Arians what do you think about dating cancerians?

I'm into an aries guy now, and i wanna know what you guys think about cancerians? what do you love/ hate a about them also will you consider marrying one? because i've been dating an aries before but he cheat on me so this time burnt finger you know... so i want to make sure this will work before i fall for him headlessly!

gimme your likes and dislikes about dating cancerians

my sun, moon : cancer
sagittarius rising,

I'm july 12th and he's april 17

thanks 🙂

Posted by Rambunctious76
I can't handle Cancerians, male or female in a relationship.

The emotional intensity is too much and I already have too much of my own to deal with. It works as friends, I get along with Cancer suns like peas in a pod, but these Cancers usually have a lot of earth/air placements so it balances out with my watery placements (for OP, I am Aries sun but Cancer/Scorpio dominant).

The one Cancer male who was a friend, chased me for 3 years despite my insistence I wasn't interested. He had Cancer Sun & Venus/Leo Moon & Mercury/Mars Virgo. The guy wouldn't leave me alone and even went as far as to show up at my doorstep bearing gifts for my mother.

So really it depends on your other placements if they match with his.

wow on some level i always knew this but i crossed my fingers if someone would say otherwise but now I really think maybe I should stop it right before it blows up 😢 he is really charming though, such a shame! with ever too much on its plate seems it's gonna be a tug of war with me and his life all the time!
tks

no I wouldn't sorry. I have never been attracted to a water sign, or would I ever date one to be completely honest. I like cancer men as friends, and I enjoy their zany sense of humour. Like ram76 said, I think they're too emotionally intense. I cannot speak for all aries/rams,but I don't think I've ever met a ram that has had a long term relationship with a cancer....however, I do see really cool friendships with these two. I have wonderful male cancerian friends in my life and I only have ever seen them as my brothers. Just not my type, but they're nice people.

Posted by AriesLady8
Not my first choice. Or second, third, fourth, fifth... You get the point.
They're way too emotional and moody. It can come off like bipolar behavior. Cool as friends that's it for me.

I'm an Aries sun and moon

lol, yep...the mood swings give me a headache

Posted by AriesLady8
I feel bad for the people who love them. They can be emotionally manipulative. And I could be generalizing but from the ones who I know, they can be selfish and users. But like every sign there are negatives and positives

yeah I think they mean well, but i find cancers to be emotionally draining sometimes...because they take things so personally (overly sensitive ) . However they can also be compassionate, kind, caring etc.

Posted by AriesLady8
I feel bad for the people who love them. They can be emotionally manipulative. And I could be generalizing but from the ones who I know, they can be selfish and users. But like every sign there are negatives and positives

seems like the ones you know are quite shitty lol

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Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Posted by Rambunctious76
I can't handle Cancerians, male or female in a relationship.

The emotional intensity is too much and I already have too much of my own to deal with. It works as friends, I get along with Cancer suns like peas in a pod, but these Cancers usually have a lot of earth/air placements so it balances out with my watery placements (for OP, I am Aries sun but Cancer/Scorpio dominant).

The one Cancer male who was a friend, chased me for 3 years despite my insistence I wasn't interested. He had Cancer Sun & Venus/Leo Moon & Mercury/Mars Virgo. The guy wouldn't leave me alone and even went as far as to show up at my doorstep bearing gifts for my mother.

So really it depends on your other placements if they match with his.

wow on some level i always knew this but i crossed my fingers if someone would say otherwise but now I really think maybe I should stop it right before it blows up 😢 he is really charming though, such a shame! with ever too much on its plate seems it's gonna be a tug of war with me and his life all the time!
tks

lol don't be crazy and just go for it. while astrology can give you some inputs how to understand certain issues that could arise between 2 signs, it has never claimed that some combinations are doomed from the start. personally as a cancer i have little romantic experience with aries people, but i've had a lot of aries friends, and if i allow myself to be enough open minded, it really doesn't have to be a disaster. both emotional, both cardinal, yes it could lead to a war, but it could also lead to an understanding of the same issues from different perspectives where both of you can learn a lot. if nothing you can always be friends after.

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so you are that " someone would say otherwise" thanks for the cheery thought but if I were to be his friend/ fwb i'd do it in a heartbeat but this is for a relationship and I hate to be the one that soon becomes singed and "secretly wish they never did" person. I always invest emotions and it could get hurtful so I'm just agreeing to be wary on that front.

Cancers make good friends, they listen very well when we go on talking about how great we are etc. But in a r.ship I can't stand a cancer, I don't have the patience for their indeciveness and they super sensitive. My ex was a cancer, I hate her. Unfortunately we aries man always fall for cancer because of their femine qualities but fire and water, just doesn't work! It makes steam sometimes which is awesome but most of the time its crap! Negs outweigh the postives in my opinion.

Cancers make good friends, they listen very well when we go on talking about how great we are etc. But in a r.ship I can't stand a cancer, I don't have the patience for their indeciveness and they super sensitive. My ex was a cancer, I hate her. Unfortunately we aries man always fall for cancer because of their femine qualities but fire and water, just doesn't work! It makes steam sometimes which is awesome but most of the time its crap! Negs outweigh the postives in my opinion.

I have a female cancer friend that I absolutely adore. I dated and lived with a cancer guy and other than the capricorn I was in a relationship with, that was the worst experience ever. Extremely manipulative. Always crying and complaining. I'm like just get off your ass and live! Good people though, just at a distance.

I loooove my cancer man. My first love back on high school was cancer also! I think I get along with cancer because I can deal with their mood swings. In other words, "I can care less about them". Their moods don't phase me. And cancers put up with my temper which most can't handle. There's still a lot of confusion though because neither sign, in my case, sucks at expressing ourselves.

I meant both signs suck at expressing themselves

Posted by AriesLady8
I feel bad for the people who love them. They can be emotionally manipulative. And I could be generalizing but from the ones who I know, they can be selfish and users. But like every sign there are negatives and positives

This was my experience as well. Very manipulative. But the cancer female that I know is not like that at all.

I dated an April 17th Ram. It was a very straightforward sensual and loving relationship.

really? did it workout? how did it end?

The ones that I like have really good views on things and very outspoken which I like. I think we can have some great conversations. I do think maybe they're way to laid back though. Ummm, the moodiness, I don't think I would like but I could handle it. The cancer may think I'm way too over the top sometimes. I think maybe they'd make great acquaintances but other than that, no.