ARE ARIES SHY?

Posted by bluemoon9043834
I used to be. Then I realized... if I want someone or something, I have to make it happen for myself. no one else does or will.

i'm the same way. my real nature is shy but i know that being passive won't get me what i want so you eventually gotta suck it up, swallow your pride, and make it happen. i wouldn't want her to be snatched away by some other dude while i'm over here hesitating lol but IF that happens, i'm not gonna cry over it. i'll just tell myself that it wasn't meant to be and move on lol (so yeah i guess i'm still kinda passive at the end of the day lol)

Posted by bluemoon9043834
To go deeper into this, I feel that I am the creator or architect for everything in my life. I feel that what I have and am is the result of my own creation. So, in essence, we can create anything. 🙂

i agree! 🙂

Posted by escorpianas
well then he must not care enough to create anything with me lol..he cares about inviting me but doesnt care to say hi...🙂 haha

i don't know what your situation is but some aries guys are so afraid of rejection that they won't do anything risky until they know for sure the feeling is mutual between him and the girl. so just because he hasn't asked you to be his gf yet, doesn't mean he's not into you. he's just afraid of getting his pride hurt.

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Posted by escorpianas
well then he must not care enough to create anything with me lol..he cares about inviting me but doesnt care to say hi...🙂 haha

i don't know what your situation is but some aries guys are so afraid of rejection that they won't do anything risky until they know for sure the feeling is mutual between him and the girl. so just because he hasn't asked you to be his gf yet, doesn't mean he's not into you. he's just afraid of getting his pride hurt.

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That's what's so hard about scorpios and Aries I'm so afraid of rejection and getting my feelings hurt

I did and then he hugged me... But he was with another girl she's a cancer i think this time he might be in love with a girl she actually seems nice and funny and says things like I would say lol


Guess what his fb post was

"nevermind I'll find someone like you... I wish nothing but te best for you too" lol

Posted by bluemoon9043834
I used to be. Then I realized... if I want someone or something, I have to make it happen for myself. no one else does or will.

AMEN.

I have this thing in my head now "dude what the fuck if you wont talk to her then that dude that is checking her out will and youll just keep dreaming" - this makes wonders people. Same with everything else not related to girls.

lmfao actually i got a story, first year college, this really cute girl also a freshman is walking texting has no friends, and then i see 2 feternity guys all cool showing swag and what not, checking her out, like two of them and i see that hunger for sex in their eyes - like fukcing animals, they talk to each other and i assume their talk was something like "yo check this out i would totally nail her" "oh dude hell yeah shes really hot and shes definitely easy she doesnt know anyone" blah blah blah whatever it was one started walking with the cigarette in his teeth, and it wasnt really that i liked her, i just exploded inside with competition and i came up to her first and said hey whats up are you in my math class lol.. and shes like no im not taking math and im like oh well i saw u somewhere, and shes like oh must have been orientation, and im like yeah must have been, do you have any class now? and she said no so i asked if she wanted to go for a walk lmao, and as we were walking away with her i turned my head to those guys giving them evil smuggle and i spat out my gum in their direction under my feet looking at them with disgust ROLFFFF they were furious maaaaan hahahah

ok...SO MORAL OF THE STORY...you got to talk to her and you were comfortable doing it bc you werent scared of rejection since you didnt really like her...you were going bc it was a competition not bc you really cared for her...bc if she said no you wouldnt be too disapointed...however if she was a girl you really liked..you wouldnt be so comfortable doing this...yes you would still try and what not but it wouldnt be this simple.

funny story tho lol

Posted by KingOfAries

Posted by bluemoon9043834
I used to be. Then I realized... if I want someone or something, I have to make it happen for myself. no one else does or will.

AMEN.

I have this thing in my head now "dude what the fuck if you wont talk to her then that dude that is checking her out will and youll just keep dreaming" - this makes wonders people. Same with everything else not related to girls.

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wise words my friend

Posted by escorpianas
ok...SO MORAL OF THE STORY...you got to talk to her and you were comfortable doing it bc you werent scared of rejection since you didnt really like her...you were going bc it was a competition not bc you really cared for her...bc if she said no you wouldnt be too disapointed...however if she was a girl you really liked..you wouldnt be so comfortable doing this...yes you would still try and what not but it wouldnt be this simple.

funny story tho lol

especially with the girl i like, just give me a reason to be jealous ill be there getting to know her in no time, just so some fukcer isnt getting any, in cases like that though when theres no jealousy involved i usually just try not to think, i just come up and start short convo, thats usually enough to make a big conversation

Mmmm I see.. Than this Aries doesn't really likes me... There's no way he likes me lol

he probably put you in this zone called "eh i wont get her shes way too hot" so dont stress, and how do u know his zodiac sign then if u never spoke to him

Posted by everevolvingepithet
They're Adele lyrics though, so no points for originality lol

Sssshhhh, don't tell her that. She's clearly very special to this dude. Who her roommate and "best" friend likes. Who may or may not be in love with someone else. Who I think she should clearly make 400 more threads about.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal

Posted by everevolvingepithet
They're Adele lyrics though, so no points for originality lol

Sssshhhh, don't tell her that. She's clearly very special to this dude. Who her roommate and "best" friend likes. Who may or may not be in love with someone else. Who I think she should clearly make 400 more threads about.

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lol i knew they were adele lyrics..im not stupid..but on fb people post lyrics all the time..people have always used music to express their feelings when they cant find the proper words..

Posted by KingOfAries
he probably put you in this zone called "eh i wont get her shes way too hot" so dont stress, and how do u know his zodiac sign then if u never spoke to him

I adore you 🙂 lol
and did i say that we never spoke...i dont know if i did or not..but no we actually speak all the time and he invites me to hangout with him alot too..is just that when hes around me he gets a lil more shy..its like he can interact with everyone but when he talks to me he looks into my eyes and smile..its always a smile on his face...but i can tell he is a lil shy tho..i dont how to explain completly...lol

hey gems i can make as many posts about this as i want...this is a forum where we take our doubts and ask questions...you are not forced to answer..so next time you see one of my posts dont even bother looking..since i will be talking about this..besides if i wanted a gemini advice i would go to a gemini forum...just saying...youre not forced to be here...if it bothers you ...you have the free will to not post...

Posted by escorpianas
Mmmm I see.. Than this Aries doesn't really likes me... There's no way he likes me lol

NO!!! Don't think like that! I'm THAT scared of rejection or worried that what I'm thinking is mutual interest is actually just disillusions in my head that making any moves just scares me stiff and all I can do is persistently ask them if they want to hang out and be friends with the hope that they'll take the reigns! But I am definitely WAAAAAY more coy than if it's just some random I have no interest in! It's mostly about not wanting to make a fool of myself. So I eventually get to know them, and it was just disillusionment on my part... but at least I have made new friends out of it!

It sounds like he has the same phobia as me!!!

Posted by escorpianas

Posted by KingOfAries
he probably put you in this zone called "eh i wont get her shes way too hot" so dont stress, and how do u know his zodiac sign then if u never spoke to him

I adore you 🙂 lol
and did i say that we never spoke...i dont know if i did or not..but no we actually speak all the time and he invites me to hangout with him alot too..is just that when hes around me he gets a lil more shy..its like he can interact with everyone but when he talks to me he looks into my eyes and smile..its always a smile on his face...but i can tell he is a lil shy tho..i dont how to explain completly...lol

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a) I agree with KOA, and
b) This sounds EXACTLY like what I do ALL the time when I meet someone I like!!!

Posted by lotuslily

Posted by escorpianas

Posted by KingOfAries
he probably put you in this zone called "eh i wont get her shes way too hot" so dont stress, and how do u know his zodiac sign then if u never spoke to him

I adore you 🙂 lol
and did i say that we never spoke...i dont know if i did or not..but no we actually speak all the time and he invites me to hangout with him alot too..is just that when hes around me he gets a lil more shy..its like he can interact with everyone but when he talks to me he looks into my eyes and smile..its always a smile on his face...but i can tell he is a lil shy tho..i dont how to explain completly...lol

a) I agree with KOA, and
b) This sounds EXACTLY like what I do ALL the time when I meet someone I like!!!

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Trust me: If he is like I am -- he is going through absolute torture of not knowing being able to read and see if it's mutual attraction or if it's all in his mind! You need to be brave and give him a hint that will leave no doubt in his mind -- not too direct tho! Please... do it for me... like someone else needs to be brave and make it known to me so I can not feel the torture any more!

Posted by impresswho
^^^^I think she wrote he is with a Cancer now.

Oops... my bad... nevz mind then...