Aries and Sagg

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What would a relationship between a male Aries and a female Sag be like?

I don't know the sun and moon and stuff (still confusing), but his birthday is on April 16 and mine is November 27.


And since I'm not sexually experienced and coming from tradition I've been wondering if I'd do myself a favor by waiting till after marriage. Or at lease untill I have a ring on my finger. Because... If I date someone in my culture then, well, I couldn't, because I'd be considered 'ruined.' Not that I care to, I think it's just sexist! But, you never know right :/


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Posted by Dianasart
What would a relationship between a male Aries and a female Sag be like?

I don't know the sun and moon and stuff (still confusing), but his birthday is on April 16 and mine is November 27.


And since I'm not sexually experienced and coming from tradition I've been wondering if I'd do myself a favor by waiting till after marriage. Or at lease untill I have a ring on my finger. Because... If I date someone in my culture then, well, I couldn't, because I'd be considered 'ruined.' Not that I care to, I think it's just sexist! But, you never know right :/




I never made it long term with a Sagg. But I think it can work nicely.

Take time in getting into this endeavor. Pro and con letting go of your culture beliefs to be with someone. Make certain they respect your traditions and family. If you still feel that you would be happier outside the norm for your culture go for it. 🙂
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Posted by Kylee_is_an_Aries
Waiting until marriage is a really good idea in today's society because men will view you as a 'rare jewel' or a 'prize to be won' and that's definitely the kind of position you want to be in because it'll give you power and stuff LOL. And having sex also comes with a lot of drama in some cases so waiting until you're married is a good way to avoid that needless drama.

To be honest, I wanted to hold onto my virginity until marriage but I've been with the same boy since I was 13 and after 3 years, I decided that having sex with him would be okay and it turned out to be a beautiful experience because he didn't leave me right after LOL we're still together and our love for eachother hasn't faded at all so that's a good thing.

As far as your question, I think Aries and Sagittarius do make a great match. My boyfriend is a Sag and we seem to bring out the best in eachother. Neither of us is overbearing or melodramatic so we don't ever stress eachother out.




Thanks. That makes me feel better about allot of things.
I'm actually not a virgin :/ I had sex with my ex, for the wrong reasons and hurt myself in the end. What's weird is I never bleed so.. confusing. But then again it was a total mess and didn't really do much beside take cry and crawl around and trow up. He did take good care of me that night. And I never heard or saw from him again.
This Aries guy, he seens nice. And my younger brother is an Aries and we get along like we never were the crazy active siblings growing up beating the shit out of eachother. lol And the idea of being with someone without drama: heaven!
But I'm afraid of having sex for me. I'm scared of being hurt. I actually told my Aries guy that I don't want a relationship, just a friends-with-benifits sort of thing, but then we got into a long conversation and blah blah blah. But he was right about some things. But now that I feel like maybe I should give things a chance I don't know if I should wait of sex. Though I have heard sex does change a relationship, better or worse, depends on the relationship.

Some girl to girl advise would be great ^_^
We've been talking online. He's in Iraq. We haven't talked for a few days so I don't know if it will continue. But if it does, what impression should I give when we first meet? I want him to feel compfortable and open around me, and not scare him off with my weir
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I'm a female aries married to a sag. We just recently celebrated our 10th anniversary. It can and does work very well. Not sure about the dynamics of sag female w/male aries though. Also you need to look into both of your charts. You'll want to know especially where both of your venus mars mercury are. You'll need to know what positive and negative aspects your planets form to each others. My husband and I have a sun moon and moon moon conjunctions. Apparently sun moon conjunctions are a marriage indicator. Well I hope you guys give each other a chance. Best of luck to you.
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I'm a female aries married to a sag. We just recently celebrated our 10th anniversary. It can and does work very well. Not sure about the dynamics of sag female w/male aries though. Also you need to look into both of your charts. You'll want to know especially where both of your venus mars mercury are. You'll need to know what positive and negative aspects your planets form to each others. My husband and I have a sun moon and moon moon conjunctions. Apparently sun moon conjunctions are a marriage indicator. Well I hope you guys give each other a chance. Best of luck to you.
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😢 I don't know what to do. I really like this guy. And he says he likes me. BUT, he's supose to fly out to Ga and I live in Ca. He made a small offer to come to Ca but I told him he shouldn't because it's not worth it, that he can't just come out here for a girl he only met online, and only for two weeks, and that he should do what's important to him not someone who -might- be worth it. So... :/ What now? I don't see myself developing a relationship online, or making any emotional connection, or bond.
We agreed to just keep talking and see where it goes, and decide in the future.
Opinions?
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Aries men are very impulsive. They chase hard and love a challenge. I'm taking a wild guess that to an Aries guy the fact that this is long distance only fuels his fire as he probably sees this as a great challenge.

I would do exactly what you are already doing, and see where that leads. If it is meant to be it will find a way. When I first read your post I didn't know all of the details to give good advice. I would definitely say that if you want to give it a go you will eventually have to meet in person. Unless you are voice chatting there is no way to even know how to take text sometimes. It's too easy to read things into it that aren't always there. Hope I was able to help you, and again good luck with whatever you decide to do.
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Posted by LovelyMissAries
What year were each of you born? Time? Place of birth?

Second.... you don't have to decide right now. Just do what makes you happiest or will make you happy in the long run. It's important for Aries' to remember that.



me: 1991, 7:45, Los Angeles, Ca
him: 1989, ?:??, Atlanta,Ga


But last time we talked he told me he's been busy, they've been packing up to fly back and that's when he asked me if I would rather him fly to me instead and I said no. And I also kept a distence from him, seemed awkward. He smokes and I like being clear and honest so I let him know that it's a turn off. And to me, it's super gross. I don't know if he's busy or not, but we haven't talked since and I kinda... don't care. He's nice and I like him enough to continue talking to him, but if we don't continue I'm not hurt. But it would be cool to get an Aries's opinion about his side on our situation right now.

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Lmao pm actually. I've always been the quiet type until my last two years of high school. And I some times I don't believe I do have a temper, but I've noticed it. My Aries guy, his birthday is on the 16th while my younger brother's is on the 14th so I can imagine his personality. I feel like he would be too boring for me. I'm also slightly interested in a Sag, 27th, same birthday, 1985 and I don't even know if male Sag's have a romantic side to satisfy mine...