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This topic was created in the Aries forum by firebabe on Tuesday, May 29, 2007 and has 8 replies.

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@red_aries
19 Years1,000+ Posts

I just tell her i need space, then explain it to her if she keeps looking me up. Btw, your boy friend is pretty rude doing that with giving you an explanation. I would dump the girl if she does that long enough.

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@firebabe
19 Years

its ok sometimes he is working and cant answer ,but being the demanding lion i am ithink he is ignoring me, i know he needs space and i give him loads,he actually likes me to phone ,
i was just curious not looking for advice,

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Thank you, G ..

***lowers self appropriately***

I just didn't know .. I thought a question mark at the end of a sentence meant it was an inquiry that was looking for an answer.

**lowers self again .. shamefully**

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

My Aries DIL will turn the phone off or not answer it at her own discretion, deservedly, since it's her life. And it isn't out of rudeness .. it only feels rude to the person on the other end who lets thier feelings get hurt because they believe that they are in a position to determine priorities for another person.

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@motherbear
20 Years

Space I live with an Aries guy and he always ignores his phone when he does not want to be bothered. This happens often because he puts a lot of energy into whatever he is doing and loses focus with the interruptions. On the plus side though, many times when we are spending time together he will ignore everyone else for me so I do not mind that he does this. He does not ignore my phone calls if he is capable of answering and definitely gets annoyed whenever I do not answer his. I always get where are you why aren't you answering your phone. I'd much rather have a guy that tends to ignore the phone though. I've been out with someone who it seems the whole date was him on the cell and that is definitely not cool.

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@firegirl
19 Years

Without knowing more info and being an Aries myself, we would tend to just tell you we need space as opposed to being evasive. I don't know the specifics of your situation, but in general I find a lot of women tend to take this too personally and overreact. If your reaction to someone not calling you back is that they must just not like you anymore, you need to seperate your emotions and think from a logical perspective (ie., maybe their stressed about something unrelated, busy, working crazy hrs, etc). If it has been several weeks then it's different but then it's not meant to be in the first place. Aries need challenges, they want to pursue you, so the best thing you can do is not call him and make him chase you. As an Aries myself I want to achieve a lot in life and I tend to focus my energy into one area at a time, so Mon-Thurs I may be consumed w/ work and not in the right frame of mind to hang out much but it can easily change by the end of the week. Good luck, hope everything works out, I personally cannot deal with Aries men but theirs someone for everyone right?!