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My aries man has accused me of being insatiable in bed. He says I only want him for sex...and I want it all the time
He thinks this behavior came from nowhere.
I've never heard a man complain about too much sex .....let alone an aries man........never.....not ever.....
He doesn't realize that being a capricorn I just began feeling comfortable enough to be myself.......something I rarely feel comfortable enough to do in relationships.

How can I make him realize my heighten interest in sex with him is a good thing...that should bring us closer....and that I don't want want him only 4 sex

Deivil are you serious?

I suggested we see other people so I could get my needs met (just to see what how he would react) and he went crazy and said if I even mention seeing other people again he will never speak to me again. He was yelling and throwing things.....I've never seen him like this......I told him I was joking and I only want him(which is true) he calmed down a bit......I tried getting close to him.....with no sexual intentions and he snatches himself out of my grasp....says I only have one thing on my mind......I'm confused..... I had previously asked him if there anything bothering him he said no and I took his word for it as he is normally very truthful. What should I do now?

Yes, this is some selfish aspect of Aries personality. From what I see, its difficult for him to fathom this kind of role reversal where the demand for sex is coming from you and not him. Must be tough on him...just the thought of giving and not taking for a change. But thatz my extreme, one-sided view of things. Only you can verify the real root-cause.

As for the solution - seduce, tease and be more subtle. Challenge him and don't be an aggressor. Playing games is unethical but becomes a necessity with us.

Gaurav

So the direct approach isn't good in this situation..... I always thought that's how you guys liked to be dealt with....I'll try it thought.....I don't think it can get any worse than it is at the moment

Yes, direct. But not too direct. You have to leave some room for a challenge and place a high price on yourself.

And in matters sexual, such frontal approach may actually turn him away.

BTW, if Dxp is any measure, people don't exactly find much happiness with us.

Capricorns are randy little buggers aren't they..

Lol at missmorals

Ill pick an arguement later see where it goes.....I told him were not having sex anymore... I'm going celibate to prove my love 4 him he says I'm taking it too far..... he ignored me for a while .....then he tried to seduce me.....his mood has noticably changed he's very egar...I've been playying hard to get and not giving in. What is it about a challange with you aries guys.......even an obvious bait and switch....just gets your juices going. What's wrong with a woman taking the lead in the bedroom? Ps. How long should I keep this up

Guarav my aries normally makes me very happy...we click (I have an aries rising)

Now that I think of it he doesn't normally initiate cuddling and the like.......when I hold him him he seems like he can take it or leave it ......but lately I've been getting straight to the point. That could be the reason for the change in him

Roxi

I was in no way serious about seeing other people and I realize that was a wrong move. He's over that and he understands now that I was teasing. You make a very valid point about me putting myself in his shoes and I think the way I went about wanting more sex was harsh. I thought wanting more would be a good thing, since no one wants more of a bad thing. As for depriving him of sex...I sincerely doubt I can keep that up much longer, but he is enjoying chasing me around the house.