aries and the past

do you go back? i was seeing an aries but he finished with me and now he's seeing an ex-ex flame

NO, seems like it was his plan, I can date multiple, but concentrate on one, then I feel bad and don't know what to do.

Posted by KingOfAries
NO, seems like it was his plan, I can date multiple, but concentrate on one, then I feel bad and don't know what to do.

He also had a long-term girlfriend the whole time but they had an 'open relationship'

Now there's just this new girl!

Posted by SassyVirgo

Posted by KingOfAries
NO, seems like it was his plan, I can date multiple, but concentrate on one, then I feel bad and don't know what to do.

Do you treat them differently on dates? How do you act around the one you concentrating on?

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I act the same, but try to make it into a double date, that way its less stress and less $ to spend. When it gets serious with the girl ur after for REAL, then i just stop communicating with the rest, thats it.

He had a long term girlfriend, yet you're miffed he ditched you for another bitch?

Guys who do shit like that are not keepers. Why are you surprised? Why would you want him back? Go find a guy that actually sticks to one girl at a time. You don't deserve to be one of his side pieces.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
He had a long term girlfriend, yet you're miffed he ditched you for another bitch?

Guys who do shit like that are not keepers. Why are you surprised? Why would you want him back? Go find a guy that actually sticks to one girl at a time. You don't deserve to be one of his side pieces.

what she said

Posted by rockyroadicecream
He had a long term girlfriend, yet you're miffed he ditched you for another bitch?

Guys who do shit like that are not keepers. Why are you surprised? Why would you want him back? Go find a guy that actually sticks to one girl at a time. You don't deserve to be one of his side pieces.

he finished with the long-term girlfriend for the other bitch... so I'm like why her not me?

Because you're a piece of ass to him. You knew he had a girlfriend (supposed open relationship or not), still fucked around with him, and then expect to be considered the main course at some point?

If you want to be considered the main chick, treat yourself as such. Settling as his piece of ass on the side will get you nowhere. It's kinda like being friends zoned. Except with sex involved.

So again, you really shouldn't be surprised or asking yourself this. You put yourself in this shitty position by accepting to be his other chick in his supposed open relationship. That is never a good position to be in as a female. You get no respect and you just essentially told him that by accepting to be that girl, you also accept him to have zero respect for you. ....Hence you getting ditched for some other girl.

Learn this about men already. I will never understand women who think that being one of the many girls a guy is seeing, or being the "other woman" will get them anywhere. If he's willing to objectify his current interest and discard her whenever he pleases, you'd better believe he'll do it to you.