Are we entiltled to love through life...—

Upon finding this message board I was delighted to see so many people expressing their opinion because in my experiance this shows you care.

On further inspection though I was a little dissapointed (however not surprised) to find the bulk of the messages were based on brocken love interests, dissapointed ex-lovers and people with in my opinion...bad attitudes developed through a misconception that love lasts forever and on every occasion you think you've found it in this imperfect world.

I guess what I'm trying to say or ask to you out there is this...

Do you think we are automatically entitled to find love in this life time just because we have already been given the gift of life...

The reason I ask is that most of these postings and replies seem to be asking questions and sure that's one of the beauties of our lives...we have the power to converse and share...but

What I mean is this...
In my opinion we are all pointing fingers and asking questions to try and ease our insecurities based on our own self doubt. If we learned to live life properly and by that I mean learning to love ourselves first I reckon we would know the answeres to those questions, or better still never find ourselves in those situations that give rise to our self dobt and insecurities.

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I second that ...?

Are you Jesus?

LOL

No, not quite but thanks for asking...hehe.

I've posted this exact message on four differant boards to see what the responses would be.

I'm assuming you guys above are all Airies...in which case you answers are perfect...thaks guys...you've reminded me to smile...😉

My opinion on this is that we don,t find love which suggests that it has been lost. Love is within us all and something we can share.
As for the pointing off fingers and asking questions to ease our insecurities.
I ask questions to find answers I don,t point my finger when doing so either. That implies a threat.
I don,t feel insecure just because I don,t know the answer. I feel confident in my own ability to find the answer.
The desire of our soul is to experience the highest feeling of love that is imaginable. That is the goal.
Love is not an entitlement it is all there is.
Good\ luck in your quest.

K

You shouldn't look for love. It should find you. If something is meant to be, then you really shouldn't have to work so hard at attaining it. Yes, everyone can love. Everyone is loved by at least one other person. And if you are single, someone is probably interested in you right now.
As K said, I ask questions to find answers. I don't like to point fingers.

Love happens when you least expect it to...and should be unconditional. The more you love and take care of yourself as well as others....the more so it will find you. The wheel of karma!

An aries woman and friend

Thanks guys...I agree with you all...BIG TIME.

I to believe that love is always there, it's inate, it's in all of us...some know how to embrace it and others are totally unaware but most of us are learning.

There that was my point and I was fishing for others opinions on the jouney, the quest, the path to love. My origional thinking was that if we just learn to live life for what it is and become happy with ourselves and who we are, that love that is inside us all will become more readily avaliable and would be easier to share and give to others.

Thanks so much for your posts guys. I am glad to have shared woth you...
Take care...
Durrie.