees weak goes on using his libra charm endlessly.
Anyway, he's leaving on a work trip in a few days and wont' be back until november end. I've told him i don't want to see him until he comes back, the time apart will be great to get over him and think clearly. Besides i'll know whether he even wants to be with me or this is all just a rush of feelings.
@sweethearts - that's so true, and that is why i'm scared. At the moment i'm not in love, but i know soon I will be. And i'll never trust him, no matter how amazing he makes me feel (as of now). Its so tough to do the right thing, the last man i loved was a taurean and he totally broke my heart and that was three years ago, i dated men after him but never got over him - after three years of crying alone in the nights wanting him back I gave up on the thought of ever being over him until this libran man walked into my life and turned things around.
But I guess, I should stop things before they go out of hand, and he finds his next muse. My capricorn moon clouds my judgment completely when it comes to love and feelings.
and sorry if i was harsh with some, its just that i'm going through alot and instead of help its quite a slap in face when people just sit and judge you passing comments - everyone makes mistakes - which is why they share and seek help/advice to begin with.