Aries female in love with Scorpio male

Hi, I've been dating my Scorpio for 10 months now and it has been the most frustrating relationship ever in my life (I'm 36 by the way)!!!!! He wants way to much space for me....meaning, sometimes he can go for days texting and responding to my text then next thing you know he's gone silent again. We live 45 mins away from each other but I'll be lucky to see him twice a month. I'm emotionally exhausted but somehow I can't bring myself to totally leave him because I do LOVE him sooooo!!! He's always been somewhat distant I can go away for a couple of weeks and reach back out to him and things between us would be great for the first week but then he goes back to being distant. HELP

what kind of advice are you looking for?

How do I know if I should walk away....every time I try he finds a way to pull me back.

Posted by sewdope
Are you sure that he's in to you? I was in a relationship with a Scorpio and he was all over me. It wasn't until I hurt him that he became distant. Did something happen between you two?

He told me to love him or leave him alone and he didn't have what it took to leave me that if I wanted to go then I would have to be the one to leave. I use to break up with him like every other day because I was frustrated with his unwillingness to communicate. He would go on these silent retreats and that would drive me crazy!!! I know he really cares about me but he's very private and I can respect that but he puts to much distance between us!!

Thank you sewdope....I do believe it's time to walk away because I'm emotionally drained!!!

Posted by Ariesnlovewithascorpio
How do I know if I should walk away....every time I try he finds a way to pull me back.

Walk away.

You deserve better than that. Someone who will always be there, someone who makes you feel secure and happy and stress free....good luck.

Umm role reversal Aries girl, I am a scorpio woman and I recently got rid of an aries man after 10 excruciating game playing months. He cheated he lied he was a douchebag. Move on it will be the best thing you ever did for you and he will come crying and sitting in your driveway with the headlights shined in your bedroom window. Yawns loudly....Get a Leo man they are all around fun and happy most of the time. Those scorpio men are time bombs. 🙂 Good luck sweetie!! 10 months is only a sneeze compared to a lifetime of misery don't conform to his crap.

^^ +1

As a scorpio woman, when I'm seriously interested in someone I want to spend as much time with them as I possibly can, preferably touching/cuddling. If I can't be there physically I have a tendency to want to text or talk constantly on the phone. This behavior tends to depend on them though, I'll send them a text first if they haven't but if they don't respond then neither will I. I'll make a couple of more staggered efforts before giving up. Example: When the guy I'm with now and I first met we'd text maybe once or twice every couple of days and see each other maybe once a week. After things started getting more serious that kind of exploaded and now it's rare that you'll find us apart.

So in my opinion if he's not hot and heavy after your atention then he's not that interested in having it. I actually chased a Scorpio man for years (I'm so stubborn) and he'd give me just enough attention to keep me coming back for more. Eventually I realised that I was better then that and put my big girl panties on and walked away from him. Best decision ever.

I wish you the best of luck, maybe seeing you pulling away will kick him into gear. If not, you deserve better.